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drlove

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I've been thinking about re-establishing contact with one of the ladies that I "blew off" a few months ago. What happened was, we met and I decided I'd like to see her again and wrote her an e-mail later and told her so. She replied back and said she felt the same. Then work got so busy that I never got around to the second date.

I figure I could e-mail her now and say that I never heard back from her, and I was wondering what happened since I was still interested.
 
I would try to regain contact, although, I would be honest with her, tell her upfront that you got all wrapped up in work & had no time to see her,,,
 
Gentle Ben said:
I would try to regain contact, although, I would be honest with her, tell her upfront that you got all wrapped up in work & had no time to see her,,,
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You know, I thought of that. However, she could come back and ask why I waited so long, and why I didn't have the courtesy to tell her that at the time. Truth is, she would have a point there. I figured that the other way would give me an "in".
 
I believe in honesty is the best policy,,,,,,and what if she happens to read this and put 2 & 2 together ??:eek:

also, it's a business relationship, She's happy for your $$, You're happy with her company, I doubt she will care all that much that you were awol for a few months
 
Gentle Ben said:
I believe in honesty is the best policy,,,,,,and what if she happens to read this and put 2 & 2 together ??:eek:

also, it's a business relationship, She's happy for your $$, You're happy with her company, I doubt she will care all that much that you were awol for a few months
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LOL!! You're right. I just thought I could manipulate it so that my method will work. E.g. She told me that she'd like to see me again, but did not contact me specifically to arrange another date. I could say I was waiting for that.
 
Mikehorn said:
That's why I love SP's, your favourite SP wouldn't care (well, she'd probably pretend to care a little, just to make you feel like she actually gives a crap about you...)
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That reminds me of a terb saying: Of cour$e your $p care$! :p
 
drlove said:
LOL!! You're right. I just thought I could manipulate it so that my method will work. ...
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There's where you need to relax a bit. If you really don't want her to be upset then don't try to manipulate the situation. From an SP standpoint, clients come and go. As long as you didn't actually book an appointment and blow that off, then she wont be upset. She may razz you for dissappearing, but it wont be anything serious, just playful banter. If you try to play it off as her fault for not setting up an appointment, you'll just leave a sour taste in her mouth and it will put her on the defensive. It's like a TV on your honeymoon... unnesessary!
 
Sexy Violet said:
There's where you need to relax a bit. If you really don't want her to be upset then don't try to manipulate the situation. From an SP standpoint, clients come and go. As long as you didn't actually book an appointment and blow that off, then she wont be upset. She may razz you for dissappearing, but it wont be anything serious, just playful banter. If you try to play it off as her fault for not setting up an appointment, you'll just leave a sour taste in her mouth and it will put her on the defensive. It's like a TV on your honeymoon... unnesessary!
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No no... this was a civilian, not an SP.
 
drlove said:
I've been thinking about re-establishing contact with one of the ladies that I "blew off" a few months ago. What happened was, we met and I decided I'd like to see her again and wrote her an e-mail later and told her so. She replied back and said she felt the same. Then work got so busy that I never got around to the second date.

I figure I could e-mail her now and say that I never heard back from her, and I was wondering what happened since I was still interested.
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You had Gentle Ben, Mikehorn, Sexy Violet and myself thinking you were talking about a rendezvous with an SP Doc ......no wonder G B is smashing his forehead against the computer, especially when you replied to MH with:

"That reminds me of a terb saying: Of cour$e your $p care$!"

And to GB who noted that it was a business relationship with:

"LOL!! You're right. I just thought I could manipulate it so that my method will work. E.g. She told me that she'd like to see me again, but did not contact me specifically to arrange another date. I could say I was waiting for that."

If you don't get the answer you're looking for at TERB, you can always try Dear Abby or Ann Landers.............:D
 
Macator2003 said:
especially when you replied to... GB who noted that it was a business relationship with:

"LOL!! You're right. I just thought I could manipulate it so that my method will work. E.g. She told me that she'd like to see me again, but did not contact me specifically to arrange another date. I could say I was waiting for that."
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Actually, GB added that in later as an after thought.
 
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