in the usa it is extremely common for the sp to refuse to see anyone that has not been 'verified' - by independent verification services such as date-check.com and preferred411.com - i provided my actual name and drivers licence # and a work phone # to date-check.com - they presumably called my work, asked for me, and hung up - once verified that i am legit (and not LE) information is destroyed (yes i know! but seems to be true) - except for last 4 digits of drivers licence - this number can be used as a security check by the sp to ensure that the person showing up is the person that was verified (can show my drivers licence with all info covered except last 4 digits - have never had to do this) -absolutely no problems for me then or for past year of membership -these websites also provide verification of the SP for me - not LE, B&S, or scam --neither the SP nor me can get any info about each other -when the SP checks the website for my verification it is via my website name that i have provided - she checks that i am verified and can also see that other SPs have met me and given me an ok (not a review of me! - just reported that i am ok or not - would see again or would not etc) - system works well and protects both parties -she is also more comfortable about meeting me even before we meet (better greetings?) -i also feel more comfortable knowing that she only sees other serious and careful verified hobbyists -(eg. http://tawnybrie.escort24h.com/?fv )- not a solution for KW i know but thought it would be worth sharing for any terbites going sometime to the usa (frustrating to get to vegas and find out that you cant meet any of the quality girls that you would like to and have to deal with the rampant scams, thefts, b&s etc instead) - agree that the best local idea is as has been suggested to check terb for his reviews and guts
re jamie's safety and id issues
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I think I'd give up hobbying before showing an SP my drivers lic. That goes too far in my eyes.
Like someone else said show me your honey and you'll see mine.
Like someone else said show me your honey and you'll see mine.
agreed - as i said its only the last 4 digits in any event, and i never have been asked -only relaying the info -because the insistence on date-check or preferred 411 is very common - new york, boston, vegas, los angeles, phoenix and san diego for eg.
She's just trying to put us on the map:
New York, Vegas, LA, Cambridge....just makes sense. lol
At least she's trying to be safe.
New York, Vegas, LA, Cambridge....just makes sense. lol
At least she's trying to be safe.
I agree on Jamie being safe. Thats totally up to her discretion
But showing someone and letting them copy my personal info down doesn't make me safe. This game has always been a gamble for both the John and the SP.
As I said, goodbye hobby if it ever gets to that. Luckily this is not the norm.
Plenty of ladies to see without that hassle.
But showing someone and letting them copy my personal info down doesn't make me safe. This game has always been a gamble for both the John and the SP.
As I said, goodbye hobby if it ever gets to that. Luckily this is not the norm.
Plenty of ladies to see without that hassle.
How many times can one person say "OK I GIVE!!!!!" before they are heard?
You're right, and I'm not. You know stuff, and I'm just learning. You've been around, I haven't. I erred on the side of being too cautious. Obviously I'm mending my ways, but do you need to heap the grief on?
I'm learning as I go here, and really, being mean to a newbie for no good reason really sucks.
You're right, and I'm not. You know stuff, and I'm just learning. You've been around, I haven't. I erred on the side of being too cautious. Obviously I'm mending my ways, but do you need to heap the grief on?
I'm learning as I go here, and really, being mean to a newbie for no good reason really sucks.
Hey Jamie, I know you are just concerned for your safety. there have been Ladies in the Hamilton area that ask for references from another SP before they book an appointment. The Lady would then contact the reference to see what kind of client they are. I know Diana, Amazonwoman did this and so did VixenVicky.
Jamie, they are just giving you the gears. They are a good group of guys, really. Trying to be cautious isn't a bad thing. It's better than not caring at all.
Well, grounded, I don't know how to answer that question.
I guess you wait until I get a review, and look me up then, if you're interested, lol... Hopefully after next weekend I will have a review. It's a strange situation because while I recognize the importance of having good reviews for building credibility, I don't know what it will be like to actually read a review of my own ummm.....'menu presentations', lol.... though it seems the folks here avoid graphic details for the most part, and give an overall opinion. Also, I don't want to specially ask someone for a review, because I gather you call that a "shill"?
So, I'm working in it.....
I guess you wait until I get a review, and look me up then, if you're interested, lol... Hopefully after next weekend I will have a review. It's a strange situation because while I recognize the importance of having good reviews for building credibility, I don't know what it will be like to actually read a review of my own ummm.....'menu presentations', lol.... though it seems the folks here avoid graphic details for the most part, and give an overall opinion. Also, I don't want to specially ask someone for a review, because I gather you call that a "shill"?
So, I'm working in it.....
grounded said:
It is doubtful that Jamie is "a cop",while the act is legal it is the communication for the purpose that is not, and so without ever touching one can be charged and unless legaly recorded no charges...........HOWEVER what should make one on edge is possible long term retention of records by an SP that could be used to extort more funds (that came up in fact about ten years ago here on TERB in Cambridge) or that could be revealed in a publicized (sp) police action such as is the case often in the States where politicians and officials are often listed in carreer ending lists.
On the other hand closer to home there are numerous incidents where SP's lives and overall safety are put at risk and we must admire and respect every attempt to be safe.
BACK to the same old same old of the need or desire to make it a legal industry !
Sex Goddess Jamie said:I guess you wait until I get a review, and look me up then, if you're interested, lol... Hopefully after next weekend I will have a review. It's a strange situation because while I recognize the importance of having good reviews for building credibility, I don't know what it will be like to actually read a review of my own ummm.....'menu presentations', lol.... though it seems the folks here avoid graphic details for the most part, and give an overall opinion. Also, I don't want to specially ask someone for a review, because I gather you call that a "shill"?
great, just what we need....
another 30 yr old schoolgirl charging 180hr
seems to me you'll probably be waiting quite a while for that "shill"...i mean review.
Jamie you are right. NEVER ask for a review! And be prepared for the best and worst. I myself have had both but you can't be mad at someone's opinion right?
Hey Swingdancer I only charge 180 per hr or 100 for the half......What a deal.Swingdancer said:
Call Me @
1-800-KFC- KFCK
and I'll set you up Honey hehe
