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Nope. No way in hell. I don't count 1 night stands or vacation sex either. Tell her a very low number (much like she'll tell you).
Booty
Booty
First off, I have no idea how many women I have slept with (not SP's either)
I tried recalling recently and couldn't remember half of their names even. (Yeah, I have had a few one night stands.) So, it would be like, oh yeah, there was that red headed chick, then the chick who lived over the store on Younge Street, blah blah blah.
I never ask a woman how many men she has slept with. I consider it useless information.
If a chick asks me, I lie as bootycall suggested.
Pick a number you won't forget, because odds are you will be asked again.
8, eight is a good number. Of course if you are 45 years old and have never been married, that may be a little too low.
You have to use your judgement on it I suppose.
But lying in this case is probably the best course of action.
I tried recalling recently and couldn't remember half of their names even. (Yeah, I have had a few one night stands.) So, it would be like, oh yeah, there was that red headed chick, then the chick who lived over the store on Younge Street, blah blah blah.
I never ask a woman how many men she has slept with. I consider it useless information.
If a chick asks me, I lie as bootycall suggested.
Pick a number you won't forget, because odds are you will be asked again.
8, eight is a good number. Of course if you are 45 years old and have never been married, that may be a little too low.
You have to use your judgement on it I suppose.
But lying in this case is probably the best course of action.
yeah...I usually lie too.
I agree with you kirk....asking women that question is useless "info". 99.99999% chance they are lying just like we are.
lol..... One time I lied, really downplaying the number and it was STILL too much for her to handle...hehehe.
Sometimes you just can't win.
I agree with you kirk....asking women that question is useless "info". 99.99999% chance they are lying just like we are.
lol..... One time I lied, really downplaying the number and it was STILL too much for her to handle...hehehe.
Sometimes you just can't win.
Yep, I have had the same thing happen.Barry-O said:lol..... One time I lied, really downplaying the number and it was STILL too much for her to handle...hehehe.
Sometimes you just can't win.
I know ball park where the number is, it's not wilt chamberlain, or anything like that, but it is what it is.
I remember lying through my teeth and telling a woman 18 and she looked at me like i was a complete slut. If she only knew the truth.
There was a TV show on one of the cable channels where a bunch of women are interviewing a bunch of guys interested in dating their useless friend and damned if they don't ask these 20 something guys how many chicks they have boned.
This one guy says 8 and I am thinking "whimp" and this one chicks says, "hmm, that's good"
It adds up, you go on tears, you calm down, but the numbers add up.
it goes both ways though i have had men ask me how many men i have been with and when i tell them some of them can't handle it, especially if u have had more partners than then.
never tell them the truth.
never tell them the truth.
Someone who asks that question is probably insecure in the first place and therefore probably won't be able to handle a truthful answer SPs or not. It's a now win situation and I wouldn't answer the question....and I especially wouldn't include SPs.
The truth is, it's no one's business - period. If you are confronted by such a question, the best response is to say something along the lines of "I admit I have played the field; however numbers are completely unnecessary. What matters is that both parties are healthy (and) committed to the relationship."
Think about it. You owe it to her to be truthful, but you don't have to tell her everything. I would never think of asking a woman such a question. What she did before she met me is irrelavent; therefore, I expect the same courstesy in return. Why do men and women torture one another with these sorts of trivial questions anyhow??
You're a man. Act like one. You finally leave home and are independent only to have a woman ask where are you going / who have you been with?? Who the hell wants to know?? Stop whining and get a grip. As far as I'm concerned, everyone has the right to live their life their way without having to check with anyone else if it's ok. ( as long as it's legal, of course!) The only person I have to justify my actions to is myself. How about you??
Think about it. You owe it to her to be truthful, but you don't have to tell her everything. I would never think of asking a woman such a question. What she did before she met me is irrelavent; therefore, I expect the same courstesy in return. Why do men and women torture one another with these sorts of trivial questions anyhow??
You're a man. Act like one. You finally leave home and are independent only to have a woman ask where are you going / who have you been with?? Who the hell wants to know?? Stop whining and get a grip. As far as I'm concerned, everyone has the right to live their life their way without having to check with anyone else if it's ok. ( as long as it's legal, of course!) The only person I have to justify my actions to is myself. How about you??
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I made the mistake of telling my S.O. about some of my past, now when ever we have a fight she throws it in my face. Its a huge mistake to say anything about you past.
Even though an HJ is of a sexual nature, I personally wouldn't count anything short of oral sex.....Sheik said:
Lil'Miss knows exactly how many people I've been with, and she doesn't care. I'm glad my wife isn't a pain in the ass.
DW
DW
I tell her the truth... "I lost count years ago." Or "Who keeps count... way too many to remember."Barry-O said:
Then again... maybe that's why I don't have an SO at this time. <LMAO>
