Single men. What has your dating life been like for you guys so far recently?
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Seeing an SP is dating...one hour at a time, with fewer headaches too.
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I gave up on dating a few years back and fully embraced being single.
I have a few ladies I have something good with so that's all the companionship I need.
I have a few ladies I have something good with so that's all the companionship I need.
A lot of your posts seem to be about relationships.
I suspect, but do not know for sure, that many Johns are aromantics. Technically a part of the LGBTQ + community but unlikely to participate in the Pride Parade.
What Does Aromantic Mean?
Aromanticism means experiencing little or no romantic attraction to other people. Learn more about being aromantic and what it means in relationships.
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I don’t think many Johns book escorts as a result of a lack of success in relationships, although that is something many relationship-oriented people want to believe.
A lot of guys book escorts because they like some of that naked frictional feeling they get with a lady, enhanced even more when she is smoking hot.
Notice that this is quite different than an asexual, another group that is technically part of the LGBTQ + community, but whose participation in the Pride Parade has been sporadic ever since a nun marched in one to celebrate her asexuality and many said mean things to her regarding her employer.
A majority of people are relationship-focused, and insist on evaluating everything from a standpoint of relationships, including the special lust that Johns have for their favorite hookers. I don’t think it really works, since the entire commercial sex transaction is not based on romanticism. Of course some men drift toward aromanticism later in life due to lack of sexual attraction to women of a similar age to them, or older. They are probably also a bit bewildered by the younger aromantics. But hey, just like the Pride Parade, we should all learn to accept each other.
And none of this means a guy shouldn’t repeat with his favorites and be friends with them. It just isn’t based on the same cultural norms as a romantic relationship that culminates in the shopping for a ring that should cost a certain percentage of his expected annual earnings. The aromantic is just not capable of really understanding those cultural norms.
Yeah, and more and more women are choosing to stay out of relationships(actually not something new). Which means that there is less going on for the men unless the remaining women have suddenly become intense male swappers.
it's hard to have a social life if you don't smoke and drink
They are not all women, but a co-worker has met a lot of people by joining a jump in the lake in winter group.
Interesting. I suspect there is a wide range depending on part on culture and subculture. Currently in gen -z it appears transactional is the norm (and historically in the west overall was the norm as well)A lot of your posts seem to be about relationships.
I suspect, but do not know for sure, that many Johns are aromantics. Technically a part of the LGBTQ + community but unlikely to participate in the Pride Parade.
What Does Aromantic Mean?
Aromanticism means experiencing little or no romantic attraction to other people. Learn more about being aromantic and what it means in relationships.
I don’t think many Johns book escorts as a result of a lack of success in relationships, although that is something many relationship-oriented people want to believe.
A lot of guys book escorts because they like some of that naked frictional feeling they get with a lady, enhanced even more when she is smoking hot.
Notice that this is quite different than an asexual, another group that is technically part of the LGBTQ + community, but whose participation in the Pride Parade has been sporadic ever since a nun marched in one to celebrate her asexuality and many said mean things to her regarding her employer.
A majority of people are relationship-focused, and insist on evaluating everything from a standpoint of relationships, including the special lust that Johns have for their favorite hookers. I don’t think it really works, since the entire commercial sex transaction is not based on romanticism. Of course some men drift toward aromanticism later in life due to lack of sexual attraction to women of a similar age to them, or older. They are probably also a bit bewildered by the younger aromantics. But hey, just like the Pride Parade, we should all learn to accept each other.
And none of this means a guy shouldn’t repeat with his favorites and be friends with them. It just isn’t based on the same cultural norms as a romantic relationship that culminates in the shopping for a ring that should cost a certain percentage of his expected annual earnings. The aromantic is just not capable of really understanding those cultural norms.
Women who make money ( or have money ) don't get involved. But I met a few who do ( get involved in a variety of ways ) but in many different forms like FWB, ONS ( One Night Stand) - Parents passed away and they have many assets.
Have been hurt in many different forms in all levels.
I agree with the male swappers. Most have an art drama script on how they do it.
The ones with no money or know they will get sick are trying to get married. Just like men. So my above comments apply to both genders.
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