Please tell me this wasn't a serious question? I was trying to make a funny, did nobody else get this either, maybe my delivery needs work?
Relationship with an escort
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I do not believe that escorts are normal people at all, on AVERAGE. There is plenty of evidence that they have severe issues:
https://skipthegames.com/articles/e...to-seek-professional-mental-health-counseling
https://soul-destruction.com/on-prostitution/
AND, it is IMO equally harmful for men's psychology too.
You're entitled to your opinion. In my opinion, a lot of the observations in those articles could be applied to civilian women as well.
Issues? Not me. Happy as a clam. Not jaded in the slightest. Have many other irons in the fire that keep things balanced and my eye on prize. Speak for yourself or maybe the ones who tell you, not some basic website that generalizes a statistic based on someone's dissertation taken from THREE sp interviews.
Oh and some "twenty" odd other random interviews pooled together like they're supposed to be the standard of what defines my mental state. Please.
You can argue everyone on this planet needs some sort of counselling really.
Interesting comments. In an old thread about this topic, one SP said herself that she would not have a relationship with a man who let her continue to do this job.
Funny, I know a wonderful lady who moonlights as an SP with her husband's knowledge because it satisfies her sex drive for one thing.
I know guys married to 'civilians' who are pure evil. Being an SP doesn't mean you're not a bad person or capable of a normal relationship.
However, the work of an SP can be quite taxing, emotionally, mentally and physically.
Amen! Therapy is everyone's friend and I don't know a single person who hasn't already done it, is thinking about it, knows they should and the rest might be in denial.
The only thing I'd like to add is, never burn your bridges. I knew a young lady from the industry (she was an exotic dancer) who I got attached to (she told me I affected her emotionally too), but she always reminded me of our age difference, which is fair.
But when I stopped our friendship so to speak (she was like a PT sugar-baby), it was abrupt. Not dramatic, just abrupt.
An SP I met later was her friend but I won't name names. I never asked that SP about her. (That SP might have forgotten about me too, or she pretended not to recognize me).
I just hope that lovely young lady I knew is in a good situation in her life. She was responsible, so it's not like I'm worrying about her, but when someone touches your heart, you may have regrets if any connection ends. (Sometimes, it's good to continue just being friends).
But when I stopped our friendship so to speak (she was like a PT sugar-baby), it was abrupt. Not dramatic, just abrupt.
An SP I met later was her friend but I won't name names. I never asked that SP about her. (That SP might have forgotten about me too, or she pretended not to recognize me).
I just hope that lovely young lady I knew is in a good situation in her life. She was responsible, so it's not like I'm worrying about her, but when someone touches your heart, you may have regrets if any connection ends. (Sometimes, it's good to continue just being friends).
Been there. Probably the best thing that ever happened to me, but that was because of the person I connected to. This lady escorted 1) for some extra $, 2) to enjoy some nsa sex with people she chose. She also had a professional career and escorted for the same reason many of us do-to step out of our ordinary life for a brief time. The connection was not something either of us was looking for, it just happened, as those things do. She had no desire to escort when she had a partner, that was her preference and choice not mine. One of the most difficult things for me early on was reading reviews about some of her exploits and she was, at the time, a very popular lady in Durham. Understanding that sex and feelings are two different things helped me get over this. Unfortunately, she has had some very serious health issues but I'm still very lucky to have found my soulmate-I don't care how I found her I'm just thankful that I did.
On the SP side, I have had a relationship with a client. It was a lot of fun and we had amazing sex and lots of it. I still get creamy when I think about it. In the end he ended up becoming a bit of a child and acting out like one, so I peaced out. No regrets, it was super while it lasted!!
Absolutely!! I wouldn't be with a guy if I couldn't separate the two or if he couldn't. If I perceived intimacy with a client and intimacy with my boyfriend as interchangeable, well then that wouldn't lead to a healthy bond. Same with my partners perception. If he sees sex with him and sex with clients as being in the same boat, that is not going to be a healthy relationship.
I have a boyfriend and do not think or feel that the two are connected. Sex and intimacy with my guy is a whole other world
.It wasn't anything out of the ordinary for the end of dating a guy. I have been with many guys who have ended up being children (Not making a blanket statement about men, have just had that experience a good number of times). It's not a big deal, it just means our time together is now over
.Yes. I've seen several outside, had intimate relationships with some and are still good friends with most. A couple didn't last long, but no more so than civies. It's like any other way to meet another person you like and / or have an intimate / sexual relationship with. To me, it's no different. Both sides do have to have a level of maturity about it.
Reading this makes me think your talking about The Lady Raven. If not, then my mistake. If it is, I hope she is doing well.
yes there are some success stories as the ladies above mention but the reality is we live on a small fringe of society. Just as it will be a long time coming before swingers are not frowned upon by the vast majority it will be a very long time before being an SP is not looked upon as a not valid career choice.
As clients we are too close to it to be objective 100% of the time. There will always be that niggly feeling in the back of our noggin's...."she used to do it" "he used to cheat on his wife"
As clients we are too close to it to be objective 100% of the time. There will always be that niggly feeling in the back of our noggin's...."she used to do it" "he used to cheat on his wife"
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