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Reasonable/Unreasonable expectations?

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the opening post in this thread got me thinking: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=131526

  • What are "reasonable" expectations about the "relationship" between patron and provider?
  • What are "unreasonable" expectations?
  • What are "common unreasonable traps" - meaning the common ways in which people`s expectations outstrip what is actually within the realm of the possibe?
  • What do providers do about people whose expectations go beyond what is possible in that kind of "relationship" - I guess this would be in the realm of "regulars".
No - I`m not a sociologist, or a journalist. Just curious.
 
Crixus said:
the opening post in this thread got me thinking: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=131526

  • What are "reasonable" expectations about the "relationship" between patron and provider?
  • What are "unreasonable" expectations?
  • What are "common unreasonable traps" - meaning the common ways in which people`s expectations outstrip what is actually within the realm of the possibe?
  • What do providers do about people whose expectations go beyond what is possible in that kind of "relationship" - I guess this would be in the realm of "regulars".
No - I`m not a sociologist, or a journalist. Just curious.
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Not a sociologist and not a journalist? You`ve got an agenda but I just haven`t figured out what it is yet. Student maybe? Working on your dissertation are you?

There are way too many new members asking too many questions about expectations etc and it appears to me that Crixus is collecting information for some reason that has not been disclosed. Use caution with your replies.
 
jjwilson said:
Not a sociologist and not a journalist? You've got an agenda but I just haven't figured out what it is yet. Student maybe? Working on your dissertation are you?

There are way too many new members asking too many questions about expectations etc and it appears to me that Crixus is collecting information for some reason that has not been disclosed. Use caution with your replies.
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I do indeed have an agenda. A truly nefarious one as well! I'm gathering information because .... I'm curious how this whole little "sub-culture" works! Yes - that's the extent of my evil plan - understanding the people involved in this "hobby" from both sides, and how they interact. Bastard! How dare I be curious and want to know things because I'm new to all this! Shame on me!

Of course, if you thought I "had an agenda" and were curious as to what it was, you could have just asked me instead of speculating out loud and then "warning" everyone. My instant messages work. I usually find being direct gets results - even if the results are "I don't want to talk about that".

I don't think people have a whole lot to worry about from me as I can't force anyone to tell me anything - and I haven't a clue who the people who do talk about this sort of thing are "in real life".

If you don't want to respond, don't. I'd like to know the "lay of the land" (if you'll pardon the pun) - 'cause I'm brand spanking' new here (don't read into that) - and would rather have some clue as to how things are conducted in this little corner of the world rather than making some mistake and making a complete idiot out of myself - but you don't have to say a damn thing to me if you're afraid I'll figure out your deep dark personal secrets from your comments.
 
Crixus:

1.) The answer to your question about what is a reasonable expectation and what is an unreasonable expectation can be found by reading the reviews. Your request for one of us to digest that information and summarize it for your benefit smacks of laziness. If you really want to find out what's what in this industry here's how you do it: read, read and read and then spend some time with a provider. Then post a review for the rest of us.

2.) The fact that you chose to say that you are not a sociologist or a journalist does not reassure me. It actually highlights the fact that you are aware of the fact that your questions could be perceived negatively.

3.) I'm perfectly aware that I could send you a PM but what would be the point of that? My purpose in replying was not to get an answer from you but rather to post my observation that there appears to be a spike in the number of new members asking these sort of open-ended questions; "What are reasonable and unreasonable expectations?" WTF? Here's a normal question; "Does Suzy have smokers breath?" or "Will Suzy give me a BJ?" Do you see the difference? Do you not see why your questions trigger my spidey sense?

4.) I'm perfectly content with the anonymity this board affords me and I have no fear that you will discover and reveal my personal information.

5.) I still believe that your true purpose in asking these questions is more than just simple self edification and do admit that my "use caution when answering" comment was intended to subvert whatever it is that you're doing.
 
Crixus said:
I do indeed have an agenda. A truly nefarious one as well! I'm gathering information because .... I'm curious how this whole little "sub-culture" works! Yes - that's the extent of my evil plan - understanding the people involved in this "hobby" from both sides, and how they interact. Bastard! How dare I be curious and want to know things because I'm new to all this! Shame on me!
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Just hang out on this forum for a while and you'll get an idea about how the sub-culture of client/sex worker operates - or at least the subset of them who post on the internet.
 
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