Well I do "know her" in the Biblical Sense, as the saying goes! Such a funny business we participate in... I don't worry about sticking my face in her nether-bits, but prefer she not know too much about me... In truth, I would not be too concerned, but having once had my favorite MPA go slightly postal on me (temporarily) for some perceived infraction (which I still don't know), I think it's best to keep things somewhat "at arm's length". If she wasn't 1/3 my age, I would take her home to Mom. Well, maybe not, 'cause Mom is dead, but you get my point.I answered his first question where he just ask to send money to someone, and I thought he knows her.
Anyway, the change in my online banking has done the job... I feel like I did the right thing, she is thrilled to get "something for nothing", and we are looking forward to our next visit, in a few weeks.
Thanks everyone for your help. I knew I could count on you folks!