Should SP's return calls from their call display?

[Juan Guapo]

If the question is not clear, here is what happened to me.

Last Saturday I called an SP from one of the local ( I'm in BC ) listings, she did not answer, about 20 minutes later i got a text from her asking if I wanted an Appt, the text took me off guard, I felt it was way out of line, and i gnored it. Then a bit later after that she called, I actually wasn't immediatly sure who it was, but when I realized it was her I was horrified, I quickly asked her not to call me again and hung up.

Now I know many of you have hobbying phones, and I used too, but I found it to hard to explain to the SO, so I just have the one cell...

SP's should never call back or text back without prior approval, this I think is basic hobbying etiquette...

and YAYA blah blah blah, I know I am a cheating bastard and ..... go ahead trolls chastize me.

Your thoughts?

 

[havingfun]

This type of behaviour shouldn't happen; but it often does.

 

[Ladyraven]

I will never return a call . and if there has been some time since i have recieved a text (more than 15min) I will not respond back.. it should just be common sense in this business

 

[Rockslinger]

i got a text from her

The problem with text is that it leaves a "paper trail". Just ask Tiger Woods, who apparently has fallen on financial hard times now.

 

[lurkerdick]

I don't mind at all, it's like any other business call back. Why should it surprise you? You got a discreet text back, my phone is always on vibrate no tones, no one else knows when I get a call unless I pick up and if I do in company the conversation is always business like

 

[mickmasterson]

Discretion, first and foremost.

SPs and MPs should not be contacting us unless we have clearly stated that they can.

 

[Incall]

no SP should ever return a call unless you leave a message that it's ok. What if someone by mistake calls her number then realizes it's not who they wanted. Can you imagine if the SP calls back and you wife could answer the call, and this guy may have never evn thought about SP's, etc.

 

[heatherstouch]

Definately NOT! I will never return a call unless I have been left a message to call that person back!! Discretion is what u pay us for!! Sometimes if I pick up my phone at the last ring , the phone will dial the number. Depending on who it is I will let it go through, only because they just called within seconds. And of course only if I know that person well enough.
SP's should make no mistake on this one!!! Just as I turn off my "work" phone when I am with friends or family!

 

[Moraff]

I don't mind at all, it's like any other business call back. Why should it surprise you? You got a discreet text back, my phone is always on vibrate no tones, no one else knows when I get a call unless I pick up and if I do in company the conversation is always business like

It's not quite like any other business. Someone's SO may not question Lowe's calling, but they may well have questions about Eve from Satan's Delight doing so...

I would expect the same treatment I provide. No message left with call = no return call.

 

[moviefan]

Discretion is what u pay us for!!

Exactly. No, the call should not be returned unless the caller said it was OK.

 

[oldjones]

Aren't texts a tad different? With a voice-call, if someone answers there's a convo, or there is not. No one says, "Hello…, hello…, hello, I wanna book a session, hello… and then waits in silence for a reply. But that's exactly how texts work. How long before a text response passes it's Best Before time?

 

[danibbler]

That's not exactly what's being asked here.

In any case, no, never ever call back unless asked to!

how hard is it to hide a sim card from the wife...you don't need to hide a phone. just pop the sim card into your phone when you want to use it and take it out when you're done.

 

[dirkd101]

No! they should not. Discretion, is paramount for most of us.

 

[AllishaMyst]

I never make a call back unless a message has been left to do so. Txt I will but only in a short time frame. I can't understand these young ladies who don't do there research first on how to approach this situation

 

[bishop123]

The problem with text is that it leaves a "paper trail". Just ask Tiger Woods, who apparently has fallen on financial hard times now.

Really, I thought he had more money than g_d?

 

[Rockslinger]

Really, I thought he had more money than g_d?

That was before his text messages were made public. Now he is broke, has a bum knee and is 35 years old. His best days are behind him. Ahead, only decay and death.

 

[massman]

Absolutely not. Not without specific instructions that you want them to But it happens. This is why many have broke down and got a hobby phone. It is surprising how many girls dont have a clue about this. For the record, ive never had an agency do this..