repeating with SP's

indefine

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so far in my hobbying career, i have only repeated once. generally, when i can i try to do hour long sessions as they tend to be more fulfilling than the typical wham bam thank you maam.

i know typically people tend to do the 1/2 to test the waters. i just find an hour gives both parties a lil more time to warm up. so having said that, do you guys opt for hour sessions on subsequent visits? and for the SP's, is there any expectations or desires that repeat visits should necessarily be longer sessions?
 
I am not a fan of half hours, so I always do the hour. Also, I rarely have 2 hours or more available to me, (god knows I wish I did), so again I usually stick with 1 hour appointments even for repeats.
 
I prefer the 1 hour session. I like to talk a bit and ease into things - 30 mins isn't enough time for me.
 
rojack45 said:
I have regular sessions with 6 SP's and squeeze in as many singles as I can always on the hunt. Usally the repeats get better and better up to a point until familiarity can wreck things. At least that has been my experience. Have had to stop seeing 2 providers because of this.

i think this gets at the root of my question...seeing someone new all the time is cool because its fresh. but when you repeat with the same one over and over, conversation could get awkward no?

exactly your point roj about familiarity. but then maybe it makes things better also.
 
I'v only repeated 2 times with two different escorts in the past few years, I be honest and say the first time seemed the best both times. Why I really can not explain. Years ago I used to try to see the same few gals and it was great, the more we seen each other the better it got but now :confused:

Maybe it just depends on the gal....maybe I have changed also.
 
maybe some SP's could weigh in on this. do repeats become stale or dry? i guess thats a dumb question since admitting to that is like burning bridges for business :p but who cares, i'll leave it up for kicks
 
indefine said:
i think this gets at the root of my question...seeing someone new all the time is cool because its fresh. but when you repeat with the same one over and over, conversation could get awkward no?

exactly your point roj about familiarity. but then maybe it makes things better also.

Actually, I tend to repeat with the ladies that I find I really connect with. There's been a couple over the years who through repeat visits, became more and more "into" the sessions and it became more and more like a "real" encounter.

I know many will disagree with this due to them just wanting a fuck, but there's been one or two who actually were looking forward to me booking because they had some things they needed/wanted my input on.
 
data1960 said:
They not only wanted your input they NEEDED your input !? ROTFLMAO

OMG. I have a thousand comments swirling in my head, but I'm obligated to give MLAM the first shot ......

Tboy, you've GOT to give us the names of those ladies. LOL

Data: lol it didn't hit me until now what that sounds like .....good one!
 
Personally I tend to repeat regularly with someone that I have connected with. I guess I am a monogamous hobbyist to a point.

There always does come a time when things either get "stale" or the ladies move on to the next part of their lives and I have to search out a new regular. So during those times I will see a lot of women once until I connect again.

That gives me the thrill of the chase then I settle again into a routine.

As for conversation becoming stale, I find that if I have connected with a woman that doesn't happen and you become a sounding block for them and I have also used them to be a sounding block for me when I am having issues at work or with the family. There is no fear either way of the info getting back to the people as neither of know exactly who the other people are.
 
LOL yeah, that's what I meant dodger, though my "input" comment was pretty fricken funny now that I think about it.

I know one of my ATF's had "her" towel here and I'm trying to remember what one regular did once, something like getting herself a drink out of my fridge or something. I said "my, you're getting pretty comfortable here aren't you" and she was all embarassed and apologized. I can't remember quite what it was but I said to her "no, don't worry, that's totally fine. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to do that and it does bring a little normalcy in an otherwise adnormal situation...".
 
I don't like the 30 minute sessions very much, so I typically book an hour. Although variety is the spice of life, I have repeated for various reasons.
 
Compromised said:
I don't like the 30 minute sessions very much, so I typically book an hour. Although variety is the spice of life, I have repeated for various reasons.

One thing about 30 minute outcalls (does ANYONE even do that?) is the fact that many agencies start the clock the second they hit your front lobby. So if you live at the opposite end of the building your time together could really only amount to 10 minutes (with slow elevators, cleanup time, the prepatory bathroom visit prior to getting down to business).....
 
Prefer 1 hour first and any repeat appointments.
Thanks terb!!
It is much easier to book 1 hour comfortably because the reviews here give me a very good idea of who will be a good match for an appointment.
Repeat is same for me as stated by most, depends on chemistry.
Best repeat: Met up with a fine young lady on her birthday. Fruit, veggies, cheeses, olives. (food I knew she enjoyed) and red wine Castello Banfi "Cum Laude" (nice red and appointment appropriate) So comfortable, laughed talked ate and had a fantasic time following the wines instructions.
If I wasnt so shy I suppose I owe the board a TOFTT just to payback for some of the great ladies I have found thanks to the reviews.
Maybe someday.
 
As an SP I love repeats and rarely see a new client. The more comfortable we are together the more comfortable is it getting dirtier and dirtier: most of the activities I crave take a little bit of working up to and some trust.

On top of that, I'm young. What other situation would give me access to people (and minds) like this. As a happy by-product of having mostly regulars I've learned so much more than other girls my age know, about things they might not even think about.

I'm a lucky girl in that I can count some of my clients as close friends.
 
so since there are suggestions of being sounding blocks, or just a friend, etc, that sometimes its ok to see an SP for the sake of seeing them and not necessarily wanting to "do the deed"
 
if you repeating with sps too much perhaps you need to take xantac or something else to settle your stomach