Sacha on CL
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Capital Hunter, it's important to remember that this is not CERB here, the comments about sacha were all pretty consistent with regard to the cleanliness of her location, the smokey smell and the bossy attitude and focus on her satisfaction. Like any good business you need to listen to your client base, instead she chose to lash out at the comments rather than trying to change those easily changeable and relatively minor critiques... no one was mean spirited commenting on subjective matters like looks, in fact they were all favorable to her advantage. The critical comments were all fair and consistent, when she raised the issue about how to improve her business over on cerb it was suggested that she do something to change the direction of the reviews over here on TERB, instead of listening to the sage advise she chose to shill ?
Let's break it down, think of your favorite meal in the whole world, but you can only get it at a restaurant where the service is terrible, the wait staff have attitudes and the restaurant is filled with smoke, is unkempt and messy with clothes and garbage laying around... would you go back to that restaurant after such an experience, probably not.
She's made the biggest mistake in business and that's not listening to your audience of potential clients it's the easiest and most effective means of improving any business model, of course why would she listen to her customer base who are in her words " a bunch of old, fat men, who can't get it up, don't have the opportunity to bitch and complain and then blame their lack of prowess on the one they are with." She just doesn't get it ! If anyone needs to cool off it's her
Let's break it down, think of your favorite meal in the whole world, but you can only get it at a restaurant where the service is terrible, the wait staff have attitudes and the restaurant is filled with smoke, is unkempt and messy with clothes and garbage laying around... would you go back to that restaurant after such an experience, probably not.
She's made the biggest mistake in business and that's not listening to your audience of potential clients it's the easiest and most effective means of improving any business model, of course why would she listen to her customer base who are in her words " a bunch of old, fat men, who can't get it up, don't have the opportunity to bitch and complain and then blame their lack of prowess on the one they are with." She just doesn't get it ! If anyone needs to cool off it's her
I understand where you are coming from, capital hunter. I have never met her, but I almost always enjoy reading her jokes and posts on the other board. She appears to be an intelligent and well-read person. I hope with the negative comments here, she'll improve the situations such as avoid smoking indoor. I wish her all the best.I am sad to see the way this thread turned at the end. So unfortunate that some of her good qualities are lost in the cloud of negativity. By no means I condone rude messages or aggressive posts on her side, infact I hate the use of vulgar language or aggressive comments but she has been on cerb for years and never posted aggressively or never joined other SPs there to gang up on anyone. Something must have triggered her to act this way.
Personally when I post I always assess the consequences of my negative comments. Afterall for most, this is their only source of income and put myself in their position if my source of income is threatened.... These ladies are someone's daughter and sister and I always regard them like my own and treat them with love and respect (except the sex part of course) and I am sure many of you likely all feel the same way. That is why it makes me sad as I see that someone's feeling is hurt.....
I apologize if my post is offensive to anyone. No offense of any kind is intended, just saying.....Lets cool off everyone and enjoy this beautiful Victoria day lol. Still looking for my awesome looking date for today lol
Hmmmm...that's a possibility, isn't it? But, why would someone hates her so badly to do something like this to destroy her livelihood?
@justfor...You would be amazed at what people will do. Trolls do not operate with logic. Ever...
If the pms are real, I would like to offer a little insight into the process when one is being discussed in a negative way in this industry. I had a it of a rocky start here on TERB as well. Years ago, there was a thread here about me that was filled with comments by hobbyists who had never met me. Fortunately, I didn't know what TERB was at the time but I was getting numerous emails from men telling me that I had negative things being said and if I would just "adjust" my rate (lower it 50 to 75%) to accomodate their financial situation they would come to see me and write a review to "fix" this issue I was having. Business was good and I didn't have a computer readily available so it took me almost a year before I read what was written. When I did, I was thankful I hadn't seen it a year earlier. It did however keep me from becoming a participant here until recently as I waited until I had a MUCH thicker skin. It took 6 years of watching what was going on here for me to become a paid advertiser thanks to that initial thread.
Words hurt, even if they're true and I don't know Sacha but her input on CERB is very different from the pms seen here and I think that perhaps some time should be given for her to process the insight shared. It feels like a personal attack when things like this are said, even if that isn't; the intention it's difficult to separate. She strikes me as a very intelligent woman and I'm sure once her anger subsides, she will see it differently...
cat
I thought it might have been a troll at first as well, but further investigation and comparison of online activities leads me to believe it is in fact her and not a troll. I understand she may look at the comments as attacks on her but really they are feedback she should apply to improve her business. They are all easily changed and will only add to her success as a companion.
I was having such a wonderful long weekend until I received a call from a gentleman telling me to log on to Terb and read the negative comments being made. I usually look at all comments, good or bad as a learning experience. But comments made by men whom I have never met, well, that pushed me over the edge.
I should have, however. remembered my mothers advice. Never say, or write anything in anger. Now in the light of day I feel horrible. Please, accept my apologies.
Sacha
I should have, however. remembered my mothers advice. Never say, or write anything in anger. Now in the light of day I feel horrible. Please, accept my apologies.
Sacha
I haven't been to Ottawa since I started, about 4-5 months ago, to exchange PMs with Sacha, and I hope to see her when I finally get back to town. I really like her. She is wickedly funny, and she is not shy about declaring, even on Cerb, when someone is full of shit (smile). I know this isn't a substitute for a visit and a review, but I tend to agree with Cat that these sorts of comments can be pretty tough to read, even if they are ... in a backwards way ... helpful for the lady to remember.
This thread is quite long and seems to be going back and forth between two very different ladies!
-- SaCha is the comic German lady on the other board...... Many positive reviews.
-- SaSha advertises as being in the west end near IKEA... I can't find any recos.
Please don't get them confused.
-- SaCha is the comic German lady on the other board...... Many positive reviews.
-- SaSha advertises as being in the west end near IKEA... I can't find any recos.
Please don't get them confused.
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Well guys...I stand by what I said...I have no reason to lie...what more can I say...I like the lady!!
CH -- I dont think Sacha intended to offend ... She directed her rhetorical question to you, but it was a more general question IMO, although it certainly could be confused as personal.
sacha, I think the reason guys are always looking around is that it's almost biological, especially in a space like this where guys fells like they are paying for the privilege to do so. To state the obvious, a lot of clients do establish Long term relationships with SPs. And just because they do look around doesn't mean they aren't still interested in you!!
sacha, I think the reason guys are always looking around is that it's almost biological, especially in a space like this where guys fells like they are paying for the privilege to do so. To state the obvious, a lot of clients do establish Long term relationships with SPs. And just because they do look around doesn't mean they aren't still interested in you!!
CH, I understand your confusion and probably feeling of upset or disappointment - after all your attempts to defend her. My guess is - it is a case of mistaken identity. If she goes back and reads the whole thread, she'll probably realize the facts and offer you an apology.
Whoa! I love this girl's picture on BP. She looks really pretty and Unlike other folks the whole "over the knee" thing struck me as kinda cute so I thought I'd do a quick peek in here first. Then I see this little nugget. have no problem getting it up but I'm kind of old and fat (unlike all the muscular professional athletes that apparently are paying to having sex with middle aged women...) and clearly this woman has made it clear I'm the type that's not good enough for her.
Good business move. Scratching her off the TDL.
Good business move. Scratching her off the TDL.
