Rate Matching Question

[Peter485]

I understand that during a duo, the polite thing is to match rates. How does it work if I am hiring one girl for a long date, and the 2nd girl for a short date? For example, if I am hiring the first girl for an overnight, and we invite a 2nd girl to join us for 2 hours.

Not to sound like an accountant, but the rates per hour are very different. How does that work? Do I ignore rate matching as long as the overnight girl makes more than the 2 hour girl? What is the expectation?

 

[FLaPenna]

It's an easy question. You don't offer or propose. You ask the two parties what would be fair.

 

[BlissinOT]

I understand that during a duo, the polite thing is to match rates. How does it work if I am hiring one girl for a long date, and the 2nd girl for a short date? For example, if I am hiring the first girl for an overnight, and we invite a 2nd girl to join us for 2 hours.

Not to sound like an accountant, but the rates per hour are very different. How does that work? Do I ignore rate matching as long as the overnight girl makes more than the 2 hour girl? What is the expectation?

I understand that during a duo, the polite thing is to match rates. How does it work if I am hiring one girl for a long date, and the 2nd girl for a short date? For example, if I am hiring the first girl for an overnight, and we invite a 2nd girl to join us for 2 hours.

Not to sound like an accountant, but the rates per hour are very different. How does that work? Do I ignore rate matching as long as the overnight girl makes more than the 2 hour girl? What is the expectation?

Good afternoon, why don’t you just hire a girl for an overnight instead of trying to get two girls in a weird situation . My advice is to treat the two equally !
Or hire 2 girls for duos who used to do duos together then you guys will enjoy at the same time .
This situation of inviting an another woman over is good when the SP is into couples sessions , so she stays with the couples for x period of time instead of having an overall weird situation. Or a couple decide to invite a SP .

Please Don’t try to sound like an accountant ! Had an accountant client who is very cheap . Maybe try to sound like a philanthrope , an investor, a pilot etc !
Afterwards enjoy !

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

Ive had similar situations, where one of us was booked longer than the other

Every time the client just paid us our individual rates are some providers are less per hour the longer a date is, its easier to just pay each lady their desired rate.

 

[KittyCaterina]

I would consider the two hour duo a separate entity and rate match.

Then once the duo part is over, your overnight rate begins depending on how many hours the overnight is, and the overnight rate would exclude the two hours spent on the duo.


That would be my preference.

Really though, you should ask the ladies booked what their preference is.

 

[Tempest70]

Good afternoon, why don’t you just hire a girl for an overnight instead of trying to get two girls in a weird situation . My advice is to treat the two equally !
Or hire 2 girls for duos who used to do duos together then you guys will enjoy at the same time .
This situation of inviting an another woman over is good when the SP is into couples sessions , so she stays with the couples for x period of time instead of having an overall weird situation. Or a couple decide to invite a SP .

Please Don’t try to sound like an accountant ! Had an accountant client who is very cheap . Maybe try to sound like a philanthrope , an investor, a pilot etc !
Afterwards enjoy !

Hey.... we are all not that cheap! We count the pennies.... but spend them wisely!

 

[Bradder780]

I’ve done this a few times and always have so much fun.
My overnight, over weekend , full week, what ever we will call it offers rates based on the longer sessions. When I call to add a third, I just ask what her rate would for me and a lady friend and pay that. My longer booking never asks for more as she enjoys the extra attention as much as I do.

 

[Josephine]

I understand that during a duo, the polite thing is to match rates. How does it work if I am hiring one girl for a long date, and the 2nd girl for a short date? For example, if I am hiring the first girl for an overnight, and we invite a 2nd girl to join us for 2 hours.

Not to sound like an accountant, but the rates per hour are very different. How does that work? Do I ignore rate matching as long as the overnight girl makes more than the 2 hour girl? What is the expectation?

I would think the 2hr girls get 2hr rates at the highest rates between the 2. If she is the higher rate good for her. I guess I'll echo the other participant tho and ask them first.

