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Okay, so here's my thought process:

1) Lots of guys bitching about the lack of detail in my reviews

2) Many SP's know me and my Terb handle, through reviews, booking on Terb, PM's, etc.

3) I'm concerned SP's I'm seeing for the first time are worried about getting a bad review. I am not looking for anything extra, or leveraging reviews for service, and don't want any ladies worried about that when they see me. I don't want to even appear to be that kind of scumbag.

So what do you guys, and gals, think? I'm torn about this, as I know good reviews help my fellow hobbyists, and also help the lady being reviewed. And having said all that, if I come across something blatantly bad, like B&S, I would still post it.

So do I keep reviewing when I see new ladies?
 
Keep reviewing.

Not all reviews have to be poetic and full of detail, just so long as they give the necessary information.

"She looked like her pictures, had a very pushy personality, and I got a classic GFE. Rate was $250. Here is the link. XXXXXXXXXXX"

Everything I need to know is in the above sentence, as lame as that review might be. If you wish to remain anonymous, stop booking through TERB, and just call the lady on the phone.
 
It's your review... why give a shit about what others say? :p

If you feel you need to give more details... then perhaps you shouldn't be so open about telling SP's about Terb and your handle.
 
calloway said:
It's your review... why give a shit about what others say? :p

If you feel you need to give more details... then perhaps you shouldn't be so open about telling SP's about Terb and your handle.
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not thinking of giving more details. It's just not my style. But it sounds like you guys, at least, are getting value out of them.

As to ladies knowing my Terb handle, it's more for their security. They can get a feel for me from my posts. This is obviously more important for independents, who seem to prefer a Terbite clientele (we're apparently better than most). Anyway, looking forward to more feedback.
 
Keep reviewing. Say what you want to say. No matter what, you will never please all of the people all of the time.
If you do a review as a 1 player suggested, some will say it's too short, not enough detail but others will love that it got right to the point and was clear and concise.
If you write a short story or a romance novel, some will say it's too long, I don't have time to read all that blather and others will compliment you for having entertained them with your brilliant prose.

Either way, keep the reviews coming.
 
I'm not saying that -- but you know someone will jump in and say that you should stop posting because your identity has been "compromised."
 
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Armagettin said:
Change your handle, don't compromise your identity and post reviews.
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Exactly.

Don't talk about fight club. Don't acknowledge fight club. "What fight club?"

To all "hobbyists": stop talking about TERB and reviews and when writing reviews, don't give details that can identify you and your handle.
 
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The issue here is very simple.
Whatever you say, it is clear that by stating your TERB handle, you're expecting to receive better service and/or a discount. I mean, the ladies aren't stupid, as soon as you identify yourself as a well-known and well-respected reviewer, they immedately realize that you're not an average hobbyist and is going to expect a certain level of service

Therefore the solution to your 'moral dilemmia' is very simple
Don't talk about TERB. If you are a clean, well-behaved gentleman, there is absolutely no need to identify yourself as a TERBite, since 9 times of 10, you're going to receive above-average, to excellent service anyways regardless of TERB, particularly if you do your research ahead of time

Even an idiot would realize this. I'm guessing that you're seeking some sort of external validation in order to make yourself feel better about identifiying yourself as a TERBite
 
Untouchable said:
Why would you ask people to give you permission to review some sp's?

This is a public forum, and was made to post reviews, regardless if others don't like it there is always a handful who like your reviews (such as me) because it gives me useful info.

Take it easy.
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I think the more accurate intent of this thread was to inquirer if he should tell the SPs that he is a TERB member (or make it clear through the other methods stated), and with by extension give the impression that the SPs performance will be reviewed.

I agree with the majority...no

does that even work? will you get better service if you tell the SP you are a terb member? maybe i should poll this question. but it may cause a slippery slope.
 
mur11 said:
The issue here is very simple.
Whatever you say, it is clear that by stating your TERB handle, you're expecting to receive better service and/or a discount. I mean, the ladies aren't stupid, as soon as you identify yourself as a well-known and well-respected reviewer, they immedately realize that you're not an average hobbyist and is going to expect a certain level of service

Therefore the solution to your 'moral dilemmia' is very simple
Don't talk about TERB. If you are a clean, well-behaved gentleman, there is absolutely no need to identify yourself as a TERBite, since 9 times of 10, you're going to receive above-average, to excellent service anyways regardless of TERB, particularly if you do your research ahead of time

Even an idiot would realize this. I'm guessing that you're seeking some sort of external validation in order to make yourself feel better about identifiying yourself as a TERBite
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Dude, you missed the point. I never tell them my Terb handle in a session. Many have found out because I've booked them through Terb, PM's, etc. I don't go in saying "I'm fucking Captain Superman from Terb so you better give me good service". I don't talk about it during a session. Period. Why the fuck would you talk about reviewing someone? Spoils the mood, puts pressure on, all the rest of the bullshit.

I should have known the focus would end up being "Don't talk about Fight Club", but when ladies are on here posting, you get into a conversation, leads to a couple of PM's, next thing you know there's a booking. Guess what? She knows your handle. Do we talk about Terb or reviews? No.

So, since no ladies have responded, I did my own personal research. Guess what? Ladies prefer the clients they get from Terb versus other venues. We tend to be better guys. Makes them more comfortable, versus some random fuck-nut calling from a pay phone and then threatening to stab them (Lisa's thread from earlier).

Anyway, the issue that led me to the dilemma was all in my own head, so there's no issue. I'll keep reviewing. And even if they know my handle, it won't change the review, which will be honest and straight-forward. I haven't fucked any one around, hobbyist or SP, and I won't. Not what I do. And I will continue not to do details, except in exceptional circumstances, and only with the permission of the SP. YMMV.

So, I've received great mileage whether they knew I was on Terb or not. My "moral" dilemma is over, I'm clear in my own mind. Thanks for the feedback.
 
Years ago I posted my true feelings about a terrific hour long sesssion that I had with Marlene (MILF). I got slammed for shilling for her, perhaps from guys who didn't click with her, perhaps from guys who never had even seen her. I ended up deleting the review which of course generated a bunch of "see, you were shilling otherwise you would not have deleted your review"

My opinion is to question why, especially if we find a gem, do we need to even post a review?
 
sailorsix said:
My opinion is to question why, especially if we find a gem, do we need to even post a review?
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Because if you hobby and use this board and don't post reviews you are a short sighted leech .

Reviews are selfish endeavors in that they are your contribution to keeping the good girls working and weeding out the bad ones . You are doing them more for your own benefit then for the rest of the members who you could care less about as they really are nobody to you .

If you aren't a shill then I think you need to have enough balls to tell people to go fuck themselves if they accuse you without proof . There will always be different experiences conveyed in reviews about an SP but that is to be expected .

I see this board shrinking and one reason I would attribute it to is the constant laying of the shill card which may be by design . We always hear how people are reluctant to review for fear of the shill label .

Yes there are agencies that shill and independants and pimps that shill and that is unfortunate . I would suggest that unless you have personal experience meaning a review you posted then members be banned for calling shill just because they think it might be one.

It's too bad men can be so easily intimated by some bushwackers but is obviously the reality .

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