Secret Benefits
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Not a scam, but way more fake ads than even LL. It's a lot of work to find the perfect match, but the rewards can be plentiful. Just take the same precautions that you would with LL, share pics prior to meeting with a specific request that proves the posted pics in the ad are real, and proceed. Also Seeking may be the more reliable site, but both are loaded with scams.
Hi RR28, thanks for the information on that site - I have always been curious about it, but I too always assumed it was full of fakes. Would you say that Seeking is much more reliable because more real profiles? The pay structure of SecBenefits site seems odd - you pay for credits, but then end up having to use them to start conversations, but you'd be starting convos with fake profiles most of the time, basically wasting your money. Seeking seems more like you pay by the month and can use it unlimited i.e. no credits.
Word on the street is that the "credit" system gets "annoying" after a time. I have not used either service, but researched it a while back.
I wonder if this structure was put in place to help sort out the fake/scam male profiles that tend to be all over seeking, helping girls with legitimate accounts
I know I’ve been on and off seeking for years because I get very tired of the fakes and scammers
I only used Secret because there was a SB that I wanted to reconnect with, and yes the credits go fast. I knew that we would be connected again soon, so didn't worry about the system at that time. If someone were just starting out .... go with Seeking as it is unlimited chats. It takes a lot of deleting of fakes, before you find someone to meet. Be patient and cautious.
Hey LexiLeyla, thanks for the reply and the information. It's nice to hear from someone on the other side of the sites -- I appreciate it. You've tried Seeking (did you have any success from it??) , but have you also tried SecretBenefits as well, and what did you think?
It's a scam. I deactivated my account and told them the reasoning was because it was a scam. I got refunded.
There are real girls on the site however you spend lots of credits finding out who they are. If a girl doesn't have a verification video she is most likely a scam. The secret pictures you require credits to see are basic pictures. The goal is to get you to spend. As soon as you join you receive lots of "messages". No one responds. When you are low on credits the site sends you a special for purchasing additional credits. When you're out of credits there are no longer any specials and the basic package now costs more.
There are real girls on the site however you spend lots of credits finding out who they are. If a girl doesn't have a verification video she is most likely a scam. The secret pictures you require credits to see are basic pictures. The goal is to get you to spend. As soon as you join you receive lots of "messages". No one responds. When you are low on credits the site sends you a special for purchasing additional credits. When you're out of credits there are no longer any specials and the basic package now costs more.
Hi Fiesta, YES! Thank you for confirming my experience -- ridiculous spending credits here and there to unlock and see regular type photos, unlock conversations that go nowhere at all, and messages that are never responded to. Ridiculous. I started to see more clearly which profiles seemed fake, too good to be true -- weakly filled out profiles with hardly any details, hardly any text, no verification video, always had additional pics to "unlock" etc etc. That being said, I did recognize a few faces on the site as "legit", as they are MAs at spas around town, so not everyone is fake!
Before Covid hit, I used Ashley Madison. I think there were a good share of fake accounts as well. But I did met a local woman (we were both married) and we had a good time together.
Yeah, you're right. The goal is still the same though.
those "pay" sites ashley/sb, etc are all the same kind of scam.
(google around - you'll see the many expose videos/content from ex-employees that detail how they milk men out of their money)
these sites get you in the door, then an (employee) or bot engages in conversations with you - to lead you on.
you will use up credits on a non-existent woman.
when you are out of credits, you will start getting (more) messages - (yes, fake again) - but of course, you can't read them unless you [buy more credits] !!!
so you either are stupid or curious [or both], buy more credits, only to find that the messages are again, bot/employee created - crafted to get your attention and use up more credits
there might be 10% actual women on those sites, but 9 of that 10% are SPs looking to be paid to hook up with you
take my advice and steer clear from those relationship sites.
don't give them any more money.
they don't deserve it.
you "worked" hard to earn your money.
spend it on something that actually gives you something of value in return.
(google around - you'll see the many expose videos/content from ex-employees that detail how they milk men out of their money)
these sites get you in the door, then an (employee) or bot engages in conversations with you - to lead you on.
you will use up credits on a non-existent woman.
when you are out of credits, you will start getting (more) messages - (yes, fake again) - but of course, you can't read them unless you [buy more credits] !!!
so you either are stupid or curious [or both], buy more credits, only to find that the messages are again, bot/employee created - crafted to get your attention and use up more credits
there might be 10% actual women on those sites, but 9 of that 10% are SPs looking to be paid to hook up with you
take my advice and steer clear from those relationship sites.
don't give them any more money.
they don't deserve it.
you "worked" hard to earn your money.
spend it on something that actually gives you something of value in return.
Hi Bloodless-- thank you for the informative post. Would you also lump Seeking into the same group Is it just as bad as the others that you speak of? From what I can tell, it doesn't use a credit system, but more a monthly payment where you can send as many message as you'd like for the paid period. However, I am wondering if it too is also full of fakes and scams or bots......
All the sites are the same, read between the lines.
There is no magic website. Don't invest unless you're doing it for entertainment value and have nothing better to do.
If there was a good site, eventually someone would share. We're all waiting for this news
Sorry to burst your bubble...
