Relationship with SP?

legmann

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T.O.
dated a lawyer years back & she looked like the most prim & proper women at work but turned out to be one of the dirtiest & kinkiest girls I've ever had between the sheets.
And what does this have to do with the topic at hand?

Never an opportunity missed..
 

JackBurton

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Meh. So if that happens he will have a bad day. So what?

He hasn't made any really serious commitment yet, let him try.
I know he will, and we will see him back on the board complaining how she fucked him over. 6 months max. However...some people are masochistic enough to try. The thing is we won't judge him for crashing and burning, love is a game and he wants to play.
 

DaleyDDD

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If he's trying to make one his gf then yes absolutely that's difficult. But if he just wants a friendship - yes FWB - then that's easy. He just can't let himself get too attached. We won't all f*** you over.

I know he will, and we will see him back on the board complaining how she fucked him over. 6 months max. However...some people are masochistic enough to try. The thing is we won't judge him for crashing and burning, love is a game and he wants to play.
 

BC1962

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You can have relationships with SP...1000 per cent....I have had numerous relationship over the past number of years and have became friends with then EVEN after they have stopped being SP's....in one instance I have mentored one in the Fashion industry providing business advise and she has succeeded... an other friend and ex-SP pursued a career in social media and web design and as her mentor and business advisor....she now runs a successful social media and web design company in fact she designed my web site and did the social media for a successful condo launch that would awards!!!!

I am current in a friend relationship with a popular SP and even though she see other clients, we discuss her "current" business and I am encouraging her to seek a career in her educated field and will help her try and find such a job in the future...she will continue to be a SP as long as she wants to earn either a living or extra cash once she has a job in her chosen field of work. She will succeed once she focuses.

For most SP's this is a short term "job", make cash, meet interesting people and more on with your life....Many SP's are beautiful, wonderful, hard working, educated ladies including the one I am seeing now.
 

Vermeer27

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I don't get it. Is BBF's about taking your relationship to the next level? Obviously it feels better, but it's hasn't been necessary until now, so why escalate? Do you want to a fuck buddy or a girlfriend or a fiancee. If you go for it, have some baby names picked out if it's a boy or girl.
 

geeky

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I'm with Daley here - Don't go BBFS.

I am shocked at how "OK" people seem to be with it... always wrap it up unless you are in a long term monogamous relationship. Why is that so hard for people?
 

IM469

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I'm with Daley here - Don't go BBFS.

I am shocked at how "OK" people seem to be with it... always wrap it up unless you are in a long term monogamous relationship. Why is that so hard for people?
Actually bit's not as hard when I do gift wrap it. BBFS is still a paid service so even if you trust her - do you trust the other countless other guys she's been with ? BB is a huge improvement over the covered experience so with lovers I'm BB.
 

retired1

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Been there done that, twice,

Once with a working sp, once with retired girl.

In the end it doeant work, you will always see her as an sp, and she will always see you as a client.

And it gets weird and sticky when you start to get involved and know the details of her/your personal life.

Better to keep it a paid deal, despite the appeal of better sex.
 

DaleyDDD

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You can keep it a paid deal and still be friends. It's always SP/client relationship but we just hate calling it that for those we care for. But trust, it works.

Been there done that, twice,

Once with a working sp, once with retired girl.

In the end it doeant work, you will always see her as an sp, and she will always see you as a client.

And it gets weird and sticky when you start to get involved and know the details of her/your personal life.

Better to keep it a paid deal, despite the appeal of better sex.
 

foxxxy lady

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this should be a topic for the Jerry Springer show it gets brought up at least every two weeks lol
 
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