RP question

t00lman6969

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Ok most of us have role play fanatsies, so what in your opinion is the best way to explain your role play fantasy to an SP?
Tell the booking dude/gal on the phone when you book?
Email your request?
Type it out, give it to the lady with the donation, so she can read whle yo shower?
 
Pre-arrange it. E-mail is probably the easiest, that way you get to clearly think it out and get it down in writing, and it gives them a chance to ask any questions. Don't wait until the appointment, you'll probably be disappointed.

Having said that, I've never really been in to role-playing... costumes and outfits for the lady, yes, but actually role-playing something? Not my thing.
 
Email the details to the lady in advance. This way she has time to prepare with any details she can think of. The ladies do want to please us as much as possible and some will go to great lengths to fulfill our fantasies. Also by knowing your thoughts in advance it gives the opportunity for her to reply with questions.

Only did one RP but it worked out well because of this email method.
 
Pre-arrange it. E-mail is probably the easiest, that way you get to clearly think it out and get it down in writing, and it gives them a chance to ask any questions. Don't wait until the appointment, you'll probably be disappointed.
Also if any questions/controversy arise e.g.: "you never said . . ., I never agreed to. . . ." you have evidence that you did and they did.
 
Yes, email is probably the best way to go, as other have already suggested.

That being said, if you are communicating with her for the first time, I would avoid any detailed and pornographic description of your fantasy in your first email. Keep it professional and G-rated, explaining that you have a particular fantasy/role-play in mind, and asking her if it is OK with her to share more details. Just give enough details to give her an idea of the kind of fantasy/role play you are thinking about (for instance, Dom/sub play, humiliation play, secretary/boss play, foot fetish, etc.). She will let you know if this is within her range of services, and if she is interested in hearing more about it.

For many SPs, receiving a first email that reads like an erotica story or pornographic script will send the wrong vibe.

If the lady works for an agency, in my experience, the best way to go about it is to meet her first for a "regular" session, and bring up your fantasy before or after the festivities. Depending on your fantasy, she may be able and willing to indulge you in that session. If it asks for more preparation, then she can probably give you a work email address to communicate with her for a later date.
 
Yes, email is probably the best way to go, as other have already suggested.

That being said, if you are communicating with her for the first time, I would avoid any detailed and pornographic description of your fantasy in your first email. Keep it professional and G-rated, explaining that you have a particular fantasy/role-play in mind, and asking her if it is OK with her to share more details. Just give enough details to give her an idea of the kind of fantasy/role play you are thinking about (for instance, Dom/sub play, humiliation play, secretary/boss play, foot fetish, etc.). She will let you know if this is within her range of services, and if she is interested in hearing more about it.

For many SPs, receiving a first email that reads like an erotica story or pornographic script will send the wrong vibe.

If the lady works for an agency, in my experience, the best way to go about it is to meet her first for a "regular" session, and bring up your fantasy before or after the festivities. Depending on your fantasy, she may be able and willing to indulge you in that session. If it asks for more preparation, then she can probably give you a work email address to communicate with her for a later date.

Thanks Gen for bringing up the content of the emails. I wouldn't think to bring up an erotic play-by-play therefore I said details. What I meant was a general script (all G rated) including clothing or prop requests.

For example when I did it, I explained clearly that I will meet her out of script first, go have a shower, redress and we will then meet in XXXXXX room in RP mode. This worked great because I got to meet her, talked a little, felt comfortable with each other, shower to put a break between normal and RP mode.

While the general erotic limits must be set before hand (maybe 2nd email), giving too many erotic details of script removes too much spontaneity.