SeekingArrangement.com

[AK-47]

Does anyone have any experience using this site?? Is it mainly girls looking for serious rich guys, or are most there for one-night stands?! I really don't wanna join if most girls there are looking for serious relationships

www.seekingarrangement.com

 

[Doug]

There is a thread on this back a while. I have been on twice and had mixed results. If you are in the GTA or other big city you will have lots of choice, and some real good deals and lookers. I am not in the area but met three spectacular ladies there, but couldn't make it work due to distance. In London Ont there are a bunch of university students eager to expand their accounts, some are very nice. I had a fabulous arrangement for a while with one.
It is expensive, unless you go in, make a choice and get out.
My experience is that most are NOT looking for serious arrangements, but would like an ongoing NSA arrangement. Use the site with caution.

 

[kkelso]

There is a thread on this back a while. I have been on twice and had mixed results. If you are in the GTA or other big city you will have lots of choice, and some real good deals and lookers.

This is key. Outside of big metro areas there is not critical mass.

 

[dominator]

I have met a few and I would say 98% want your money and will do nothing in return.There are some fake profiles on there as well---so be careful.I would make it very clear that you would like pay for play

 

[The Old Fart]

Been there, done that too. My experience was that if you don't have a huge amount of ready cash, and time to devote to it, with the realization that most meetings won't pan out for one reason or another, you're better off seeking SPs.

 

[workhardplayh]

I've had an awesome experience with this site. There are steps to be taken.

1) Make sure you actually are someone with money, because the women you date will tell you about guys that make 130 grand a year that play them selves off like millionaires.

2) Don't meet with a girl who wants more than a NSA arrangement. Trust me for a few hours of fun this trophy wife will cost you half of everything in the long run.

3) never ever prepay to meet. That is just plain and stupid. Anyone can make a fake account and screw you for your 5/10 thousand dollar arrangement and never call back.

4) Never date the extremely hot girls with the half plastic bodies. In my experience they know all the tricks to screw you over and are the professional gold diggers. Listen to the stories the women tell you about them and make a judgement yourself.

5) Treat them with respect. Just because they are there for your company doesn't give you a right to treat them like hookers. Being a gentleman always goes far with the ladies. Always ask yourself....would James Bond do that?

6) If on your first date they seem crazy... Then they probably are. Take the warning signs and run far my friend. No one wants to spend a night in jail and damage their career and reputation over a false allegation of sexual assault.

These are all the tips I can give you. I have threes sugar babies and they all know about each other. Heck sometimes they even play together.

 

[mandrill]

I tried Seeking Arrangement a couple of years ago. What a disaster!

After much legwork, I set up 3 interviews. Only a small minority of the women were fuck-worthy. Some were clearly psychotic as well. And a number refused to meet me, if I did not pre commit to a monogamous relationship w them over a long term (???!!!???!!!)

Of the 3 I actually got to meet, the first was a Pakistani Princess about 22 who told me that she wanted $750.00 every time we had sex. I pointed out that top escorts in Toronto only charged in the $300-$400 range. Her (classic) response was: "But they're whores and I'm not" (!!!!!) That aside, she had the personality of a donut and no life experience or "smarts" and I would have been bored inside an hour with her as a companion.

The 2nd took one look at poor Oagre and informed him that she had made "a mistake and this will never work out" and left him standing alone outside the Tim Horton's, alone and unloved and certainly un-fucked.

The last was actually pretty, smart and likeable - albeit a little soft around the middle - and Oagre dug her. Given his experience with PP (above), he made the fatal mistake of offering $300 per time to fuck her and then kicked himself for over-bidding when she enthusiastically accepted. While good company and facially attractive, her body didn't merit any more than $250.00. We hung out for another half-hour at the bar and I promised to call her in a couple of days..... and didn't.

Life lesson - I can get all the fun I want from booking escorts, way more variety with far less commitment and aggravation.

I feel a little bad about #3 though.

 

[Blue-Spheroid]

I feel a little bad about #3 though.

Post her number. I'm sure someone on here will take good care of her for you.

 

[workhardplayh]

Well it's true, girls from seeking arrangements aren't escorts, although there are a lot of escorts on there. If you are looking for straight sex, get an escort, it's well worth half the hassle. However if you want a lady to come on business trips with you, vacations, is a freak in the sheets and respects your marriage etc, use the website. The average female on there is expecting 300-600 a meet for 1-3 hours. All of the girls I talk to or have arrangements with are university educated, have debt from school and work professional jobs outside.

 

[Doug]

I have had several wonderful experiences with this site, and several terrible ones. As an example, there is one with whom I could spend a day, go for a drive somewhere to see some sights, have lunch, hang out at a beach, then back to a private place for some intense fun times, all for an investment of 200. And yes, she was a looker, and not looking for more. Now even though I am off the site, I have the numbers of a few that I can still contact for a fun time as I wish.
But it is not easy, it requires work, and some luck and skill too.

 

[shadchan]

total garbage site

 

[afterhours]

I've had an awesome experience with this site. There are steps to be taken.

1) Make sure you actually are someone with money, because the women you date will tell you about guys that make 130 grand a year that play them selves off like millionaires.

2) Don't meet with a girl who wants more than a NSA arrangement. Trust me for a few hours of fun this trophy wife will cost you half of everything in the long run.

3) never ever prepay to meet. That is just plain and stupid. Anyone can make a fake account and screw you for your 5/10 thousand dollar arrangement and never call back.

4) Never date the extremely hot girls with the half plastic bodies. In my experience they know all the tricks to screw you over and are the professional gold diggers. Listen to the stories the women tell you about them and make a judgement yourself.

