Simple Request

[Samantha Jones]

Im sure I'm not the only one who doesn't like to be cast as a menu lady. I know all of you have your needs and desires, which is why I always state that I am fairly open minded and easy going.
Needed to vent. Thx~

Comments welcomed

 

[bolt.upright]

Sounds fair to me Lexi.

 

[LisbethNova]

I completely agree!

 

[Jiffypop69]

I don't see a request... Are you saying you'd rather not get asked about your menu ?

 

[Malika Fantasy]

Receiving (even after the new bill) emails asking
Do you do dfk, bbbj, cim, cof, daty, dato, greek, squirting, toys, sw are never fun to read.

It's exactly like a groceries list.
I check items when I put something in my basket, should I check the acronym when it will be perform once in the bedroom?
We are humans beings, not menu items.

 

[Hailey♥4U]

Hmmmmm.....I wonder if we all got the same PM.

 

[kstanb]

better to use euphemisms;
safe girlfriend vs GFE, PSE

or even better; write a "scenario" about what you do; it doesn't neeed to be specific; just enough to hint

 

[thumper18474]

Thats why every guy should already have his list of ladies
No disappointments
No surprises
Cus we already know what to expect

sorry but I'm not gonna blow 4-5 bills on a
oh..I'm pretty open minded

 

[whitewaterguy]

When booking an sp, for a two hour session, is it too much to comment in a text, that I would like 2sog?? A repeat provider I was trying to arrange a sessions with came across mildly offended when asked this in a text I sent.

The first time her and I got together for 2 hrs, it was only 1 sog plus a massage, so for my next visit I wanted some preassurances of a second shot...the session never happened as her reply was.....we will have to see how the session evolves....fuck that and fuck ever seeing her again

 

[Jiffypop69]

Is asking about restrictions Okay, or is that tABoo too now ? (sincerely)
I can see how the "menu" question could be a bit annoying. I'm sorry if it rubs some the wrong way. I usually just ask for "Rates and Menu" for girls I can't find reviews for.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I'm one of those guys who asks about a few specific menu items (when not already clarified by a lady's website or otherwise). Its not that I see SPs as 'mcflurries', it's just that I don't want to spend an hour being disappointed because I am not getting pleased as I would like. To me, there's nothing worse for both client and provider than spending time clock-watching. A few perhaps awkward questions can avoid a disappointing hour.

I agree to some extent, however since the beginning of this board some men have thought it was acceptable to share in detail what went on during their session with a lady. This has led to other men asking the same old tired questions about the ladies menu. I have always found this practice disrespectful and rude. However with all respect Malika there are alot of SPs that advertise their services like a menu even after Bill C36.

 

[HardPHX]

Receiving (even after the new bill) emails asking
Do you do dfk, bbbj, cim, cof, daty, dato, greek, squirting, toys, sw are never fun to read.
It's exactly like a groceries list.
I check items when I put something in my basket, should I check the acronym when it will be perform once in the bedroom?
We are humans beings, not menu items.

Seriously ladies? We can't negotiate or discuss prices and we can't ask any questions about any services? Why don't we just do an electronic money transfer over and call it a day?

No matter how you ladies want to flower it up, it's a business transaction but you can't handle the business portion of the job?

My turn to vent I guess.

 

[AmberRose]

Seriously ladies? We can't negotiate or discuss prices and we can't ask any questions about any services? Why don't we just do an electronic money transfer over and call it a day?

No matter how you ladies want to flower it up, it's a business transaction but you can't handle the business portion of the job?

My turn to vent I guess.

You do know it's illegal for you to discuss sexual services in explicit detail now right?

Now I don't think it's wrong of you guys to casually(and not explicitly) ask if a specific service you are looking for is offered, since I do know it would be disappointing to show up and find out it isn't.
But I think what the other lady's were getting at(and maybe I'm wrong, this is just my pet peeve) is when some gentlemen ask "what's on your menu?". We aren't restaurants, and if you want us to list off all the services we offer in acronyms, you'll be in for quite a long list. As much as we understand this is a business, it is nice to make it feel a little more intimate and personal, so listing off acronyms is not really a way to get us hot and bothered! ;P

We can't really put in explicit detail in our website and ads what we offer, and you guys can't really ask with the new law, so we need to find a common ground that isn't insulting to us, but still gives you the information you need. What that common ground is, I'm not yet sure!

 

[thumper18474]

You do know it's illegal for you to discuss sexual services in explicit detail now right?

Now I don't think it's wrong of you guys to casually(and not explicitly) ask if a specific service you are looking for is offered, since I do know it would be disappointing to show up and find out it isn't.
But I think what the other lady's were getting at(and maybe I'm wrong, this is just my pet peeve) is when some gentlemen ask "what's on your menu?". We aren't restaurants, and if you want us to list off all the services we offer in acronyms, you'll be in for quite a long list. As much as we understand this is a business, it is nice to make it feel a little more intimate and personal, so listing off acronyms is not really a way to get us hot and bothered! ;P

We can't really put in explicit detail in our website and ads what we offer, and you guys can't really ask with the new law, so we need to find a common ground that isn't insulting to us, but still gives you the information you need. What that common ground is, I'm not yet sure!

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^THIS...is how the OP should have worded her post^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[Samantha Jones]

I like the general scenario idea

 

[zefroggy]

This is a great idea.

I never ask for a menu or use acronyms. It's actually a big turn off for me.
I usually get what I want and more from my session explaining my expectations and style. English is my second language and I just take my time to use references anyone can relate too. Usually musical ones.

 

[Marla]

I realize it is against the law but I don't take offense to being asked what I offer. I think there are gag callers that want a laundry list so they can just get off but there are serious callers too, who earnestly want to make sure there are things like dfk and bbbj being included. From the male's point of view, it can be rather dubious to say the least when making an appointment as to what and what is not included and how to ask for it. From the female's perspective, she can agree with what he is suggesting rather than listing menu options and hopefully not be offended by it. I don't think any of us are able to carry on business and keep within the framework of the new law in all honesty.

 

[zefroggy]

That's really interesting actually. And I think both parties can benefit from an explanation of the type of person or session they are looking for as it makes it seem more personal and not just the same old "babe whats ur rates" text.

And at least when I don't hear back from someone I know she was able to decide that she would not enjoy her time with me and therefore I would not have enjoyed it either.

 

[nobody123]

Honest question for the ladies: If a hobbyist has certain peccadillos or fetishes he would like to indulge, what can he do? I don't want to be an asshole and I don't want to offend anyone I'm hoping to spend nekkid funtimes with (even if I do pay for it), but I also want to know if you're cool with me bringing the clown nose and seltzer bottle. So what should I do?

 

[Titalian]

I basically use the reviews or I pm the reviewer and I rarely see providers that haven't been reviewed. There is also attitude which is important in a good encounter and you can't ask about that by txt.