Rate negotiations, Shortchanging, No Shows

[Mr.Gr33k]

What is it with men these days trying to renegotiate SPs rates, shortchanging them during a session, booking and No Show??

Is it economics (Desperate times, desperate measures), antics, misogyny or just good ol fun??

Some guys want SPs to book an incall closer to their convenient location and only book 30-60 minutes. Others give a donation short of a few dollars as if it's a nothing. Blows my mind.

What happened to chivalry or being gentlemen (we are still dealing with ladies)?

 

[The Options Menu]

Yeah, do none of those things.

One lesson from my life in general, and my strip club days in particular, is that trying to be as no-strimgs attached nice (and empathetic) as a person or situation allows, without being a pushover, sucker, or over the top about it, is kind of a superpower. It goes a long way in a lot of situations. The other lesson is that if being nice is going to cost more in time or money than no-strings allows for, then don't do it.

That general rule has carried into me seeing escorts, and I've had a great time. As I age I may increasingly resemble a koala bear with a skin condition (both things I try to manage), but simply being alright to deal with seems to go a long fucking way.

I've said this in the past but you might not be rich, charismatic / charming / funny, or handsome but you can have the appropriate amount of money for the experience at hand (and show up), be no strings attached nice / respectful, and be clean. Remember you are dealing with another person, not just a collection on moist holes for your pleasure.

It's really not rocket science.