Rant!

[KatiePie]

thats pathetic, these girls are idiots, if you want to pick and choose or you dont like sex get out of the business and go get a part time job at starbucks or something, no one is doing us any favours, we have to PAY MONEY, its not charity work, so its give and take, I think we should all be more picky so we dont get RIPPED OFF and be taken advantage of, these girls need to be told that they are in the sex industry, your having sex with some total stranger for money, end of story, dont like it, get out

and obviously select is going to protect thier girls, because a) all that want is money and b) if they have a bad rep no one is going to work for them and earn them money

so all you skeptics out there who keep questioning negative reviews, a normal perosn if they have a good time wouldnt post negative reviews just for the fun of it, why would they? to drive the girl out of the business and not see her again, I think all of us terbies need to stick together so this industry and these agencies dont continue to rip us off hiring these morons

As many of my clients and friends know, I’m not the kind of person to take things too seriously. However, I was completely repulsed by this post by Dudeboy. This was PMed to me by a friend who agreed that what this poster wrote, is unacceptable.

From what I gathered of the situation posted, a client was unhappy with his date with a girl and asked her to leave. That to me is unimportant, but the nature of his post was his entitlement. I believe the ladies in this industry have a choice as to whether or not they feel comfortable with a client and wish to continue.

They way he referred to escorts as “idiots” and is telling them, “that they are in the sex industry, your having sex with some total stranger for money, end of story, dont like it, get out” and “if you want to pick and choose or you dont like sex get out of the business”.
Escorts are NOT a sub-par class of women, and just like a regular person, we have the freedom to choice to walk-out. We are not “idiots” or “morons”.

As far as agencies go – yes, this is a business and there is a profit. But to say that an agencies intention is to solely make profit with no concern for their girls sounds like propaganda from a man who appears that women aren’t ecstatic to be around him, much less sleep with him, and needs an excuse as to why the women aren’t into his sessions.
We don’t need someone of this mentality in this industry that is full of wonderful and respectful clients, get out.

Thank-you

 

[Brill]

That's a justifiable rant, terb is a review board not an escort policing forum. We're not here to drive anyone out of the business, only warn of bad experiences or share good ones.

We need to show a basic respect for each other.

 

[Amanda_kirby]

*Applauds*

Eloquent rant. But I like to think that the majority of people would agree with you anyway, rather than the character you quoted. Perhaps I'm an optimist...

Amanda

 

[Riley.Royal]

WOW !

I am a bit emotional from reading the dude post and then yours Katiepie. I do not know why people think because some women choose to be in sex work it gives the idea they should call us anything they choose.

What we do for a living does not change who we are people. It's a not more then taking the money and having sex with a complete stranger I wish more would see it is as a craft and a skill to be able to figure out what a client wants and do our best to give it to them.

Not every date/encounter with a client or escort will be a magical sexual hot session and have us walking into the sunset. It's takes many factor to make 2 adults collide and engage in a very personal and intimate activity.

 

[Ladyraven]

As many of my clients and friends know, I’m not the kind of person to take things too seriously. However, I was completely repulsed by this post by Dudeboy. This was PMed to me by a friend who agreed that what this poster wrote, is unacceptable.

From what I gathered of the situation posted, a client was unhappy with his date with a girl and asked her to leave. That to me is unimportant, but the nature of his post was his entitlement. I believe the ladies in this industry have a choice as to whether or not they feel comfortable with a client and wish to continue.

They way he referred to escorts as “idiots” and is telling them, “that they are in the sex industry, your having sex with some total stranger for money, end of story, dont like it, get out” and “if you want to pick and choose or you dont like sex get out of the business”.
Escorts are NOT a sub-par class of women, and just like a regular person, we have the freedom to choice to walk-out. We are not “idiots” or “morons”.

As far as agencies go – yes, this is a business and there is a profit. But to say that an agencies intention is to solely make profit with no concern for their girls sounds like propaganda from a man who appears that women aren’t ecstatic to be around him, much less sleep with him, and needs an excuse as to why the women aren’t into his sessions.
We don’t need someone of this mentality in this industry that is full of wonderful and respectful clients, get out.

Thank-you

Thank you . I am glad I was not the only Lady that felt that was a ignorant thing for him to say..

 

[nolabel]

Escorts are NOT a sub-par class of women, and just like a regular person, we have the freedom to choice to walk-out. We are not “idiots” or “morons”.

KatiePie hit the nail on the head. While it's fine for a reviewer to suggest to readers that a girl might not be into the job and that a career rethink might be wise, this idiot clearly places SP's into some sub-class. I would not be surpised if he also places alot of women in a sub-class.

+1, from a client perspective. I'm positive lots of clients will agree with KatiePie.

 

[elassowipo1]

FYI,

The quote was actually a response to a review in the incall section.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=259650

 

[out4fun]

I don't think you'll find many that share Dudeboy's opinion...at least I hope not. (btw Katiepie, your pic is adorable!)

 

[C Dick]

The unfortunate reality seems to be that lots of clients have pretty negative feelings about women. It makes sense, that some people would feel resentful that they can not get the kind of relationship they want without paying for it. To a certain extent, expressing that resentment here on Terb, where you might reasonably expect a somewhat sympathetic hearing, is ok. If he vents here, but treats people respectfully in person, that is ok with me, up to a point. Unfortunately, lots of clients seem to express their resentment in person, which screws things up for a lot of people.

