Raw Sex Vs Safe Sex, in Hobbying

[Sinfulmarv]

I remember once when I first introduced the new service, I agreed to bbbj and when the client arrived he literally had an open wound on his cock… I put a condom on him after explaining that I will NOT put an open wound in my mouth and that he never told me about it before we agreed on services. He was genuinely upset that I didn’t do BBBJ despite the obvious open wound… ever since, I don’t promise anything.

That's a lot of nerve.

I once had a pimple on my member, rare but it happens, and that was enough to not visit any SPs for the week.

 

[Telebass]

That's a lot of nerve.

I once had a pimple on my member, rare but it happens, and that was enough to not visit any SPs for the week.

You should have called Dr. Pimplepopper to take care of it.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

This thread is going on a downward spiral. Surprisingly.

 

[Telebass]

This thread is going on a downward spiral. Surprisingly.

Well, the truth is that safe is always a relative term and never an absolute. Obviously, no protection exposes one to maximum risk. PPE reduces risk to a degree, as does abstaining from anything oral, abstaining from the hobby, being monogamous, abstaining from sex sanitizing your entire existence until your immune system acts up and you become allergic to everything. Oops, back at risk. It is everyone’s responsibility to establish their own safety boundaries. Reading this thread proves attitudes are not universal, which may be cause to err on the side of caution.

 

[anatomy]

Ive never had someone even suggested a dental dam. I provided one time and the person I was with didn't like it.

What I've learned is that everyone has their own preferences. I can say that my personal preferences are to be as safe as possible and someone is going to try and cram down my throat that BBBJ and DATY "are safe" or have "minimal risk". Some lady is going to get offended because she gives everyone BBBJ and thinks its a personal attack, but if i make a statement like "I don't want to offer bbbj under any circumstances" or "I'd rather lick a toilet seat than swallow random guys cum" everyone will be up in arms about some escort exercising her right to choose what service they provide.

There are lots of people who want safer services, they just don't come to a place like Terb searching for a safe service because that's easy to find. Every woman is willing to provide safer services but not everyone woman is willing to do BBBJ or DATY. Its harder to find people offering those services. It seems like that's all people want, but most of the people I see care about their sexual health. I always say that if I did offer those services I'd be stinking rich. I could charge whatever I wanted lol. Its like a blank cheque and a license to print money.

I don't tell people that I think they're disgusting or that theyre gross for doing it... but I have to hear all about their bs reasoning for why I should engage in the same behaviour.

We're supposed to have infinite respect for the person that chooses to be a cum receptical. Everyone that doesnt is a POS.

Thats Terb summed up.

Keep in mind everyone is going to say they never contracted anything ever but the guy that did isn't coming here and raising his hand to volunteer the information that he contracted a disease. Some diseases can go undetected until they turn into cancer.

Ive met the people that have contracted things from sex workers. Its not pretty.

Ive talked with the ladies undergoing cancer treatment for cervical cancer. Probably caused by something they contracted at work. Ive donated to their cancer treatments. Ive heard their stories. Ive heard their regrets and about the families they're terrified about leaving behind.

Oh well, scratch one off from the TDL. Soon an SP encounter will only consist of a CBJ and vaginal intercourse. Thank goodness this hasn't reached the SPs of Montreal.

 

[The Options Menu]

That's a lot of nerve.

I once had a pimple on my member, rare but it happens, and that was enough to not visit any SPs for the week.

I recently rescheduled an appointment because in nicked my dick while grooming.