So I sort of covered this from a different point of view. IF you are a men in the scale of 11/10 Tinder will give you a super club membership for free. But now they are going to charge people 500 usd. For regular folks. It is amazing how people are really gullible. Not sure if it is the brand attention or just confused or I am in club syndrome.
To me it makes me wonder if people are afraid or shameful in having a FWB, PWD or SA. I think most men see SP as a negative. I rather go with a SP fast, easy and no drama. Of course U.S has weird laws so no risk.
FWB or NSA - not strings attached, has more obstacles to jump by, but once you get it you have to thread carefully. But there is another one which I call Partners with Drama.
PWD are people that hook up for 3 months - 8 months or 3 - 5 years. Their children ( and family like parents or siblings ) will never meet, or the theory is not to. They hang out every other weekend, some travel for a week for vacation. But if the woman wants to get out of the situationship, but doesn't want to call it off because she doesn't want to look bad in front of her friends [ how will they really know she didn't dump him] she will cause burst of drama, until he dumps her. She will go out of her way to meet his kids and tries to look like she wants marriage. This way his children will question the father and he will dump her. Some men resist others don't. They have their reasons, wild sex. At the same time these people are looking partner therapy validation. It doesn't work from what I have seen. It causes more damage specially when one of the partners is confused or codependent.
SA I don't even know where that goes in the relationship scale.
So Tinder is preying on peoples lonely, desperate, low self-esteem and silly hope. Snake oil. I say go see a SP/MP.
To me it makes me wonder if people are afraid or shameful in having a FWB, PWD or SA. I think most men see SP as a negative. I rather go with a SP fast, easy and no drama. Of course U.S has weird laws so no risk.
FWB or NSA - not strings attached, has more obstacles to jump by, but once you get it you have to thread carefully. But there is another one which I call Partners with Drama.
PWD are people that hook up for 3 months - 8 months or 3 - 5 years. Their children ( and family like parents or siblings ) will never meet, or the theory is not to. They hang out every other weekend, some travel for a week for vacation. But if the woman wants to get out of the situationship, but doesn't want to call it off because she doesn't want to look bad in front of her friends [ how will they really know she didn't dump him] she will cause burst of drama, until he dumps her. She will go out of her way to meet his kids and tries to look like she wants marriage. This way his children will question the father and he will dump her. Some men resist others don't. They have their reasons, wild sex. At the same time these people are looking partner therapy validation. It doesn't work from what I have seen. It causes more damage specially when one of the partners is confused or codependent.
SA I don't even know where that goes in the relationship scale.
So Tinder is preying on peoples lonely, desperate, low self-esteem and silly hope. Snake oil. I say go see a SP/MP.
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