Recommendation/advice for first time shy guy looking for an SP.

[rodo145]

I am a long time lurker and first time poster. To give a bit of background, I am 33 years old, never been in a relationship with a woman (yeah, I know), and never been intimate with one either.
From what people tell me, I am not an unattractive guy (probably average looking). I have had girls interested in me from time to time, but my lack of confidence/shyness, especially when it comes to intimacy, has always been my downfall.
I have always thought about finding an SP since I have literally zero experience in the intimacy department. I am not a great conversationalist, but I am clean cut, well groomed and take my profession very seriously (money is not an issue for me).

Who do you fellas recommend for me given my background? I am looking for an SP that is going to be gentle with me and going to take the lead during our time together. I don't want someone who is going to ask me "What do you want, what do you like?" because I have no clue.
Any general advice you could provide, in terms of safety, red flags, are also helpful. It is a new year and this will be a fresh start for me.

I say, see who you find sttactive and is established dont book a 30 min session book like a 2hr session and just commit. if the first one pops off fast don't worry the second one won't, same with the third and fourth, a nice pair of tits or ass in your face with some ball sucking will get the engine going ha. Remember to breath, let her know if she's doing something you like, hip thrust and rythem are key.

It'll probably not even be worth it for her to bust out a condom for the first shot, the winds going to make you cum ha so keep expectations in check it will pop off quicker then you think. tho if you are someone who only can cum once then your dicks limp for the rest of the day then don't take my advice

Also side note get your testorone checked maybe it's low and is playing a role in your no confidence.

 

[rodo145]

Any advice on how not to get emotionally attached with my first SP/MA experience? I imagine not repeating with the same SP/MA right away if I really enjoy the experience? I dunno thoughts?

Always remember if you aren't handing over the wad of cash the sp wouldn't even consider talking you, any feelings you have are a one way street.