Should we mention terb to the gals?

[kinks_r_us]

Hello there fellow funsters....just wondering...what does everyone else think about this...should we mention when we see an mpa/sp that there might be a review (following the session) of them in terb? I've mentioned this a few times....and actually got mixed replies.
Also, has anyone gotten any "extra" benifit (financial or otherwise) by mentioning that they are members of terb and would/could give "exposure", or a positive review, about anyone in particular??
Just wondering, having not seen this topic discussed before...

 

[thundergod]

I think this could be taken as extortion...for more or better service if told to the lady beforehand. Just my 2 cents.

 

[calloway]

I would never openly use Terb in advance of a session. How do you do a proper and fair review when you're using this as a possible motivator?

Five SP's know my handle and they were the ones that brought up the topic of Terb. Only when I was comfortable with them did I confirm the Calloway name. That's not bad though... 5 know... 429 do not...

 

[slyguy]

It has been discussed in the Toronto section. If your motive is "extra" benefit of any kind... lets just say there are no kind words to be said.

The positive review or negative review holds no value to any terb member in this scenario.

 

[GENTLEMAN_Wloo]

I fully agree that if it is being used as a method to enhance services, it is wrong, and saying there was going to be a review beforehand could "potentially" negatively slant the openness of the review. On the other hand, some ladies who are members of TERB I believe want to know who you are on TERB before they meet, as it tells them something about you...whether the person has given fair reviews, whether the person is a jerk or not. Granted how one acts on TERB is not a guarantee that in person they are different...although if they are a jerk on TERB, chances are they are worse in person.

My $0.02!

P.S. Calloway...only 429!

 

[kinks_r_us]

Well...thanks fer all the advice!!
Actually, lately, since being on terb, I have managed to chat/pm, etc. all the gals I've went on to meet. So, since we have chatted back and forth a number of times, I end up letting them know that it is Moi, from terb!! And yes, I think we both feel more comfortable this way. (or all 3 or 4 of us, as the case may be.)
I'ts been over a year since I've met an sp or mpa that WASN'T actually also a terb member and that I haven't read reviews on and conversed in private. (except those gals in Costa Rica....)

429 eh?? Calloway and I must be in competition.

 

[ceo8888ca]

Tell me where the party is?

And yes, I think we both feel more comfortable this way. (or all 3 or 4 of us, as the case may be.)

Wow, all 3 or 4 of us ? I am afraid that you have just had a slip of your tongue - Mr Kink ?

 

[edsock]

I've only spoken to one sp about terb and it was her asking me if I knew about it. I feel a little uncomfortable losing that anonymity of posting reviews, feelings etc. I suppose if I was seeing a sp regularly I might share

 

[mercedes]

I have to agree with only bringing it up if asked. If the mp or sp is asking about it they problably already know, are members etc. In the spirit of discretion and anominity, this is also a great way to find how people are finding you without any sensitive information being shared.
Just another point of view!

Mercedes

 

[Tonia_Lynn]

I personaly don't think it should be mentioned because if the lady knows your a member she may try and be someone or something that she's not and after a good review others will want to check her out as well then be disapointed because the treatment will most likely be different then what the member (s) have received. If I were to be a client i would want to know that the treatment that I am receiving is genuine and not made up for publicity purposes.

Tonia

 

[kinks_r_us]

Re: Tell me where the party is? In Costa Rica, for starters.

Wow, all 3 or 4 of us ? I am afraid that you have just had a slip of your tongue - Mr Kink ?

Actually, in Costa Rica a few months back, 4 gals and myself (my God, I'd LUV to live there)...and, yes, the gals call the guys Mr. ...literally, no matter what your name is, all they call you is "Mister".
Another tidbit about Costa Rica is that "escorting" is legal, however "pimping" is not!!
The LE will bust an mp because they view someone working the front desk as a "pimp", however a solo SP is perfectly legal,as long as age of 18+...go figure!!!