This question is a spin off from another thread. The sybian thread actually. What is the etiquette for sharing sex toys? Is it acceptable in a woman's mind, for a man to introduce a sex toy to the mix if it is not coming straight out of the box. And I am not talking nipple clamps or handcuffs. I mean a sybian or vibrator. Even if it has been properly sterilized or is used with a condom, I thought most would decline to use. Anyone out there have first hand experience with either pros or civilians on this issue? How do they react to this situation?