Shy SPs???

[drlove]

I saw a lady the other night, and she asked me to close the curtains before the session started. Now, I live on a reasonably high floor, and I assured her that no one at street level would be able to see inside. Then she said, "yeah, except for the people in the building across the street with binoculars. LOL"
Well, I said, if that's the case, I should be charging admission! Seriously, considering the line of work they're in, I can't imagine a lady being worried about someone possibly catching a glimpse of our activities. Opinions, anyone?? I'd especially like to hear from the ladies on this.

 

[ig-88]

I think the vast majority of SPs don't want the world knowing about their moonlighting. And I think that privacy should be respected.

Doesn't take much to shut the curtains and blinds. You can even buy some at Home Outfitters. Just shut the curtains and use interior lighting to be safe.

BTW, I've always wondered about downtown areas where high-rise hotels are across the street from office buildings. I can only wonder what workers in those office buildings see.

 

[Questor]

Seriously, considering the line of work they're in, I can't imagine a lady being worried about someone possibly catching a glimpse of our activities.

I don't know what her line of work has to do with it. Please explain this comment. Do you mean that because she is receiving money from you in exchange for sexual services, she should be willing to give a sexual performance for anyone who cares to watch, for free? Or is your point that all sex workers should be exhibitionists by nature? Sorry doc, I don't see where you are coming from.

 

[S.C. Joe]

You might be surprise on how many people with nothing to do look in other people windows with binoculars. In fact these high tech camera's today can take great pictures of stuff far away.

Would you really want some jerk to have a few pictures--maybe even a video--of you with a SP ?


Only time I kept the window open is in a hotel on the water-like in Niagara Falls--where theres NO WAY anybody can look in. It was cool with 2 SP but 1 did joke "what if the window washers come by"

 

[Questor]

You might be surprise on how many people with nothing to do look in other people windows with binoculars. In fact these high tech camera's today can take great pictures of stuff far away.

Very good point. These days, working girls should be extra careful because it isn't just casual peepers they have to worry about, its people who set up mics and cameras to sell product on the internet. Just what the girl wants, a video of her having sex all over the internet.

 

[drlove]

I don't know what her line of work has to do with it. Please explain this comment. Do you mean that because she is receiving money from you in exchange for sexual services, she should be willing to give a sexual performance for anyone who cares to watch, for free? Or is your point that all sex workers should be exhibitionists by nature? Sorry doc, I don't see where you are coming from.

What I mean is, the likelyhood of anyone catching even a small glimpse is remote, and even if they did I don't think the view would be all that great. My point is, I have a hard time believing that SPs by nature are shy about their bodies. Personally, it doesn't bother me in the least. Hell, I've even done it in front of the window in a second floor suite at The Toronto Rennaisance Hotel (Skydome) hoping for an audience! *lol* However, back to the topic at hand, even if someone happened to see something, who cares???

 

[drlove]

Very good point. These days, working girls should be extra careful because it isn't just casual peepers they have to worry about, its people who set up mics and cameras to sell product on the internet. Just what the girl wants, a video of her having sex all over the internet.

So, does that mean a request to tape the action for personal viewing enjoyment is out of the question??

 

[Questor]

What I mean is, the likelyhood of anyone catching even a small glimpse is remote, and even if they did I don't think the view would be all that great. My point is, I have a hard time believing that SPs by nature are shy about their bodies. Personally, it doesn't bother me in the least. Hell, I've even done it in front of the window in a second floor suite at The Toronto Rennaisance Hotel (Skydome) hoping for an audience! *lol* However, back to the topic at hand, even if someone happened to see something, who cares???

I remember talking with an SP who was quite young and quite new to the biz. She was talking about how she would much rather give full service in private than strip in a club in front of a bunch of people. I completely understand. You, on the other hand, have a bit of an exhibitionist streak in you.

btw, I remember your performance in the skydome. The Red Sox were in town. It looked like you were having fun.

 

[Bear669]

Of course there are shy SPs!

I saw a lady the other night, and she asked me to close the curtains before the session started. Now, I live on a reasonably high floor, and I assured her that no one at street level would be able to see inside. Then she said, "yeah, except for the people in the building across the street with binoculars. LOL"
Well, I said, if that's the case, I should be charging admission! Seriously, considering the line of work they're in, I can't imagine a lady being worried about someone possibly catching a glimpse of our activities. Opinions, anyone?? I'd especially like to hear from the ladies on this.

I admit it is a puzzle sometimes, but people have all kinds of quirks (oh... and SPs are people). Women in particular are raised with all kinds of inhibitions, and while SPs have discarded some key ones- it is by no means consistent.

I have chatted with VERY experienced gals who:

still sometimes get stage fright and cancel.
Stripped in the past, but giggle and cant face a camera (even when they have control of the pics).
Blew a guy on a dance floor in Cannes, but wouldnt wear a mini skirt in private.
Posted hot facials, but would never do a pic of pussy.
Get off on fantasies of gang bangs, but would NEVER say a word during sex
..,,,

Never be shocked when they say NO. Just be glad they say yes so much.

 

[Doctor Zoidburg]

I once saw an SP in Montreal.............

................We were in a high rise, facing another high rise. When I suggested that we close the curtains she said, " Ohh. no, no one will see us its OK." I plugged every erifice in her body. She did not mind who saw us.

 

[apprentice]

Only time I kept the window open is in a hotel on the water-like in Niagara Falls--where theres NO WAY anybody can look in.

yeah, i remember that day.. it was a great fucking Maid of the Mist trip

 

[OnTheWayOut]

BTW, I've always wondered about downtown areas where high-rise hotels are across the street from office buildings. I can only wonder what workers in those office buildings see.

I know someone who works downtown in a hi-rise across from a hotel. He said they get shows on a regular basis, he said he figures it's an incall location or something because it's the same room that the shows come from. AFAIK he's not a hobbyist. But he seems to enjoy the frequent entertainment.

 

[goalie000]

I visited an SP just after she moved into her new place and she had no curtains on the windows at all. She said we're on the 25th floor who's going to see and who really cares. We had a great time in the bright sun light.

 

[xix]

friend

I saw a lady the other night, and she asked me to close the curtains before the session started. Now, I live on a reasonably high floor, and I assured her that no one at street level would be able to see inside. Then she said, "yeah, except for the people in the building across the street with binoculars. LOL"
Well, I said, if that's the case, I should be charging admission! Seriously, considering the line of work they're in, I can't imagine a lady being worried about someone possibly catching a glimpse of our activities. Opinions, anyone?? I'd especially like to hear from the ladies on this.

Maybe she has a friend who lives across the building from you.
OR her parents live in the other building.
For example I will not go to neighborhoods where I know workers live in that area or friends. TO risky.

Get the picture now?

 

[Don]

What I mean is, the likelyhood of anyone catching even a small glimpse is remote, and even if they did I don't think the view would be all that great. My point is, I have a hard time believing that SPs by nature are shy about their bodies.

I bet most SP's aren't shy about their bodies as long as they can control who is seeing it. They probably don't want to risk being spotted naked in a hotel room with a guy for the same reason they blur their faces on their as photos - they wish to keep their line of work private.

 

[Hockey_MLnut]

I was with an SP that liked to have the curtains open and the lights on inside (dark outside) So people could see.

I had no problem with it if someone wants to watch go ahead. No one for my neighbours to tell anyway.