Due to an interesting thread about dating dancers
So you want to date an escort eh? Well be prepared it's not all it's cracked up to be behind the scenes. I've done it for about 3 and a half years total (yes I'm generalizing from one experience, this isn't exactly a scienctific study, lol).
Breakdown: Student, 22-25 worked Christmas vacation and summers much more frequently although saw regulars throughout the year. Smart, was career driven, very physical/ exercise fanatic.
Drawback : needed a lot of emotional support. I can't express the amount of times she had bad/annoying clients (rude, treated her like meat, rough, poor hygiene, not following restrictions, ect.) which got in her head so badly that she couldn't work the rest of the day even when booked. Not only bad for business but bad for me as she would call the office and demand I stop everything and talk with her for quite a while (just not possible in my profession).
Sex: average, not too frequent. Maybe 4 times a week. Definately not on busy work days although she liked to be kiss, held and massaged all the time.
Benefits: I loved that she always kept in shape and had a good sense of humour to her (necessary to survive in the business). We set up a great investment plan (lots of my earning and hers was lock boxed away until graduation) and everything was going great. Even her studies were good (escorting is a great job for a student as the money is good and it's not as time consuming as other professions). Of course no shows are a pain as well as folks that are very rude over the phone.
Downfall: Started taking coke to get up for clients. Began using coke on off days. I left when she refused rehab. Something is definately wrong when a beautiful escort is hitting a guy making 52K gross like myself for money. Lasted 3.5 years. She still has a year left of a nursing degree but is hooked on coke and not really into studies right now. Still escorting.
As the boyfriend: she can't tell very many people in her life about any issues regarding the profession, so you'll hear a whole lot of it. I was the ONLY one who knew. A few bad dates can take a whole lot of time to get over, and lead to anxiety issues. Worse off as all this is being dumped on you, it's tough to transfer it to someone else because in my case nobody knew my girl escorted. You need a strong mind as hearing your girl flirting on the phone with a reg (actress mode), and knowing she is with x amount of guys sexually is a LOT tougher then it sounds. You have something with her that they don't but it's showtime with them and real time with you.
It takes a very strong minded girl to escort and not let it tear one's soul. It also takes a strong minded guy to back up such a girl.
Overall it's a crazy life. I doubt I'd ever do it again.
Any other experiences out there people would like to share?
So you want to date an escort eh? Well be prepared it's not all it's cracked up to be behind the scenes. I've done it for about 3 and a half years total (yes I'm generalizing from one experience, this isn't exactly a scienctific study, lol).
Breakdown: Student, 22-25 worked Christmas vacation and summers much more frequently although saw regulars throughout the year. Smart, was career driven, very physical/ exercise fanatic.
Drawback : needed a lot of emotional support. I can't express the amount of times she had bad/annoying clients (rude, treated her like meat, rough, poor hygiene, not following restrictions, ect.) which got in her head so badly that she couldn't work the rest of the day even when booked. Not only bad for business but bad for me as she would call the office and demand I stop everything and talk with her for quite a while (just not possible in my profession).
Sex: average, not too frequent. Maybe 4 times a week. Definately not on busy work days although she liked to be kiss, held and massaged all the time.
Benefits: I loved that she always kept in shape and had a good sense of humour to her (necessary to survive in the business). We set up a great investment plan (lots of my earning and hers was lock boxed away until graduation) and everything was going great. Even her studies were good (escorting is a great job for a student as the money is good and it's not as time consuming as other professions). Of course no shows are a pain as well as folks that are very rude over the phone.
Downfall: Started taking coke to get up for clients. Began using coke on off days. I left when she refused rehab. Something is definately wrong when a beautiful escort is hitting a guy making 52K gross like myself for money. Lasted 3.5 years. She still has a year left of a nursing degree but is hooked on coke and not really into studies right now. Still escorting.
As the boyfriend: she can't tell very many people in her life about any issues regarding the profession, so you'll hear a whole lot of it. I was the ONLY one who knew. A few bad dates can take a whole lot of time to get over, and lead to anxiety issues. Worse off as all this is being dumped on you, it's tough to transfer it to someone else because in my case nobody knew my girl escorted. You need a strong mind as hearing your girl flirting on the phone with a reg (actress mode), and knowing she is with x amount of guys sexually is a LOT tougher then it sounds. You have something with her that they don't but it's showtime with them and real time with you.
It takes a very strong minded girl to escort and not let it tear one's soul. It also takes a strong minded guy to back up such a girl.
Overall it's a crazy life. I doubt I'd ever do it again.
Any other experiences out there people would like to share?
