The nice thing about a Terb party, is that many of the attendees lack social skills (such as me). That is why we are on Terb. And you may not know anyone who will be there. But it is not like a regular Christmas party, where you have to mingle, it is a strip club, so you can start by going in, not talking to anyone, and watching the stage show, just like a regular strip club. As you get more comfortable, you can start to mingle, if you choose.I would like to go feeling kind of shy though.