Rate negotiations, Shortchanging, No Shows

[Mr.Gr33k]

What is it with men these days trying to renegotiate SPs rates, shortchanging them during a session, booking and No Show??

Is it economics (Desperate times, desperate measures), antics, misogyny or just good ol fun??

Some guys want SPs to book an incall closer to their convenient location and only book 30-60 minutes. Others give a donation short of a few dollars as if it's a nothing. Blows my mind.

What happened to chivalry or being gentlemen (we are still dealing with ladies)?

 

[The Options Menu]

Yeah, do none of those things.

One lesson from my life in general, and my strip club days in particular, is that trying to be as no-strimgs attached nice (and empathetic) as a person or situation allows, without being a pushover, sucker, or over the top about it, is kind of a superpower. It goes a long way in a lot of situations. The other lesson is that if being nice is going to cost more in time or money than no-strings allows for, then don't do it.

That general rule has carried into me seeing escorts, and I've had a great time. As I age I may increasingly resemble a koala bear with a skin condition (both things I try to manage), but simply being alright to deal with seems to go a long fucking way.

I've said this in the past but you might not be rich, charismatic / charming / funny, or handsome but you can have the appropriate amount of money for the experience at hand (and show up), be no strings attached nice / respectful, and be clean. Remember you are dealing with another person, not just a collection on moist holes for your pleasure.

It's really not rocket science.

 

[dotdotdot69]

The no show is probably something they have dealt with in the past where people book a time and then the lady tells others no for that timeslot and nobody shows up. Why? Either it was some teens or so doing pranks or it's their competition messing with them at times. It's cut throat business like anything else. It's probably why at times when people show up the ladies say gimme 10 mins or so which gives them time for a quick shower and change of outfit unless you're some regular. I generally drive over an hour away to see someone worth my time and I will confirm things with them over an hour before I head out for the drive because some people do forget and stuff.

I've never renegotiated terms. Generally donations are dealt with before anything else. I've never done e-transfer nor would I ever. But some have dealt with e-transfer issues where perhaps the person's phone is having issues with service and at that point they can decide how to handle it as in letting the client just leave or telling them come back and going to the nearest bank or reschedule if someone else is booked next.

I've always been professional and respectful. Never was a regular in this hobby and the odd few who pulled the upcharge when I booked for service I let them know I only had enough on hand that was agreed and that entire session is ruined due to their scamming behavior and I've generally just left roughly 2 sessions like that and never repeated. I typically prefer D&D ladies who have good attitude when they expect me to act the same. And if I'm texting them to book and ask questions that weren't already answered and they act rude in a sense I just ghost them and move on.