 

[Alison_xox]

My two cents :
Everybody’s different, so I would suggest you talk to your providers. It’s not rude or insensitive to ask questions. It’s always appreciated when all the details are been taking care of before the encounter.
It allow the date to start stress free and to avoid any awkwardness.
I also think that setting everything up beforehand, allow a more organic flow during the session.

I hope you enjoy your time. You lucky duck ..

Kisses
Ali

 

[BlissinOT]

Hey.... we are all not that cheap! We count the pennies.... but spend them wisely!

Yeah sure you count the pennies. I spend my money wisely too. I think you are counting so much the pennies that you are becoming cheap towards the SP who don’t ask for that .
Anyway I rather spend my time and energy on men who value me instead of …

 

[canuckhooker]

The answer is simple. Ask both girls what their rate is for the service requested, and then pay them that amount. Don't try matching rates as that just leads to issues. If the lady asks for $X and she is paid $X then what you pay the other lady is irrelevant. Keep it simple but respectful.

 

[arius2021]

The entitlement on this board...

 

[Tempest70]

Yeah sure you count the pennies. I spend my money wisely too. I think you are counting so much the pennies that you are becoming cheap towards the SP who don’t ask for that .
Anyway I rather spend my time and energy on men who value me instead of …

I think you may have misconstrued my tongue in cheek answer to the thread unfortunately. Whilst there may be some individuals who are decidedly tight-asses when it comes to spending their funds, there are those of us who appreciate the finer people in life and therefore generously spend our funds on luxury time. I never look at it as a service, but as an enjoyable experience between two service minded enthusiasts. Hope that helps?

 

[ArgoHater]

The entitlement on this board...

There have been four wonderful ladies who contributed some genuine suggestions.
There is a pattern of posts by the other one...

 

[arius2021]

There have been four wonderful ladies who contributed some genuine suggestions.
There is a pattern of posts by the other one...

Yes, my comments didn't apply to all for sure

 

[BlissinOT]

I think you may have misconstrued my tongue in cheek answer to the thread unfortunately. Whilst there may be some individuals who are decidedly tight-asses when it comes to spending their funds, there are those of us who appreciate the finer people in life and therefore generously spend our funds on luxury time. I never look at it as a service, but as an enjoyable experience between two service minded enthusiasts. Hope that helps?

Maybe you should have written something like …just kidding, LMAO,Lol , snap ,haha ,joke a side , etc … Or an emoji . So I could understand you were kidding.

Being a tight ass is not an issue . The problem is when you see fixed rates for x purpose. « But you decide to argue with someone on her rates »
.I call it lack of respect ! Because no one is going to a restaurant and refuse to pay the bill ! You pay the bill and the taxes associated. There are some restaurants where tips are included as a policy of the restaurant at a percentage and is mandatory.

I understand your viewpoint about how you appreciate the finer things in life . I appreciate those who appreciate me !
Hope that helps .?

 

[BlissinOT]

There have been four wonderful ladies who contributed some genuine suggestions.
There is a pattern of posts by the other one...

This is the second time that you ArgoHater is trying to put me in your salads. I hope you heal from your Hates . I thrive for happiness, joy and a blissful life, and everything that brings happiness to me, hates is not a part of that .
I hope that was helpful .

 

[Theredmilf]

Thanks for asking this question, it shows consideration for everyone’s feelings at the table. This is actually a common request no one should ever feel sheepish asking. I’ve been both the two hour spicey time provider and hosted the longer portion, inviting my GF to join for some. We usually discuss together and work something out that feels fair based on the higher lady’s fee. I’ve only ever had that fall flat once when a client wanted two full days with me and then to bring my GF in for 4hours compensating her for nearly 1/2 of what I was to receive. Make that make sense sir?!

I agree with the comments above that your providers should propose solution so you don’t have to stress about it. I find it’s a good idea to suggest more than one option so we’re not running into a red zone budget wise and also so you guys feel fairly treated.

For those on a tighter duo budget, I prefer you tell me what that is so I can return options to you including things like minimum date lengths, travel fees and service specifics you might want.

It’s really a nice thing when you guys are considerate everyone feels comfortable and enjoying the encounter. There’s no better motivation to show up mentally and physically than a great attitude.