Wow...this is great feedback. There is no harm to being open and sharing what we think of each other. This is actually constructive since it is being done respectful and in the end only benifits the discussion even if the worst things are being said. There is no harm as the majority of us do not know each other.
I think that person would be your wife then, no? Or at least it should be.
Gotta say, I don't get it. You feel bad lying to SP's but not you wife?
Yes I thought about this many times...and discussed it many times and been criticised by other hobby brothers which I appreciate as well. I can also say that maybe she would have a better life if I did not lie to her with somebody else. Or maybe her life might be worse. How would I feel if I knew she was messing around. Am I taking her life? Am I a murdara
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You and 10 other people may say yes...but I say no. I see how happy we are together,we share tears, laugh and can still connect on a mental level and people think we are happy and have a good life. Our faughter is happy...why spoil this??? Of corse if she knew it would devistate her but she does not know. I always come back to her regardless if she treats me good or bad. If I thought she was my soul mate maybe it would be different.Maybe it wouldnt. I know that I love to meet other women through this industry as they push me past my emotional and intellectual limits and keep my spirit alive. Without this I feel like a lion in a cage and spirit feels like it is fading away.
Yes I accept that I am a selfish mofo.
I really think this is the last place where we should be judging people for their choices.
Thanks for defending us and for your kind words. I only think this kind of criticism helps...
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As for wanting intimacy and non YMMV services based on being the true you, you need to find someone who cares enough about you. An SP/MP simply won't. That is what your wife is suppose to be for.
No I do not want to do this. There is a lot more power to having this through paying for a service and having it end when you choose. This hardly happens in real life and I like paying for it and it eliminates a lot of drama.
Why should I not have the choice to pay for this if a girl is willing to provide it.
I'm confused about how telling an MPA/SP that you're single gets you better mileage. Someone mentioned if the provider thought they were 'available' they would get better service.
Sometimes we all need to be reminded that GFE means girl friend experience, not girl friend eventually.
Whats the confusion here. The 20 something year old MPAs in top MPs generally are not into FS unless we go to the places that offer this.
There are MPAs who do not feel right to fuck with a married guy who has kids. Simple as this. Their conscious bothers them a lot less when they know you are single. Yes I did have this discussiom with one.
I tried this many times to different degrees, I observe and it does happen all the time. Maybe I am still green with 5 years of hobbying but I see it all the time..Yes it should be service orientated... But fuck me please, we are only people and regardless of how tough we think we are or thick skinned strange shit happens all the time. There is nothing wrong with this.
Titalian;505******** said:
In some cases, I don't think its for better mileage, but more for ones own integrity, meaning to say
that your not a complete asshole, as your not cheating on anyone. Again if their telling the truth.
Yes, I agree. Yes this should not happen but it happens all the time. Clients are judged, girls are judged and this affects how we treat one another.
I am not looking for FS most of the time. Fuck yeah it is nice when the MPA pulls out the secret menue and I am totally horny but there is so much more to this hobby then this one aspect.
Again I say there is a huge difference between SPs and MPAs in my mind. The important part is that both parties are respectful, know each others boundaries and obtain that they need from this industry.
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