Sex dolls vs Escorts

[brogalldude]

I bought a tpe sex doll in 2018, it's in good condition and pleases me exceptionally. But I still need the touch of a real woman. I'm a lot older now (in my mid 40's) and I don't particularly find the excitement in the dating scene. I just can't seem to attract women I find desirable anymore. I've uninstalled all my dating apps and decided to go full bore head long into hiring escorts to fulfill my sexual needs also starting around 2018.

For the most part, it's been amazing-when I can perform. For some reason, sometimes I just can't maintain an erection. I usually spend an hour with a beautiful escort and when I can maintain my erection, the sex is unbelievable. But 30 percent of the time, no matter what the escort does, my penis will not stand at attention-sometimes even popping the "viagra" will not help. It's definitely a weird psychological thing. The irony is, after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time. It's such a strange significance-the way my penis reacts to a sexdoll vs an escort. I've seen some therapists regarding this issue and they always gave me some blah blah blah academic responses that really hasn't help much and then suggests the blue pill of course. I've stopped trying to understand it. It could very well be my conscience cock blocking me for by passing the primordial chase.

I don't know what that says about me, but I still very much enjoy sex; my libido hasn't diminished a single bit-it's still as pronounced as it was when I was 16. I'm grateful to my sexdoll for always fulfilling my sexual need, but I do love me the touch of a real woman every now and then.

 

[shack]

after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time.

That's what true love will do.

 

[mandrill]

Sounds like you're nervous when you meet a human woman and that makes you feel un-sexy.

Seeing escorts more often or picking one escort you like and repeating w her might help with that.

 

[Ref]

What's her name? Does she have a sister who is single?

 

[JackBurton]

You bought a used sex doll?

er...how’s that been?

oh yeah, I just realized in saying that, seldom are we guys the first customer in a vagina lol

 

[Hotdog]

Anxiety can be a major erection killer. I'm much older than you and have had the problem for years. But as madrill suggested, try sticking with one escort that you're attracted to, and repeat, and hopefully you'll get comfortable enough with her that you can really relax. And don't try too "hard", just go with the flow and if you can't get an erection or maintain it, just do other things - massage, oral, etc. The pressure and embarrassment makes it more difficult to get or maintain an erection. And explain the issue to her at the beginning, and ask her not to make a big deal about it or to apologize to you if you don't get an erection or can't maintain it.

 

[explorerzip]

You've likely you've gotten used to the feel of the sex doll that will never change. No human being can replicate that feeling. Try using the sex doll less and see more real life human people.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

When you say "it's in good condition" What would bad condition be? You can usually tell how well a used car has been treated by the current owner before you buy. Same rule apply?
Anyway. I see 3 women on a rotation basis. Each has their own way about them. My favorite however is the most frustrating. She is exactly what I like. I would dump the other 2 for her if needs be. However, she fails to get me off most times.Because she gives up too fast. Very frustrating. But I still continue to see her. Because she is my favorite. There is a lot of frustration involved with women and sex. But also a lot of satisfaction with sex workers.

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

I would recommend getting a full body massage (body slide, erotic massage, neru?). Explaining your issue to the MPA and let her do all the work. You won’t feel pressure about having to perform. You can just lay there and enjoy the body rub and also massaging her if you wish.
Experience this a few times and work your way up to an escort when you feel ready to perform.

 

[brogalldude]

To be clear, I bought my sex doll new. I meant that I've always kept it in good functioning condition. I've been hobbying for 2 and half years now and do have a few regulars that finishes me off 100 percent of the time. It's just when I decide to try out new escorts that I sometimes cannot maintain an erection. I do frequent massage parlors and they have always successfully got me off.

 

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[oral.com]

I bought a tpe sex doll in 2018, it's in good condition and pleases me exceptionally. But I still need the touch of a real woman. I'm a lot older now (in my mid 40's) and I don't particularly find the excitement in the dating scene. I just can't seem to attract women I find desirable anymore. I've uninstalled all my dating apps and decided to go full bore head long into hiring escorts to fulfill my sexual needs also starting around 2018.

For the most part, it's been amazing-when I can perform. For some reason, sometimes I just can't maintain an erection. I usually spend an hour with a beautiful escort and when I can maintain my erection, the sex is unbelievable. But 30 percent of the time, no matter what the escort does, my penis will not stand at attention-sometimes even popping the "viagra" will not help. It's definitely a weird psychological thing. The irony is, after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time. It's such a strange significance-the way my penis reacts to a sexdoll vs an escort. I've seen some therapists regarding this issue and they always gave me some blah blah blah academic responses that really hasn't help much and then suggests the blue pill of course. I've stopped trying to understand it. It could very well be my conscience cock blocking me for by passing the primordial chase.

I don't know what that says about me, but I still very much enjoy sex; my libido hasn't diminished a single bit-it's still as pronounced as it was when I was 16. I'm grateful to my sexdoll for always fulfilling my sexual need, but I do love me the touch of a real woman every now and then.

It’s all about getting into a comfort zone. Once it stops becoming a performance, then, well I’m sure I’m not saying anything new.
Seriously consider a real life relationship, if you can appreciate the intangibles it can add to your life. I rest my case.

