I'm about to hit a milestone, and I am NOT dealing well with it. I'm in decent health, everything still works ok most of the time,am ok, job/money wise,so should be fine. I find it very depressing. I don't FEEL(well some when looking in the mirror....lol) like the number, but that number is killing me! Both parents died not real old,and I think that has some bearing. Its like, is this all the time left?? Mothers side lived real long,other than her, but fathers, young, so could go either way I guess. Feels like a race to the end for christs sake! haha I can see why people have a mid life crisis, if I'm a little late. I'm beginning to loose my shit. If I didn't have people relying on me,I'd probably already have, but am a reliable guy. I feel like selling everything, and saying fuck it, party on. Anyone offer any insight how they dealt with it? Insults are cool too....lol. I know not the best place to ask but WTF,can't hurt.
So how do you older guys deal with getting old?
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As long as you have your health, live your life to the fullest.
Take your vacations and bang some young pussies. It's the fountain of youth!
Remember, you are only as old as you feel
https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/healthtrending/you-really-are-as-old-as-you-feel/ar-AAnLf7U
Take your vacations and bang some young pussies. It's the fountain of youth!
Remember, you are only as old as you feel
https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/healthtrending/you-really-are-as-old-as-you-feel/ar-AAnLf7U
Get comfortable with life, if you have your health you are way ahead of the game. If you have a routine, stay with it and add on. Do not stop or slow down. Add some special interest to your life. It is not when it ends, it is how it ends. I know people that die a long slow lingering death in the hospital or grabbing their chest in the street. Then there are others,( like in my family - both side ) they like long and prospered then they take a nap and get the call to the great beyond. Genetics are on my side, this is by chance. Your heath is up to you. I just came back from my 25k. nightly bike ride to prop up my health, what are you doing to improve your health?
Ya fuck that I'm gonna do everything I can to not end up like that in a hospital or home....noooo way. Both parents went slow, no way........Pull the plug man! lol Health wise......could do more. I'm a bit of a workaholic so that doesn't help.. I know people that die a long slow lingering death in the hospital or grabbing their chest in the street. . Your heath is up to you. I just came back from my 25k. nightly bike ride to prop up my health, what are you doing to improve your health?
Not that much younger, but trust me, the thought has been on my mind ALOT sadly.Finding a companion 40 years younger may help.
Accept it. Aging happens to everyone. If you are healthy you are ahead of the game and better off than most. I agree with the recommendation to retire while you are healthy and active enough to enjoy it. I am 66. I retired at 61 and love it. I had three friends that worked to 68 or 69 and died within two years of retirement. That's why I retired at a younger age. Take a vacation, develop a regular relationship with a good SP, exercise and do as you please. I recommend the mature SP's. They are just better at all aspects of the game.
What really gets me about getting older is that I'am single, completely content, in pretty good health, sitting on a decent pile of cash, doing work I happen to enjoy with a box of Cialis readily available. And yet, when I do take a day off, seeing SPs seems like a lot of effort. Dating seems like a nightmare and all I want to do is to catch up on my reading and ride my bicycle. Maybe go to the lakeshore and look at the water. It's unsettling.
You're not alone in that thinking. I agree 1000 percent!What really gets me about getting older is that I'am single, completely content, in pretty good health, sitting on a decent pile of cash, doing work I happen to enjoy with a box of Cialis readily available. And yet, when I do take a day off, seeing SPs seems like a lot of effort. Dating seems like a nightmare and all I want to do is to catch up on my reading and ride my bicycle. Maybe go to the lakeshore and look at the water. It's unsettling.
You are only as young as the woman you are feeling!you are only as old as you feel
At some point you have to accept certain changes in your physical being and mindset. Physically you can keep things up to a point but you just can't be 21 anymore. You want to be but just can't.
Mentally as well you won't want to put as much effort into some things because well, been there done that and what once was new is now tired and old. And yes that includes chasing skirts.
Don't try to stay in youth. Instead lead your life as you want to, not what you like others are doing.
Mentally as well you won't want to put as much effort into some things because well, been there done that and what once was new is now tired and old. And yes that includes chasing skirts.
Don't try to stay in youth. Instead lead your life as you want to, not what you like others are doing.
You can't change it so enjoy life to take your mind off it. Take a vacation, go country hopping, build a relationship with a babe in the third world, enjoy good food, spend time on your non-sexual hobbies, watch some live shows, Netflix, jerkoff frequently, take walks on the beach, join a recreational club, and sleep whenever the you want for as long or little as you want.
Age is just a number. You are only as old as you think you are. I am in my 70 but I am very open minded and all my lady friends and all my golf friends are in their mid 30s. I blend in much better with the youger generations who are up to date with modern world and I learn a lot from them. One of my good buddy at work is only 19 and we talk like friends. They all make me feel young and they all love my dirty jokes. I have also taken them to my go to spas and get some got hooked. I just can't communicate with older people in their mid 50s and up, they are so pretentious, too old fashioned and so outdated. Just keep yourself fit. Do regular exercise at least 4 times a week. Muscles are made to move, use it or lose it. Live your life worry free, stress free. Don't stress over small things. Keep yourself busy, be active and go to semi legit spas 2-3 times a week and get pampered by young ladies. You will feel much younger and happier.
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I'd say only do that if you know how to keep yourself busy. The number of people I know who retired and then almost immediately croaked has me believing the idea that keeping yourself busy is the surest way to keep your heart beating.My advice is to retire early enough that you have time to develop new skills and ways of spending your time enjoyably.
How old were these "early" retiree friends that croaked soon after retiring?I'd say only do that if you know how to keep yourself busy. The number of people I know who retired and then almost immediately croaked has me believing the idea that keeping yourself busy is the surest way to keep your heart beating.
haha! Your amazing! We should hang out sometime...lol.Age is just a number. You are only as old as you think you are. I am in my 70 but I am so open minded and all my lady friends and all my golf friends are in their mid 30s. I blend in much better with the youger generations who are up to date with modern world and I learn a lot from them. One of my good buddy at work is only 19 and we talk like friends. They all make me feel young . I just can't communicate with older people in their mid 50s and up, they are too old fashioned and so outdated. Just keep yourself fit and live happy. Live your life worry free, stress free, don't stress over small things. Keep yourself busy and be active. You will feel much younger and happier.
