Social time only

[Richard.TO]

Hi, just looking for some feedback from the Terb community.
I find myself alone this evening and would really appreciate some company. I’m not looking for “private fun”, just good conversation and company for a couple of hours with no physical contact (at a social rate). Ideally, we would meet at a nice restaurant/bar downtown and spend some time together. I’ve had social dates with SPs before but it does not appear to be a common offering by SPs. If you know of any SPs who offer this, please let me know or PM me. Obviously, if there is a good connection there may be more private meetings in the future. Thanks in advance for your comments.

 

[autumn96]

Hard to imagine any indy (or agency girl) who does outcalls wouldn't be down with this, although it may be on short notice.

 

[Richard.TO]

Hard to imagine any indy (or agency girl) who does outcalls wouldn't be down with this, although it may be on short notice.

Yes, tonight is definitely not in the works. But I’m looking for the future when I might just feel like some pleasant company and nothing else. I contacted an agency who had someone available but only at the regular rate. I know some SPs will list social time only at a reduced rate so I’ll keep looking. Thx.

 

[Jasmina]

In my experience too many gentlemen think the fee for social only should be considerably less because there is no (or less) sex. This isn't the case. The time consumed is the same for the lady, in fact an out call for social would take longer given travel time. And why is that important, you may ask? Because obviously she can't take other business during that time. Hence, we charge for time not per action (in most cases). Her expenses have not changed regardless of what is transpiring in the call. And to be clear, I am not accusing you of this, I am letting you know why some in call ladies may not be down for it, it's not the social they fear but the haggling and unclear boundaries.

As mentioned above you'd have better luck working with an agency for such visits unless it's a lady you know personally and can approach (be clear with your offer and what's expected though).

 

[calculous]

Yes, tonight is definitely not in the works. But I’m looking for the future when I might just feel like some pleasant company and nothing else. I contacted an agency who had someone available but only at the regular rate. I know some SPs will list social time only at a reduced rate so I’ll keep looking. Thx.

My suggestion would be hush agency. they do have social rates.

 

[Richard.TO]

hey there! i offer social dates: https://dawnleeto.com/socialdates

review here: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?577532-My-Social-Date-Experience-with-Dawn-Lee

Thanks Dawn, will definitely keep you in mind.

 

[Richard.TO]

In my experience too many gentlemen think the fee for social only should be considerably less because there is no (or less) sex. This isn't the case. The time consumed is the same for the lady, in fact an out call for social would take longer given travel time. And why is that important, you may ask? Because obviously she can't take other business during that time. Hence, we charge for time not per action (in most cases). Her expenses have not changed regardless of what is transpiring in the call. And to be clear, I am not accusing you of this, I am letting you know why some in call ladies may not be down for it, it's not the social they fear but the haggling and unclear boundaries.

As mentioned above you'd have better luck working with an agency for such visits unless it's a lady you know personally and can approach (be clear with your offer and what's expected though).

Thanks Jasmina, point duly noted. To each their own. I’m sure many SPs will agree with you, however, some may consider the opportunity cost of not going on a social date. I’m also sure not all SPs are booked 100% of the time and would be open to just going out for a casual dinner, drink, movie, whatever and be compensated for doing so rather than having down time. In terms of location, I prefer downtown but I’m open to other suggestions. I agree that boundaries need to be clearly established. And I do have a regular that I spend social time with but she’s out of town atm. Anyway, thanks for the feedback.

 

[Richard.TO]

My suggestion would be hush agency. they do have social rates.

Thanks, your suggestion is integral to my decision and I will check out Hush as I have zero limits on where to look!

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Thanks Jasmina, point duly noted. To each their own. I’m sure many SPs will agree with you, however, some may consider the opportunity cost of not going on a social date. I’m also sure not all SPs are booked 100% of the time and would be open to just going out for a casual dinner, drink, movie, whatever and be compensated for doing so rather than having down time. In terms of location, I prefer downtown but I’m open to other suggestions. I agree that boundaries need to be clearly established. And I do have a regular that I spend social time with but she’s out of town atm. Anyway, thanks for the feedback.

to add to your point, Dawn Lee's social rate is half her regular rate

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Hi, just looking for some feedback from the Terb community.
I find myself alone this evening and would really appreciate some company. I’m not looking for “private fun”, just good conversation and company for a couple of hours with no physical contact (at a social rate). Ideally, we would meet at a nice restaurant/bar downtown and spend some time together. I’ve had social dates with SPs before but it does not appear to be a common offering by SPs. If you know of any SPs who offer this, please let me know or PM me. Obviously, if there is a good connection there may be more private meetings in the future. Thanks in advance for your comments.

Was going to say that for last night, a little short on the notice, but there are plenty of ladies who offer social date rates. Myself included. Find some ladies you like, if they don't have it on their site, then a polite email/PM that simply requests to know if they have a social date rate, would be acceptable.

As stated, most social date rates are much less than the usual hourly rate, so keep that mind when shopping. $20 of an hourly rate is not a social date rate. For those of us that do entertain social date rates. I have to disagree with Jasmine because of that. Those of us who offer those rates specifically, do so knowing we have reduced it and we do that because we know we are working less during the time. I do not fault women who do social dates at their regular hourly rate, but that is not what the OP is looking for and there are some of us who offer the social rate date in the way the OP is expecting.