 

[lessjamie7]

I bought a tpe sex doll in 2018, it's in good condition and pleases me exceptionally. But I still need the touch of a real woman. I'm a lot older now (in my mid 40's) and I don't particularly find the excitement in the dating scene. I just can't seem to attract women I find desirable anymore. I've uninstalled all my dating apps and decided to go full bore head long into hiring escorts to fulfill my sexual needs also starting around 2018.

For the most part, it's been amazing-when I can perform. For some reason, sometimes I just can't maintain an erection. I usually spend an hour with a beautiful escort and when I can maintain my erection, the sex is unbelievable. But 30 percent of the time, no matter what the escort does, my penis will not stand at attention-sometimes even popping the "viagra" will not help. It's definitely a weird psychological thing. The irony is, after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time. It's such a strange significance-the way my penis reacts to a sexdoll vs an escort. I've seen some therapists regarding this issue and they always gave me some blah blah blah academic responses that really hasn't help much and then suggests the blue pill of course. I've stopped trying to understand it. It could very well be my conscience cock blocking me for by passing the primordial chase.

I don't know what that says about me, but I still very much enjoy sex; my libido hasn't diminished a single bit-it's still as pronounced as it was when I was 16. I'm grateful to my sexdoll for always fulfilling my sexual need, but I do love me the touch of a real woman every now and then.

You could always jump in a wood chipper

LJ

 

[y2kmark]

Mods - re-christen this as the TMI thread?

 

[SchlongConery]

You bought a used sex doll?

No, that was Darts. He is deciding between kijiji and FB marketplace where to sell her. https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/selling-shit.721113/#post-6775734

 

[mandrill]

No, that was Darts. He is deciding between kijiji and FB marketplace where to sell her. https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/selling-shit.721113/#post-6775734

Why is he selling her, Schlong? Did she get sick of him?

 

[harwell1690]

I bought a tpe sex doll in 2018, it's in good condition and pleases me exceptionally. But I still need the touch of a real woman. I'm a lot older now (in my mid 40's) and I don't particularly find the excitement in the dating scene. I just can't seem to attract women I find desirable anymore. I've uninstalled all my dating apps and decided to go full bore head long into hiring escorts to fulfill my sexual needs also starting around 2018.

For the most part, it's been amazing-when I can perform. For some reason, sometimes I just can't maintain an erection. I usually spend an hour with a beautiful escort and when I can maintain my erection, the sex is unbelievable. But 30 percent of the time, no matter what the escort does, my penis will not stand at attention-sometimes even popping the "viagra" will not help. It's definitely a weird psychological thing. The irony is, after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time. It's such a strange significance-the way my penis reacts to a sexdoll vs an escort. I've seen some therapists regarding this issue and they always gave me some blah blah blah academic responses that really hasn't help much and then suggests the blue pill of course. I've stopped trying to understand it. It could very well be my conscience cock blocking me for by passing the primordial chase.

I don't know what that says about me, but I still very much enjoy sex; my libido hasn't diminished a single bit-it's still as pronounced as it was when I was 16. I'm grateful to my sexdoll for always fulfilling my sexual need, but I do love me the touch of a real woman every now and then.

Hi B,

Your tale sounds familiar and not so weird. Kinda normal actually.

I think a real person is much more complex. Well, than a doll, and I think usually than we think they are.

Also, like most people in the US/Canada, I guess you have some guilt about escorts. Common enough.

And maybe some guilt re sex dolls.

I think it gets better with time. One relaxes more. Some times a fair amount of time...or it takes time to completely relax. As someone said, I think one relaxes faster the more you like the escort. You get comfortable. Personally, I sometimes start to care too much for the girl, but that's me. I've gotten over that one too.

I suggest a couple of basic ideas. Saying them is not enough...you have to believe them. And kinda DO them.
1. Be pretty good to people.
2. Life is fun, and meant for fun.
3. It is not possible to be perfect all the time, so don't worry about it much.
4. Mostly, girls just wanna have fun too. (Cf Cyndi Lauper)
5. If I find girls / ladies that I feel basically don't enjoy it, I walk away.
5b. Or don't enjoy me.
(Some women see my good qualities, to others I'm not so hot. Not their cup of tea. That's ok. More fun to hang with those that deep down like you.)
6. Stay and have fun with those who like you. And you instinctively like.
It is pretty easy, pretty soon, to relax in this case. Then sex is just for fun. Easier to just enjoy.

Some thoughts. Maybe they apply. Maybe they help.

Enjoy the ride!

 

[sp free]

I have a lightly used doll for sale. Serious inquiries only please.

 

[shack]

No, that was Darts. He is deciding between kijiji and FB marketplace where to sell her. https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/selling-shit.721113/#post-6775734

Please be careful. He gets butthurt when he gets criticized on a personal level.

BTW, he thinks that there are only 3 BFFs.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

To be clear, I bought my sex doll new. I meant that I've always kept it in good functioning condition. I've been hobbying for 2 and half years now and do have a few regulars that finishes me off 100 percent of the time. It's just when I decide to try out new escorts that I sometimes cannot maintain an erection. I do frequent massage parlors and they have always successfully got me off.

Glad to hear you treat it with respect and keep it in good functioning condition. Get a better price when you finally sell her off.