5) Treat them with respect. Just because they are there for your company doesn't give you a right to treat them like hookers. Being a gentleman always goes far with the ladies. Always ask yourself....would James Bond do that?

6) If on your first date they seem crazy... Then they probably are. Take the warning signs and run far my friend. No one wants to spend a night in jail and damage their career and reputation over a false allegation of sexual assault.

These are all the tips I can give you. I have threes sugar babies and they all know about each other. Heck sometimes they even play together.

very good tips, especially #1.
I had a mixed bag of experiences from crappy to average to great.
Had I have more money and time, it would have been better as I would not be comparing SA girls to SPs as much as I did.

 

[AK-47]

Thanks for all your responses guys. I found the other thread btw:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...om-bullshit-site&highlight=seekingarrangement

So it seems to be a mixed bag, some success and some not so much success. I found www.sugardaddie.com to have about the same amount of quality women and its much cheaper.

Might give that a try if/when Nordic model is adopted by Harper

 

[workhardplayh]

very good tips, especially #1.
I had a mixed bag of experiences from crappy to average to great.
Had I have more money and time, it would have been better as I would not be comparing SA girls to SPs as much as I did.

That's true these are regular women not sp's with tons of experiencd who work in the industry. Low mileage.

 

[IMBob]

"I found www.sugardaddie.com to have about the same amount of quality women and its much cheaper. "

I have a lifetime free membership on sugardaddie ( signed up when they started)

I wouldn't recommend it , if you have to pay. ( $25 - 30 / mth)
Geographical search is by province only - a major fault

More women on SD are looking for marriage than on SeekingArr

And Sugardaddie is one of the few sites that women have to be members ($25/mth) to read messages. They can read the title , but not the body of the messages if they are non-paying.
If you are crafty , you can get your contact info in the title (you can't use actual #'s though)
However , I only had 1 lady contact me via this method; and sure enough she was too far away.

I believe non paying female members on Adult friend finder can reply to a limited number of messages a day ( 2 - 5.... ?)

Another useless site.

SeekingArr is $60 /mth - many search functions - as close as 10 miles away

But, I don't even bother contacting the ladies that are looking for more than $1,000 /mth

 

[thumper18474]

I'd go for something like 2k/mo. Plus I supply the condo fully furnished but she would have to be exclusive with me as I would with her for the duration of the arrangement.

 

[freedom3]

My experience has been negative:

-most of the women do not want to have any type of sexual relationship. They really think that men are going to pay them to take them to movies, restaurants, etc. I met one and we agreed upon $300 per meeting. When I later sent her a text telling her which hotel I had booked, she said: "wait a minute, a hotel? I thought we were going to have lunch." A lot though, are clear in their profiles: "About Me: I am a young blonde girl that loves to shop and hangout with friends. I used to be a dancer therefore I am athletic and love to hit the club to go dancing. On the other hand I am smart, currently completing a high level of education, so I am quite dedicated to what I do. I also love to meet new people and explore different places and things. / What I'm Looking for: A sugar daddy that I can keep company every once in a while, nothing serious. NOT WILLING TO GIVE ANY KIND OF SEXUAL FAVOURS!!".

-Similar to oagre's experience, when I said an amount to one, she said: "I think you are looking for a cheap whore." When I asked how much she was looking for, she indicated a higher amount. It was the "cheap" part that bothered her.

-Several women were clear that sex would be part of the date but wanted high amounts: ie. $500 and two said $400. One even wanted $1,000 and she was one of the least attractive. If they were stunners, then I would have gone along with it, but they weren't. Basically, if they were into sex, they wanted a lot and weren't that hot. If they were hot, they felt their presence alone should be enough.

-most want monthly amounts paid up front. I explained to one that I would rather pay per meeting because otherwise she might take the money and never see me again. She said that I should understand her concern that she would receive the monthly amount. She faced the classic problem: if I was stupid then I wouldn't have been able to accumulate money in the first place.

-I had a few no-shows. One even confirmed that very morning and then didn't show up.

I also tried whatsyourprice.com and it was similar.

Also seekingarrangement is $110 per month to join.

I was hoping to meet some really hot women and I was willing to pay premium amounts, but it didn't work out.

 

[rogerdodger]

My experience has been mostly good. I've had a lot of replies to my profile which always helps. After a few mistakes ,I learned to be upfront with what I wanted.
No money at all with the first date but told them if I liked them we could def make an pay per meet arrangement and that if we got along it might go monthly. A few princess types got turned off by this as were the ones expecting $5000 per meet . Just as well to screen those ones out right away. I went with girls who were content with $300-$400 per meet.

I'm single but I'm not in a situation where I can bring them home so having to pony up for a hotel and dinner/drinks in addition turned the evening into $600+ per night. Ideally your SB should have a job that covers her basic needs. I'm currently seeing one at the moment but get contacted daily. It can be a lot of work screening them out but so far so good.

 

[theanswer08]

I've actually had a lot of success on the website. A few tips from my POV:

- If you're attached, never use any photos that can be found online and tied back to you. There are fake profiles looking to blackmail you.
- Recommend a pay per hang arrangement rather than allowance. Allowances leads to expectations to see one another X amount of times a month - and makes things more difficult
- Be straight up with the girls - tell them what you're looking for and if it's not in line with them, move on
- Be prepared to have a lot of conversations that go no where - it's the nature of the game. Be skeptic of every girl until you actually know they're real and legit. Lots of girls on there just to waste people's time.

Goodluck all! I've had a lot of success and have had arrangements with over ten girls aged 19-25 (i'm a younger guy).

 

[Chrisransom]

I was never really a hobbiest however my favourite MP at the moment I met on seeking. I've had success and I also found crazy women that try to manipulate you out your money