I was wondering what your experience has been with seeing SPs off the clock. Sometime when I hit it off, they are willing to go have dinner or drinks off the clock. In fact, I have one regular who always insists that I take her out for a nice dinner and then go back to her place for an hour session. She doesn't charge me for the time spent outside of the bedroom. Other ladies insist on charging their regular rate regardless of whether it's in or out of the bed. I know it's all business but I feel a little odd that I should have to pay the same rate when I'm the one entertaining, especially if they like to drink. Can you share your experience?
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Outside of the bedroom, a SP should not charge you her hourly rate because you are already paying food and drinks. If anybody insists on their hourly rate in addition to being wined and dined then drop them like a rock. Many good looking women will go out with if you are willing to pay the tab on food and drinks.
That's my thinking also. I actually had one lady who said that her rate for going to dinner was slightly higher. Yeah, I rolled my eyes and never returned.
Most likely put at that rate so guys do not want to take her out. Some ladies just prefer to see in the bedroom. I know the term escorts means should be able to hire them for dinner, dates, outings, events etc, but not all women are into that. I find that the ones that put such high rates on things like that do so in order to spot you from booking.
Hilarious...you would do well as a Pimp with that attitude. Do you not understand that she is being compensated already in the form of food and drinks? Yes this may not be her normal fee of $250 dollars an hour when she is fucking, but she is not even working during this time. She is eating and drinking, that may work out to $75 dollars for her meal, but she does not even need to break a sweat. Besides, most SPs do have downtime as well. Personally, I have a consulting fee(much less than an SP's rate), but if my client invites me to a $30 dollar dinner at East Side Mario's, I don't tell them I need my hourly consulting fee on top of dinner being paid. That would be ridiculous. It might also cost me future business. Besides, I might actually even enjoy dinner with my client.
Or, you could ask a civilian woman to have dinner with you, and offer to pay. It's called a date.
I get the idea that a girl could be working and earning her regular fee or having dinner with her friends instead of eating dinner with a client. Some girls simply like to try new restaurants but there are some girls that don't need to sit through a meal simply because he is footing the bill. To each their own.
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I think every situation is different,
If I were to suggest meeting for a drink if I felt comfortable with a client, then sure why not do some off the clock time,
But if a client were to say to me. I want to spend the night wih you, I'm buying dinner but I'm only giving you, your hourly rate, i probably would poliently decline or suggest he come over for a little longer of the session and I have a cheese plate ready?
In the time, she's spending with you, she could be potentional losing money by my booking other clients? ( i don't see multiply people a day myself but eveyone is different )
If I were to suggest meeting for a drink if I felt comfortable with a client, then sure why not do some off the clock time,
But if a client were to say to me. I want to spend the night wih you, I'm buying dinner but I'm only giving you, your hourly rate, i probably would poliently decline or suggest he come over for a little longer of the session and I have a cheese plate ready?
In the time, she's spending with you, she could be potentional losing money by my booking other clients? ( i don't see multiply people a day myself but eveyone is different )
I think every situation is different,
If I were to suggest meeting for a drink if I felt comfortable with a client, then sure why not do some off the clock time,
But if a client were to say to me. I want to spend the night wih you, I'm buying dinner but I'm only giving you, the one hour rate, i probably would poliently decline or suggest he come over for a little longer of the session and I have a cheese plate ready?
In the time, she's spending with you, she could be potentional losing money by not booking another client? ( i don't see multiply people a day myself but eveyone is different )
In terms of compensation of food? I wish I could pay the bills in steak but sadly I can't.
If I were to suggest meeting for a drink if I felt comfortable with a client, then sure why not do some off the clock time,
But if a client were to say to me. I want to spend the night wih you, I'm buying dinner but I'm only giving you, the one hour rate, i probably would poliently decline or suggest he come over for a little longer of the session and I have a cheese plate ready?
In the time, she's spending with you, she could be potentional losing money by not booking another client? ( i don't see multiply people a day myself but eveyone is different )
In terms of compensation of food? I wish I could pay the bills in steak but sadly I can't.
It depends. If we're already seeing each other for an hour or two, and he's fun to hang around, I normally don't have a problem hanging out before/after for dinner. A girl's gotta eat! I wouldn't make a special trip just for dinner, tho. That feels a bit too much like a date and not a "date".
I have seen a few sp's off the clock for lunch, dinner ,drinks even breakfast. If I enjoy there company and they enjoy mine Ill ask them out. For there part it's good customer relations. We enjoy each others company and it's fun. I'll only ask her out if we have some type of connection.
To quote another sex worker, Amanda Brooks (who wrote a great post on the topic): "My take on this is: you pay for my time/energy, the sex is free".
Gents, we've all slain a few dragons in our time.Fucked women who we wouldn't hold hands with in public.......wouldn't give the time of day too unless it was in a dark room with no one else around.Now imagine money was involved.I completely get why SP'
s charge by the hour even on Dinner dates.
s charge by the hour even on Dinner dates.
I agree, there aren't any strict rules and the escort should feel free to charge whatever she feels is right.
Having dinner and drinks with some guys is mentally hard work, with others it is pleasure and relaxing.
There was a well known escort who I had gotten to know quite well and we found that we had similar interest in restaurants and concerts. When we would hit an evening concert I'd usually meet with her at her place before going out, have a great extended session for her usual fee, and then we'd go out for the evening. While I always paid the full cost for the evening I don't think that she ever considered charging me for her time. Keep in mind that we did enjoy each other's company and I never took advantage of her by expecting another "free" session at the end of of the evening. This seemed to work for both of us...
I'm sure the ladies would love a night out with a client...just to get away from the business for a while....a nice dinner a show or whatever....but it is always her call....the way I see it.
if she suggests it ..its off the clock and it should be at the guys discretion as to who pays what
if he suggests it..well then, as all the disclaimers say we are paying for their time and companionship
if she suggests it ..its off the clock and it should be at the guys discretion as to who pays what
if he suggests it..well then, as all the disclaimers say we are paying for their time and companionship
Well simply put, when a client pays your standard fee of $250 to a $1,000 an hour you can afford to go pay for a good meal with the company of your choice. Hardly worth spending time with a client for the cost of a meal etc.
However keep in mind that each situation is unique. If a woman actually enjoys being with a man the rules are different. Unfortunately part of being an SP is making all clients think they are interesting and fun to be with, so it can be hard for a client to know how much an SP likes to be with him.
