Why, you can't catch a disease from the lounge ! Okay, disappointment, fear, anguish, horror, and with luck - a few laughs but they wear off without medication.wow... thanks for reminding my why I don't drop by the lounge much any more
Safety with BBBJ?
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Didn't mean to insult Jessica.
We all have paranoia for better or worse.
I do have to counter the BBBJ obsessed though. You can have your preferences but just like FS, I do not think condom use is that heinously awful. It sounds like childish whining to me. I have been using durex ultra thin condoms (or whatever they call them, they keep changing) for roughly a decade. Kumono condoms are also phenomenally thin. Frankly, if it's hard for you to get the woman off or yourself, it's not the freaking condoms.
We all have paranoia for better or worse.
I do have to counter the BBBJ obsessed though. You can have your preferences but just like FS, I do not think condom use is that heinously awful. It sounds like childish whining to me. I have been using durex ultra thin condoms (or whatever they call them, they keep changing) for roughly a decade. Kumono condoms are also phenomenally thin. Frankly, if it's hard for you to get the woman off or yourself, it's not the freaking condoms.
There is no absolute answer e.g. BBBJ is 100% safe, 99.99999 safe, 100% unsafe, etc. It just doesn't work that way. It's just like asking how safe driving is without wearing a seat belt or cycling without a helmet. Can you get injured by not wearing a seat belt or helmet? Of course you can. On the other hand, you could never wear a seat belt or helmet and never be injured for your entire life. There was a time when cars did not have seat belts, people still don't wear them all the time and we did not have bike helmets yet people did not get injured or died.
Same goes with getting a BBBJ: you might always indulge in it for your entire life time and never catch anything, but you might also catch something the very first time you get a BBBJ. There is also no such thing as 100% protection even with a condom. They can be tampered with, defective, or damage from tearing, biting, alcohol based lube, etc. and that could cause you to catch something even though you were wearing a condom.
The only 100% safe sex is with your right hand. Then again, it can be hazardous to your health if someone catches you.
You don't have to have a BJ to CIM; a girl could give you a handjob, russian, FS, etc. and allow you to CIM.
its rare an so would allow cim without bbbj. however I know one does cbj then cim to finish.
Completely agree. Guys like to bitch and whine alot when they should be focusing on the fact that they are in the presence of a hot chick and are about to fuck them. If a condom demolishes this then that sounds like a major hangup and says more about the guy.
If you have an open sore, or just had dental work, I wouldn't let anyone come in your mouth Alexxx
Safe, in this context, is a relative term. Most deaths happen at home, does that mean you are safest away from home?
IMHO polls are not helpful (hardly scientific too) to gather data like this. You cannot assume that the guys that stayed silent on this thread never caught a STI. We have no idea how many actual people are active on this board or past members that have left. This could easily be in the thousands or maybe tens of thousands. Could be hundreds of thousands for all we know.
If, for example, there's a 1% chance of catching an STI through BBBJ (not an actual fact) that's still a lot of people if the hobbyist population is large enough.
Just to counter all the anecdotal tales of years of BBBJ with no infections, I'll share my not-so-happy tale of anecdotal not-happiness. When I was 18 I visited an SP for the first time. This was in Amsterdam where it was regulated and legal. I got a BBBJ and chlamydia. Didn't go to an SP for a good 20+ years after that, and needless to say since I re-entered the hobby, I would rather put a wrap on it than get clap on it.
Safety with BBBJ?
I’m sure this isn’t the first time the subject of BBBJ has been brought up. The bottom line is there’s risk involved in seeing an SP and vice versa. If the clients’ not comfortable with BBBJ, or any other activity, don’t do it, ditto for SP.
I’m sure this isn’t the first time the subject of BBBJ has been brought up. The bottom line is there’s risk involved in seeing an SP and vice versa. If the clients’ not comfortable with BBBJ, or any other activity, don’t do it, ditto for SP.
The reality is, while sure in theory the potential risk is higher with an SP by virtue of volume, every partner comes with some degree of risk. It is what it is...the good girl who was with 2 guys but 1 happened to be a scumbag can give you something as easily as the "pro".
You could get hit by a bus tomorrow...if you want to do it, do it.
You could get hit by a bus tomorrow...if you want to do it, do it.
Mind you its not just the major stds you have to worry about.There are tthousands of viruses and skin diseases k won to medical science and many more unknown. HPV alone has 130 variety.
I've had pimple like objects on my dick come and go mysteriously and my doctors can't explain it after all the tests done. They stopped and haven't come back for 2 years after I started taking anti virals and vitamines, and using condoms with discipline.
I've had pimple like objects on my dick come and go mysteriously and my doctors can't explain it after all the tests done. They stopped and haven't come back for 2 years after I started taking anti virals and vitamines, and using condoms with discipline.
I have received the BBBJ from many MPAs but no escorts. The last time it happened, it hurt to piss for about a week and then it went away. I decided to stop this activity for fear of getting STDs. The thought of how many dicks a woman has had in her mouth just before she gives you a BJ...well lets just say its enough for the gals to just lick my boy and I am happy with that.
