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jw01

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hola guys/ladies

so im pretty head over heals for this chic im with (been together for 4+yrs) and pretty much do anything for her. had probs last year about our relationship, but over the winter months and as time progressed things got back to being good, but, i uno what struck her in the head, she's back to being a douche.

she's been wanting to break up for a while, but lol sad to say im being a lil wuss and keep going to her like a lil girl wanting her back. each day we end up arguing and its mainly her going nuts over lil little and acting stupid. sex is still there but even though she wants to break up, i cant get over it.

i dont want to leave her (either bc of the financial committment i have made in things ive purchased over the yrs or what) and the fact that her folks are well-off...and i really love her. all make it hard for me to breakup with her and im just stressed out to the max of this.......

i know alot of guys will be "wise-guys" but.....is there any solution? she's kind of mentally made up her mind but shes retarded, changing her mind (bi-polar) to another level. is there anything i can do to win her back or what..or something?!
 
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rhuarc29

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Honestly, stop doing what you're doing. It won't help and you'll come out of it looking like crap and feeling like crap. You should accept her decision and move on. If she changes her mind on her own, all well and good and you can get back together with her. She's less likely to change her mind if you keep coming back to her like a lovesick puppy. I don't mean that as an insult...desperation just doesn't garner love or respect.
 
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jdarks

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It's over...if you stay you'll risk more disrespect from her and her cheating on you (if she hasn't already). Cut your losses.
 
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afterhours

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so you want to be with a retarded and bipolar girl because you invested some money in her?
 
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T.O.tourist

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Tell your Doctor what is going on. He/She should prescribe a topical ointment to help you.

Just rub the ointment on your crotch, it should help you man up and grow some balls.
 
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Brill

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Do you really love her? I don't mean just saying you're head over heels in love but how do you treat her on a daily basis? Do you truly feel she's "retarded"?

Ask yourself - you've been on terb as long as you've been with her, what kind of relationship starts with deception?
 
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NiceShoes

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If she wants to break up with you then she is not happy with you. If you really want her then I suggest you to find out what it is that she is not happy with you. Whatever that may be, if you and her can work it out then your relationship can be saved. Going to relationship counselling may help as well.
 
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When women decide to leave you, you're done mate. There's no appeal process with the ladies. There are millions more out there, dude, so just move on and get busy living.
 
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I wish I knew why so many people hang on to shitty relationships. I can't understand it. A girls doesn't want to be with me or is a pain in the ass I am gone. Lot's of people say "Jeff247 is one of the happiest guys I know." Reason: I don't hang with losers or people that make me unhappy!

I think you need counseling. Get help from a professional. Your actions are disturbing and will only lead to more pain and suffering in all areas of you life down the road. You have no concept of a "good relationship." Get help. Good luck.
 
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Dewalt

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I am with footsniffer on this one. Once a girl makes up her mind there is no changing it. Unfortunatly. It seems that women have the capacity to love a great deal, much like they love shoes, but not as deeply as men. Time to gather your pride and tell her "Good luck with your future" and then delete her # from your phone.
 
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wazup

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Here's your last pitch...I love you so much because your parents are wealthy...you're the problem, not her....run girl run.
 
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afterhours said:
so you want to be with a retarded and bipolar girl because you invested some money in her?
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biog said:
Don't forget that her parents are well off too.
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Oh, and she is a douche too. Sounds like a relationship worth fighting for.

JEFF247 said:
I think you need counseling. Get help from a professional. Your actions are disturbing and will only lead to more pain and suffering in all areas of you life down the road. You have no concept of a "good relationship." Get help. Good luck.
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I think that sums up the situation very well. OP needs help.
 
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Roamin' Bee

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Brill said:
Do you really love her? I don't mean just saying you're head over heels in love but how do you treat her on a daily basis? Do you truly feel she's "retarded"?

Ask yourself - you've been on terb as long as you've been with her, what kind of relationship starts with deception?
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+1.


I'm just as confused here. If you truly love her, why would you feel she's "retarded"?
 
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