Should we lie

+1. Well put Erin and thx for sharing thus is has the potential to become an artform when done right.




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Use discretion. The problem is that unfortunately, lying and dishonesty is cemented into the foundation of this industry. There are differing degrees of safety offered by each provider, and some are more capacious for discretion than others.

Exploration and expression is remarkably easier when we sense we are safe; if a lie helps, whatever the situation is, it's not the worst thing committed. It's also possible to admit to one's dishonesty honourably when an opening presents itself. I hope we aim for honesty and mutual respect but the reality is we need to keep ourselves safe.
 
Personally, I have never lied when asked about marital status, hell I always wore my ring. Then again, I never really gave a f*** about trying to hide anything. I use my real name, never used a hobby phone and now that I am single there is no need to change. BTW, hobbying was not the downfall of the marriage lol
 
HA! Too many shoes, too many hand bags and not enough blow jobs in return (and by not enough I mean none). The math was just too true to ignore.

Well I experienced what you went through, The Blow-job part anyways. Dosen't that suck!!!! :frusty: