About 6 years ago I met a woman when I was taking a course, and after a few conversations, we mutually decided to go out for dinner.
Part way through the dinner, she mentioned she considered herself a feminist, and started talking about pay equity, all that kind of stuff, but she was quite reasonable, didn't really sound radical, a man-hater or anything like that. I thought to myself, "OK, we will probably have some different views on some things, but she seems mature enough to interact civilly nonetheless"
I was sort of moderately interested in her.
Boy was I wrong!
When the waiter was finished, he asked if there was anything else, I said "No, just the bill please."
Then I said, "Separate bills please".
You should of seen the look on her face! It just FELL like a ton of bricks, then - get this, - with a seriously pissed look on her face, she ROLLED HER EYES and angrily reached for her purse.
It was just so obvious and deliberate that we literally never said another word, other than me saying goodbye and her not responding!
But... I actually felt good as I walked away after I got over the shock of it, I said to myself, "Whew, boy, you just dodged a nice big bullet."