My persistence isn't admirable. I guess I really should never have sent her the money, but I was always prepared to lose it -either with her as a no show or me finding her not fun to be with.
What I have been is precise and patient. I basically told the story to Pamela Peaks who also represents her (even though I had booked with Sarah directly), seeking her advice, but hoping she'd go to Sarah directly.
The move seemed to pay off - even if Sarah is saying she'd have figured it all out eventually anyway.
Personally, I don't know if I'd have a cheque now if I hadn't gone to Pamela Peaks. It's certainly conceivable that Sarah cared more about Pamela's good will than mine.
So that isn't persistence - but rather a matter of playing your cards right and hoping for the best.