Seeing all these reviews, people are talking about DATY unprotected, BBBJ, are all these guys really out here risking it or do most in the hobby go for the safter options, No kissing, dental dam or no going down, condom everything?
Raw Sex Vs Safe Sex, in Hobbying
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During covid, I wore a mask during a session with a leolist lady, she insisted on the mask, I examined her pussy with my finger with the mask on, I was professional and thoughtful.
DATY and BBBJ are pretty standard in the industry, amongst other behaviours that carry a decent amount of risk. If these
risks are too much for you (which is understandable) then don't see SP's. There is no 100 percent safe in this world.
risks are too much for you (which is understandable) then don't see SP's. There is no 100 percent safe in this world.
No, most that are hobbying aren’t concerned with fluid exchange. Just look at the number of reviews that now reference what seems to be bare p-sliding. I will personally kiss, and do bare oral, give and take, if the lady is receptive, but any direct genital-to-genital contact has to be covered. I wouldn’t trust anyone who seemed nonchalant about that.
Stick to what you and the lady are mutually comfortable with. I wouldn’t concern yourself with what others do on here, since a growing number are fixated on taking the service as far as possible, wanting all of the risks, it seems, but none of the responsibilities that could come with that.
Ive never had someone even suggested a dental dam. I provided one time and the person I was with didn't like it.
What I've learned is that everyone has their own preferences. I can say that my personal preferences are to be as safe as possible and someone is going to try and cram down my throat that BBBJ and DATY "are safe" or have "minimal risk". Some lady is going to get offended because she gives everyone BBBJ and thinks its a personal attack, but if i make a statement like "I don't want to offer bbbj under any circumstances" or "I'd rather lick a toilet seat than swallow random guys cum" everyone will be up in arms about some escort exercising her right to choose what service they provide.
There are lots of people who want safer services, they just don't come to a place like Terb searching for a safe service because that's easy to find. Every woman is willing to provide safer services but not everyone woman is willing to do BBBJ or DATY. Its harder to find people offering those services. It seems like that's all people want, but most of the people I see care about their sexual health. I always say that if I did offer those services I'd be stinking rich. I could charge whatever I wanted lol. Its like a blank cheque and a license to print money.
I don't tell people that I think they're disgusting or that theyre gross for doing it... but I have to hear all about their bs reasoning for why I should engage in the same behaviour.
We're supposed to have infinite respect for the person that chooses to be a cum receptical. Everyone that doesnt is a POS.
Thats Terb summed up.
Keep in mind everyone is going to say they never contracted anything ever but the guy that did isn't coming here and raising his hand to volunteer the information that he contracted a disease. Some diseases can go undetected until they turn into cancer.
Ive met the people that have contracted things from sex workers. Its not pretty.
Ive talked with the ladies undergoing cancer treatment for cervical cancer. Probably caused by something they contracted at work. Ive donated to their cancer treatments. Ive heard their stories. Ive heard their regrets and about the families they're terrified about leaving behind.
What I've learned is that everyone has their own preferences. I can say that my personal preferences are to be as safe as possible and someone is going to try and cram down my throat that BBBJ and DATY "are safe" or have "minimal risk". Some lady is going to get offended because she gives everyone BBBJ and thinks its a personal attack, but if i make a statement like "I don't want to offer bbbj under any circumstances" or "I'd rather lick a toilet seat than swallow random guys cum" everyone will be up in arms about some escort exercising her right to choose what service they provide.
There are lots of people who want safer services, they just don't come to a place like Terb searching for a safe service because that's easy to find. Every woman is willing to provide safer services but not everyone woman is willing to do BBBJ or DATY. Its harder to find people offering those services. It seems like that's all people want, but most of the people I see care about their sexual health. I always say that if I did offer those services I'd be stinking rich. I could charge whatever I wanted lol. Its like a blank cheque and a license to print money.
I don't tell people that I think they're disgusting or that theyre gross for doing it... but I have to hear all about their bs reasoning for why I should engage in the same behaviour.
We're supposed to have infinite respect for the person that chooses to be a cum receptical. Everyone that doesnt is a POS.
Thats Terb summed up.
Keep in mind everyone is going to say they never contracted anything ever but the guy that did isn't coming here and raising his hand to volunteer the information that he contracted a disease. Some diseases can go undetected until they turn into cancer.
Ive met the people that have contracted things from sex workers. Its not pretty.
Ive talked with the ladies undergoing cancer treatment for cervical cancer. Probably caused by something they contracted at work. Ive donated to their cancer treatments. Ive heard their stories. Ive heard their regrets and about the families they're terrified about leaving behind.
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Daty with a dental dam? Give me a break!
I'm ok with the lady insisting on a cbj as opposed to a bbbj, but a cbj reduces my pleasure by at least 70%.
I'm clean, and have never contracted any diseases from bbbj's. I do feel it's important to shower after any bj, as the bacteria in the lady's saliva can create crotch odour issues if left unwashed.
No way am I ok with bare genital to genital contact of any kind...
Yup agreed, there are clients who prefer covered bj just to be extra safe
There is always some risk.
Even with only safe services.
DATY and BBBJ are generally very low risk.
It is important to get the right vaccinations for HPV and Hep A and B, and get tested regularly.
That is how you protect yourself.
If you are still afraid, then this isn't for you.
Just abstain or stay monogamous with your partner.
Even with only safe services.
DATY and BBBJ are generally very low risk.
It is important to get the right vaccinations for HPV and Hep A and B, and get tested regularly.
That is how you protect yourself.
If you are still afraid, then this isn't for you.
Just abstain or stay monogamous with your partner.
It's sort of disturbing that I've seen that which we cannot discuss being advertised openly on LeoList.
In my opinion if your scared of catching something through bbbj or daty you should not be seeing sp's. Hobbying is not for you. They may not be completely safe but I don't know how anyone has any meaningful level of intimacy with someone without those two things. I add kissing to that list too. To each there own.
The way I look at it is... is picking up a girl at the bar and taking her home and performing DATY or receiving BBBJ any safer?
In my mind, if I pick the proper SP, I believe the proper SP takes her health very seriously and gets tested much more often than the random girl at the bar. I trust the reputable SP more.
My 2 cents
In my mind, if I pick the proper SP, I believe the proper SP takes her health very seriously and gets tested much more often than the random girl at the bar. I trust the reputable SP more.
My 2 cents
They do say you're safer going with a reputable indy provider or agency girl than you are some random Tinder hook-up.
Your first post on this board was literally "does she do massages? anal", in a thread about a service provider, not a "massage attendant".
