Some of the closer ladies I been with have actually shown me requests they get by txt. I have to admit some of these requests are not very savvy and sometimes ignored completely.
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Perhaps I'm wrong, but I didn't really see any of the ladies's replies saying you can't ask if they offer certain services, most were just saying it would be nice if you little more tactful about the way you ask it.
Like Jessica mentioned, there are so many words in the english language, I'm sure there's a way to ask for what you'd like without using the usual list of acronyms.
There seems to be a good number of men comparing this type of service to that of material things, such as toppings on a pizza and buying an Iphone or a car. None of those things are nearly as intimate or personal as the service we provide(and as Titalian mentioned, they aren't illegal either), so when we ask if it's possible to change your wording to something a little more inviting, we're doing it so we can feel more comfortable with the idea of meeting you, so it feels a little less like someone just ordering "toppings on a pizza".
I don't expect you to just show up and hope you get what you want, you want to make sure you're receiving the services you would like, especially for the high price you're paying, but there's ways to go about it that isn't so dehumanizing as "hi, u do dfk, bbbi, dt, cim, cof, cob, fs, greek, etc?" without even a hello first.. it makes me want to ask them "would you like fries with that?"
Like Jessica mentioned, there are so many words in the english language, I'm sure there's a way to ask for what you'd like without using the usual list of acronyms.
There seems to be a good number of men comparing this type of service to that of material things, such as toppings on a pizza and buying an Iphone or a car. None of those things are nearly as intimate or personal as the service we provide(and as Titalian mentioned, they aren't illegal either), so when we ask if it's possible to change your wording to something a little more inviting, we're doing it so we can feel more comfortable with the idea of meeting you, so it feels a little less like someone just ordering "toppings on a pizza".
I don't expect you to just show up and hope you get what you want, you want to make sure you're receiving the services you would like, especially for the high price you're paying, but there's ways to go about it that isn't so dehumanizing as "hi, u do dfk, bbbi, dt, cim, cof, cob, fs, greek, etc?" without even a hello first.. it makes me want to ask them "would you like fries with that?"
lmho !!perhaps i'm wrong, but i didn't really see any of the ladies's replies saying you can't ask if they offer certain services, most were just saying it would be nice if you little more tactful about the way you ask it.
Like jessica mentioned, there are so many words in the english language, i'm sure there's a way to ask for what you'd like without using the usual list of acronyms.
There seems to be a good number of men comparing this type of service to that of material things, such as toppings on a pizza and buying an iphone or a car. None of those things are nearly as intimate or personal as the service we provide(and as titalian mentioned, they aren't illegal either), so when we ask if it's possible to change your wording to something a little more inviting, we're doing it so we can feel more comfortable with the idea of meeting you, so it feels a little less like someone just ordering "toppings on a pizza".
I don't expect you to just show up and hope you get what you want, you want to make sure you're receiving the services you would like, especially for the high price you're paying, but there's ways to go about it that isn't so dehumanizing as "hi, u do dfk, bbbi, dt, cim, cof, cob, fs, greek, etc?" without even a hello first.. It makes me want to ask them "would you like fries with that?"
vBulletin Messagehmmm... I found eight ads for bbbj providers ... aside from the fact that I'm not in the list (lol).... how is that not helpful?
Sorry - no matches. Please try some different terms.
I'm on both sides of the fence here.
First of all - with the amount of money I'm spending, I'd prefer to get what is an optimal experience for me, so knowing the menu is a big benefit to me choosing one lady over another. Pre-bill 36, I'd absolutely ask for rates and services. Post-Bill 36, rates only. Which sucks. Too many guessing games. But you've got to adjust to the world we live in, so I'm trying.
On the other side, I definitely understand that every woman deserves respect. I've always made sure my messages include a friendly greeting at the beginning and a "please" at the end. I HOPE that makes the difference to you, but please let me know if it doesn't. I'd certainly like to correct my behaviour if it's not coming across as polite and respectful.
First of all - with the amount of money I'm spending, I'd prefer to get what is an optimal experience for me, so knowing the menu is a big benefit to me choosing one lady over another. Pre-bill 36, I'd absolutely ask for rates and services. Post-Bill 36, rates only. Which sucks. Too many guessing games. But you've got to adjust to the world we live in, so I'm trying.
