Congratulations, ya played yo'self.
I do not know how many more times I can read these threads regardless of the SP. It's no different than giving a stranger money except you have some faint hope that you might just something in return (you won't). The only time this is acceptable is for super highly reviewed/long term SP's that ask for a deposit to book in advance/outcall which I totally agree with from their perspective. You volunteered (key word) so its on you, brotha. She technically didn't scam you.
When I see pic's with a messy room, bong, words like "party friendly" and stuff its an instant red flag for me and I avoid.
Take it as a lesson and stop doing foolish things like that. Move on and upward.