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[Yoga Face]

There is a thread on this topic so I thought I might as well make it a poll even though it has probably been done .


The question is "do you consider it cheating" , not "do you think your wife does" - that should be another poll but I think I can guess the results

 

[Back Burner]

Why is this even a question? Do guys try to justify everything to themselves?

Standard rule;

If you can't tell your girl, your cheating.

 

[Bear669]

Not a bad rule of thumb...

Why is this even a question? Do guys try to justify everything to themselves?

Standard rule;

If you can't tell your girl, your cheating.

.. But if you went to the SC, did NOTHING but look, didnt tell cuz she is a prude- I have a hard time calling that 'cheating' in the usual sense.

(Unless you PROMISED not to go the SC- then I guess ya cheated)

 

[Back Burner]

I guess then the question is; what does your girl think. You're with her, and it's your choice to be in that relationship. Example, if you have an open relationship she might not care you're getting hand jobs. And if you don't then she will care.

So again, (with excepts of course) if you can't tell your girl, you're cheating.

 

[gramage]

As was said in the other thread, if your SO got fingerfucked by or gave a happy ending to another guy would you say she cheated? If yes then yes, if no then no.

 

[Yoga Face]

Why is this even a question? Do guys try to justify everything to themselves?

Standard rule;

If you can't tell your girl, your cheating.

So I guess the answer is it depends on your girl

If she is OK with it your not cheating

OK, but, what if she is extremely insecure and she is upset when you look at a Model then looking at a Model is cheating ?

Is this correct ?

If not, then then the logic that looking at a model is OK because your wife is being over sensitive can be extended to a happy ending can it not ?

In both cases it is only cheating if she finds out so stop feeling guilty

 

[gramage]

In both cases it is only cheating if she finds out so stop feeling guilty

So happy endings are like holding in football or tripping in hockey?

 

[Yoga Face]

So happy endings are like holding in football or tripping in hockey?

No, in hockey you have interfered with an opponent and that is not cricket even though it is hockey

IMHO it may be wrong if your wife does not want you to as I am still trying to figure it out although I lean to the not cheating category

I do know I never feel guilty when getting one

Hoping for insight

 

[calloway]

If it's done by anyone other than yourself and/or SO... it's cheating.

 

[Thunderballs]

Ditto to Grammage's post.

 

[Moraff]

So I guess the answer is it depends on your girl

If she is OK with it your not cheating

OK, but, what if she is extremely insecure and she is upset when you look at a Model then looking at a Model is cheating ?

Is this correct ?

If not, then then the logic that looking at a model is OK because your wife is being over sensitive can be extended to a happy ending can it not ?

In both cases it is only cheating if she finds out so stop feeling guilty

If you have agreed that sex is to be just between you and your partner then yes happy endings would be cheating.

If you have agreed not to look at Models, then looking at the model would be cheating.

The fact that you feel guilty means that you feel you are cheating whether there has been a conversation about it being acceptable or not.

 

[Cobra Enorme]

is having a wet dream with another girl (not your wife) cheating?

Is getting a hard on when you see naked chick on the internet cheating?

on the bus?

As long as you're not boinking another girl, its not cheating.

For that matter, if you're playing with your buddies and people show you a warm apple pie, then blind fold you, then tell you to stick your dick into it, but then they substituted the crew slut and you go home thinking you fucked a pie, but really it was slutty suzy's pussy, did you cheat? Remember, you have no clue.

 

[diane-35]

Why is this even a question? Do guys try to justify everything to themselves?

Standard rule;

If you can't tell your girl, your cheating.

Totally disagree. IF you walk down the street sees a hot girl and turns around takes a second look, third look wandering eyes. do you go home and tell your wife "hey I saw a hot chick on the street today and was staring at her for like 5 seconds" huh? If you can't tell her then according to your rule it is cheating to stare at other women too.

 

[Back Burner]

Dude don't take me so literally. You understand what I'm saying don't you?

 

[The Bandit]

Any caressing, kissing, or sexual interaction with anyone other than your GF or SO...is "cheating".