I and others have even offered specials because we are the one with tickets to a show or a game and offer an extended date to special guest because of it. I know I have. As with anything in this industry, there is a market for everything and an SP for each market.

 

[squeezer]

In my experience too many gentlemen think the fee for social only should be considerably less because there is no (or less) sex. This isn't the case. .

You must really believe the majority of men have "fool" stamped somewhere on their body. LOL

 

[Jasmina]

Not at all. Everyone seemed to have missed the "considerably" part of that sentence. No sex worker enjoys being haggled with.

You must really believe the majority of men have "fool" stamped somewhere on their body. LOL

 

[Richard.TO]

Was going to say that for last night, a little short on the notice, but there are plenty of ladies who offer social date rates. Myself included. Find some ladies you like, if they don't have it on their site, then a polite email/PM that simply requests to know if they have a social date rate, would be acceptable.

As stated, most social date rates are much less than the usual hourly rate, so keep that mind when shopping. $20 of an hourly rate is not a social date rate. For those of us that do entertain social date rates. I have to disagree with Jasmine because of that. Those of us who offer those rates specifically, do so knowing we have reduced it and we do that because we know we are working less during the time. I do not fault women who do social dates at their regular hourly rate, but that is not what the OP is looking for and there are some of us who offer the social rate date in the way the OP is expecting.

I and others have even offered specials because we are the one with tickets to a show or a game and offer an extended date to special guest because of it. I know I have. As with anything in this industry, there is a market for everything and an SP for each market.

Thanks for the feedback Jessica, that’s a great suggestion. And you are quite right.....to quote Warren Buffet, “Price is what you pay, value is what you get”. Cheers!

 

[Richard.TO]

Not at all. Everyone seemed to have missed the "considerably" part of that sentence. No sex worker enjoys being haggled with.

Just to be perfectly clear, I for one never “haggle” with the fee set by an Sp. I either accept it or simply move on....but if the Sp asks, I’ll let her know why I’ve declined. This is true regardless of the service I’m enquiring about. I believe the majority of men also fall into this camp. There is an equilibrium point for every service because of basic economics ie supply and demand.

 

[calculous]

I dmed Richard, but here is something to consider ladies

I deleted my original reply as it was verbose but here is the gist

Any escort that was generous with their time and made the experience more human and humane for me did far better financially in the long run from me.

Anytime someone was a clock watcher was a never repeat.

 

[Richard.TO]

I dmed Richard, but here is something to consider ladies

I deleted my original reply as it was verbose but here is the gist

Any escort that was generous with their time and made the experience more human and humane for me did far better financially in the long run from me.

Anytime someone was a clock watcher was a never repeat.

+1...

 

[doggystyle99]

Thanks, your suggestion is integral to my decision and I will check out Hush as I have zero limits on where to look!

I am not from Canada or living there, in summer i have a plan to visit Canada. So i don't know anything about Canada and rates in general. I would like to know how much you consider reasonable price per hour for only social time? And since it will be in outdoor, how you feel more comfortable to verify yourself?

Social date rates are usually 1/3 of the regular rates, Rates vary between $80-140/hr and sp’s have a minimum 2 hour booking needed, although all other expenses are paid for by the client, which is one of the reasons is social time rates are considerably lower.

 

[HornyTeddyBear]

doggystyle99 hit the nail on the head that others above did not include - social rates often (and expected) to have minimum's that are much higher than the chosen ladies SP's rates.

A past favorite of mine (now retired) was $150/hh and $250/hour for her SP rates, $120/hour with 3 hour minimum plus paying for taxis (later ubers just before he retired) that she arranged herself and I included in the cash donation. I would see her almost weekly for her $250/hour SP visits and then once a month switch it up for a 3 hour dinner evening together in which she happily included snuggling and kissing when we were alone before and after dinner...often teasing I should 'tack on an hour of naughty fun for dessert'.

Just realized how much I miss her, happy she retired and moved on from this world, and thankful for the time I had with her.


Good luck Richard.TO and let us know how you make out (remove the names of the ladies if you wish of course, just like to know how this thread turns out for you).

 

[calculous]

I know, these are the best relationships I have had and have ongoing now with two “retired” ones who have chosen to just see a few of their favs.

I see them for 3-6 hours at a time and it’s relaxing. I rediscovered that this is what I really enjoy and am missing in my life. Everything is better when you’re in an arrangement like this.

The best part is they are both very reasonable and modest.

Feel free to pm me if you’d like further advice. For me this is the next level of hobbying.

 

[Richard.TO]

Thx HTB, yes, in the past, I’ve also had the pleasure of spending time with a provider socially but she has now retired and I really miss her. I know that feeling.

Calc....I agree with you, it is definitely the next level. I feel I need something more than just the physical part (which btw I do really enjoy); I think I also need a personal, deeper, connection to fill a void in my life. I’m not sure if that can be achieved but I was very close to having that with Ms X before she retired. Anyway, lets see where this goes.