Hobbyists - if you have been seeing a SP or MA for several months (or even years) and they have become your "regular", how many times per week or month do you see them for a session? Do you have any communication via text messages between sessions (even just a quick message to say hello)?
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Almost no regulars, but when I do its once a week. Over the years only 2 or 3 of them occasional fun texts between visits, and they were mpa's, not sp's. For mpa regulars it was useful so I could avoid booking during "shark week"!
I don't ask mpa's and agency sp's for their phone numbers, but in rare cases have given them mine so that in case they switch agencies and still want me as a client they can let me know. Has worked out for ladies like Jillian ex-Star Studio, Zoey ex-TGF and Scarlett Raye ex-HPL.
I don't ask mpa's and agency sp's for their phone numbers, but in rare cases have given them mine so that in case they switch agencies and still want me as a client they can let me know. Has worked out for ladies like Jillian ex-Star Studio, Zoey ex-TGF and Scarlett Raye ex-HPL.
From past experience, you'll find some SP's that are very attractive to your personal taste and you also click with, personality wise.
Both of you end up spending so much time together and getting along well that eventually you decide to go out together. Amicably.
A movie that you both want to see, a restaurant you both want to try out or a unique event (e.g.: Rock Concert, symphony).
Both of you then figure out the definition of "private time" together. It could even lead to a bona fide relationship.
Both of you end up spending so much time together and getting along well that eventually you decide to go out together. Amicably.
A movie that you both want to see, a restaurant you both want to try out or a unique event (e.g.: Rock Concert, symphony).
Both of you then figure out the definition of "private time" together. It could even lead to a bona fide relationship.
I have a good friend/client who married a girl from the strip club. They exchanged numbers, a few dates and she gave up her profession. They are both Russian and had a lot in common. We still laugh about it.
IMHO, the sweet spot is between 2-4 visits per month. Not less than two, and not more than four. Someone on here years ago said that if you are seeing a lady more than once a week, she is probably fulfilling a role in your life that you really shouldn't try to fill with a SP. I think that's good advice.
I seem to be a regular by nature. Even though my fave is always trying to dump me. Cunt.....
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I have a regular I see every other week. I might send a quick text once in a while, but not trying to start a conversation. I let her know I look forward to seeing her, but I’m not trying to take up her time texting her a bunch. She isn’t my girlfriend and I don’t think she spends a lot of time fantasizing about my ugly ass.
I had a regular for 17 years. I would see her about twice a month, sometimes 3. We would periodically talk, but it usually a by-product of a conversation about our client/worker relationship. Like she might send me a text saying "are we still on for Tuesday"? and I might reply saying "I have to bail because I have this really stressful thing happening in my life", then she would call and want to know about it and try to show support.
Other then that it would be shit like a text saying "Happy New Year".
Other then that it would be shit like a text saying "Happy New Year".
Pre-covid, had 2 regulars in Montreal. I would travel there for work once a month and would see both on each trip. This went on for around 5 years. We would text regularly but more so as my dates of travel would approach. Both retired during covid when Quebec was locked down. While my work travels have shifted away from Montreal, they both have indicated they want to see me one last time for a proper goodbye when I am next in the city.
With your regular girls, did you develop feelings for them and do you think they felt the same to an extent? It seems that having a regular would lead to some form of romantic feelings, which is probably fine if they are not acted upon.
