references

[vmaze]

is thee an alternative to providing reference for an indy, it's rare now i see an indy, too much success visiting agencys now but there are a couple of independant i have my eys on, problem is both girls want reference.
i want to remain anonymous therfore no one but this one SP who i no longer see can identify me. is there another way SP are willing to see me without a reference?
i use disposable phones from 7 elevens and gas stations so my number is forever changing therefore providing a number is also useless. i have had some success on BP but thinking of going with some terb indys.

 

[asuran]

There are a few agency providers who are on terb or other social media such as twitter.
If you know them maybe they can vouch for you too!!

Or you can register on sites such as https://www.preferred411.com/ or other similar ones

 

[fuji]

We have no way of knowing who is a reputable companion. People who are disreputable always seem reputable right up until they fuck you over.

Worse, they often don't even mean to. Ashley Madison did not intend for its data to get plastered all over the internet. Once private data exists there is really no guarantee it will remain private.

You may have all the intention in the world of keeping personally identifying information secret but I doubt that you have subjected your data keeping methods to an independent outside audit that we can look at.

In short:

No way in hell will I ever disclose personally identifying information about myself to anyone in this industry ever.

Particularly when the law currently makes only the purchase of sex a crime. If somebody calls you for a reference how do you prove they are not an undercover cop building a case?

I know your answer will be that you don't disclose services or some such but how do we know what level of interviewing skill you have? Police are GOOD at social engineering people into letting slip more than they intended to reveal and not everyone is good at resisting those techniques.

You may well be, but we don't know that. And if you go through enough SP's, all asking for and providing references, at least a few of them will be careless.

I certainly respect your desire to be safe but this does very little to improve your safety. Someone intent on violence need only book one normal non violent session and voila, they have a reference.

I'm not sacrificing my privacy to give you a false sense of security.

 

[drstrangelove]

There are a few agency providers who are on terb or other social media such as twitter.
If you know them maybe they can vouch for you too!!

Or you can register on sites such as https://www.preferred411.com/ or other similar ones

Not sure how great an idea this is after the Ashley Madison fiasco.

 

[red]

If they ask for references just email a link to encyclopedia britannica or funk and wagnels

 

[vmaze]

Some independent companions might meet you for a paid coffee date.

Safety is our main priority and discretion goes both ways, your private information will stay private with a reputable companion.

how much does one of these cofdfee date cost?

 

[Chloë.]

$100 on average.

 

[DB123]

is thee an alternative to providing reference for an indy, it's rare now i see an indy, too much success visiting agencys now but there are a couple of independant i have my eys on, problem is both girls want reference.
i want to remain anonymous therfore no one but this one SP who i no longer see can identify me. is there another way SP are willing to see me without a reference?
i use disposable phones from 7 elevens and gas stations so my number is forever changing therefore providing a number is also useless. i have had some success on BP but thinking of going with some terb indys.

Obviously I don't know who you're referring to, but I've never come across an SP that required a reference. Have you tried relying on your terb handle. If you've seen/reviewed a few women that may be enough?

If they tickle your fancy, can't hurt to ask. Worst case you don't get a response...

 

[MissCroft]

We have no way of knowing who is a reputable companion. People who are disreputable always seem reputable right up until they fuck you over.

This. I've said it before - the times when I ran into problems with clients references would not have helped me. The clients seemed fine and normal in the beginning. Some people will gain your trust and then screw you over.

 

[whitewaterguy]

Most of my references would barely speak/ understand English..never mind trying to locate them

 

[IRIS]

This. I've said it before - the times when I ran into problems with clients references would not have helped me. The clients seemed fine and normal in the beginning. Some people will gain your trust and then screw you over.

You right. You never know who will walking through your door. Maybe a guy had 50 good session with other providers but he goes nuts with you. I know some girls who had been raped by longtime regular client so what is reference? Yes your safety is important. I talk always with my clients through the phone and I never book through just mail or text only. The first impression is helpful always. You hear his voice, his questions and you feel if he is a polite gentleman or a complett idiot. That's why the phone invented. For talk not for text. I never understand girls who ask references but booking through mail or text only.
The personal call is very helpful to make a decision about the appointment. I never asked reference because it is not really helpful and I don't beleive the girls can remember a client who visited them 3 years ago. I trust my first instinct always. Yes bad things can be happen, but this is the risk what you have to take in this business especially if you work 250-1000$ per hour. If you need riskfree money the Walmart hiring always.I know girls who ask references but go fuck with a total stranger within an hour , who picked her in the club. Just doesn't make any sense. We need privacy but we have to respect our clients too. I rarely agree with Fuji's posts but now I do.After the C-36 you must be nuts, if you give your personal sensitive information these days for total strangers. Sorry girls but this is my opinion. Have a Nice Day!