On the other side, I definitely understand that every woman deserves respect. I've always made sure my messages include a friendly greeting at the beginning and a "please" at the end. I HOPE that makes the difference to you, but please let me know if it doesn't. I'd certainly like to correct my behaviour if it's not coming across as polite and respectful.
when you order a pizza, they give you a menu of toppings, dont they?
unless joy smith is going to make that illegal too eventually...
unless joy smith is going to make that illegal too eventually...
That's what I go for. Just adds a little more humanity to the interaction.I'm a huge proponent of the
And just to provide some counter feedback to this thread, if the lady responds to me with
"$100/HH $180/H"
And that's it? I almost definitely won't choose you. Respect goes both ways. If you include even something as simple as a "Hey hun" or even a smiley face, it instantly makes me feel like you're a personable and genuine person.
I guess some don't understand that when you are cordial polite and respectful in communicating with a provider, you are most likely going to get
a quicker response as well as setting up the mood for the encounter.
a quicker response as well as setting up the mood for the encounter.
THIS ^^^^
NOT this text correspondence from an unknown individual.
2014-12-29 2:12 PM
Rules rates
(main webpage link sent)
It doesn't tell me your rules
The site is very comprehensive if u take the time 2 read it! Please do so & call me 4 an app't when ur ready.
I just need to know if you do daty cim sw
That is against Bill C-36. Please don't waste any more of my time!
I don't know what the hell your talking about but ok
This took all of 5 min's in total and I considered responding back that taking the time to educate himself re: Bill C-36 and then contacting me again in an acceptable manner might be beneficial to him, but given his poor attitude thought better of it as it would most likely be a further waste of my time. Sad but true is that some people don't get it and never will.
Some helpful shorts for service providers when receiving texts and emails from their older clients:
lMDO. Laughing my dentures out
gHA, got heartburn again
Omsg. Oh my, sorry, gas
Ggpbl. Gotta go, pacemaker battery low
Fwiw. Forgot where I was
Atd. At the doctors
BFF. Best friend fell
Byot. Bring your own teeth
Btw. Bring the wheelchair
Ommr. On my massage recliner
Roflacgu. Rolling on floor laughing and can't get up
Ttyl. Talk to you louder
Hope these help with the dialogues
lMDO. Laughing my dentures out
gHA, got heartburn again
Omsg. Oh my, sorry, gas
Ggpbl. Gotta go, pacemaker battery low
Fwiw. Forgot where I was
Atd. At the doctors
BFF. Best friend fell
Byot. Bring your own teeth
Btw. Bring the wheelchair
Ommr. On my massage recliner
Roflacgu. Rolling on floor laughing and can't get up
Ttyl. Talk to you louder
Hope these help with the dialogues
we aint talkin about pizza here, but guessing you must order the same old bargain baloney pizza.
Ladies I try to be a gentleman and asking for a "menu" seems crass and disrespectful...that being said there are definite activities that are a must for any session and I can only afford to go every 6 weeks on my budget. Could any of you ladies come up with tactful ways to ask the question? Whether it be bbbj, cim, swallow, greek....etc.
I want to treat you with dignity and respect but at the same time I need answers as well
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I want to treat you with dignity and respect but at the same time I need answers as well
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BUt that's the point...when I pm I want to do it in a respectful manner that treats the ladies with dignity and answers my questions as well
To me this is all about marketing. The pricing structure and advertising that an SP adopts, determines the type of clientele she attracts. There are plenty of SPs on this Board who market themselves by graphically setting out the various services that they offer. There are others (mostly upscale) who merely hint at the "delicacies" on offer.
Rather then complaining about poor customer behaviour, SPs who believe they are receiving rude and inappropriate inquiries would be better served reflecting on and adjusting their marketing and pricing strategies. Clearly they are attracting the wrong target market.
Rather then complaining about poor customer behaviour, SPs who believe they are receiving rude and inappropriate inquiries would be better served reflecting on and adjusting their marketing and pricing strategies. Clearly they are attracting the wrong target market.
It's not about not using acronyms(though you should try to avoid it if possible for your sake because of the law) it's about being polite in the way you ask, instead of making it sound so impersonal.
I don't care if you want to "splooge" all over my face or fuck my boobs raw, just try and be gentlemanly when asking for it.
You can ask if cim is offered, but instead of the conversation going like this:
"Rates? u do dfk and cim?"
Try this instead:
"Hi there! Your ads really caught my attention, and I'd love the chance to spend some time with you. Do you mind if I ask for some more information?"
She says sure, you ask, then ta-da! You're given your answers! Easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy!
(I do have to say I appreciate the amount of details you put in your scenarios though!)
