@Foryourinfo Thank you for posting your conversation so we have a better idea.
I wasn't trying to shame you but just questioning your posts only about Riley. I apologize if you felt this way.
I think you pissed her off by haggling her rates. Big mistake! Then you booked for 3:30-4pm but messaged her after 5pm telling her you're 15 mins away. Then there's no text from you saying you're near her location. I don't know if any provider would be happy if some client does this to them.
I'm not condoning her behaviour but you weren't exactly being a good client.
I think you pissed her off and she felt you were shaming her with some questions and so she did the same and even tried to scam you. She probably made the story about having a kid etc. My suggestion is please don't take it personally. I'm pretty sure most SP clients are married men.
It's clear from everyone's posts that she is unreliable and maybe she double books. Maybe she does this because of No show clients. Whatever her reasons, it's not right.
Also please don't haggle and then not show up on time and expect a provider to be ready for you. It takes two to Tango as they say. Cheers!