 

[KatiePie]

The unfortunate reality seems to be that lots of clients have pretty negative feelings about women. It makes sense, that some people would feel resentful that they can not get the kind of relationship they want without paying for it. To a certain extent, expressing that resentment here on Terb, where you might reasonably expect a somewhat sympathetic hearing, is ok. If he vents here, but treats people respectfully in person, that is ok with me, up to a point. Unfortunately, lots of clients seem to express their resentment in person, which screws things up for a lot of people.

To say that "lots" of clients have these negative feelings is not true. In my experience, I have met some amazing clients who are now friends outside of this industry. Yes, you do get the rare bad-apple in the bunch, but generally, the clients in this industry have been polite and respectful.

Alike escorts, a lady should be exactly that, a lady. Clean, respectful, as accommodating as possible to both yours and her needs etc. And clients should be the same. This industry already has a bad reputation, regardless of the wonderful people involved, it's about time that things change.

 

[KatiePie]

FYI,

The quote was actually a response to a review in the incall section.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=259650

Yes, I understand the situation. And from what has been posted, Select has taken care of the situation in a professional manner, as always. But what occurred is irrelevant from the girl and her services.

TERB is not a community to be-little women, it is a review board.

 

[moviefan]

Sadly, the industry does attract some hostile people. So does the Internet. Combine the two on a site like TERB and, unfortunately, you are going to see some posts like dudeboy's.

I am hopeful that most people do try to be civil and respectful when they are visiting the ladies.

TERB may be another matter.

 

[fuji]

I disagree strongly with the first half of dudeboy's post where he basically says that escorts should have to fuck everybody, regardless of their feelings on the matter, or get out of the business. In my experience escorts do more or less fuck everyone, and if for some reason they don't want to fuck you, there is probably something horribly wrong with you.

To wit, I have not had much trouble getting escorts to fuck me when I've been horribly drunk and no doubt one of the worst clients ever. Well not quite, because even horribly drunk I am polite enough--but I imagine not a pleasant fuck. It has got to the point where I have repeated sober with the previous night's encounter just to say thank you for putting up with me, you're a pro.

Given what an ass I have been, and still been treated well, if you are getting denied service--you have serious issues.

On the other hand I agree with the second half of his post, the last bit, which says that we should stand by the reviewers who have thick enough skin to post bad reviews.

Bad reviews have got a bad name around here and I agree with those who think that is entirely because the board is funded by advertising paid for by those who are reviewed.

Probably not a good case to make a stand for this point, because dudeboy is obviously a dickhead, based on the first half of his post.

Still--I wish there were more bad reviews.

 

[KatiePie]

I disagree strongly with the first half of dudeboy's post where he basically says that escorts should have to fuck everybody, regardless of their feelings on the matter, or get out of the business.

In my experience escorts do more or less fuck everyone, and if for some reason they don't want to fuck you, there is probably something horribly wrong with you.

On the other hand I agree with the second half of his post, the last bit, which says that we should stand by the reviewers who have thick enough skin to post bad reviews.

Bad reviews have got a bad name around here and I agree with those who think that is entirely because the board is funded by advertising paid for by those who are reviewed.

Probably not a good case to make a stand for this point, because dudeboy is obviously a dickhead, based on the first half of his post.

Still--I wish there were more bad reviews.

I whole-heartedly agree with the "freedom" of bad reviews without censorship from the mods. However, there is a difference between a bad review and a vindictive one. If it was honestly a bad session and the client followed etiquette (clean, polite etc.), then yes, that bad review is understandable.

But there are situations where perhaps the client is not aware of his actions, and the date resulted was unpleasant. I believe that most girls are there to make it a special encounter and do everything in their power to accommodate, but again, we can only work with as much as you give us.

 

[fuji]

I whole-heartedly agree with the "freedom" of bad reviews without censorship from the mods. However, there is a difference between a bad review and a vindictive one.

Absolutely, and the first half of his post spouts some sort of venom that I don't understand.

(btw I edited my post since you quoted it, but I don't think it affects your reply)

 

[Rockslinger]

I wish there were more bad reviews.

I have a theory why there are so few bad reviews. I think only ladies with consistently good reviews survive in this business. Ladies with a couple of bad reviews are usually banished to Siberia (just kidding about Siberia). "Survival of the fittest." It is the same in my company, two bad reviews and you are out the door.

Maybe there should be an "articling student" discounted rate for young ladies just starting out in the business. That way guys won't feel rip off if they pay $70 for a HH and get an average as opposed to a mind blowing experience. (When I was a teenager I use to get my hair cut at a student salon at less than half price.)

 

[genintoronto]

Couldn't agree more with KatiePie's post.

 

[doggee_01]

*Applauds*

Eloquent rant. But I like to think that the majority of people would agree with you anyway, rather than the character you quoted. Perhaps I'm an optimist...

Amanda

no i don't think you are an optimist most people i think will agree with katiepie
BUT being a realist there is always one or two in every crowd who are of dudeboy's opinion

 

[Rockslinger]

allows them to be selective in who they wish to see.

Yes, they should be selective but they should be selective before the gentleman books and lays down his money. BTW One of our favourite escorts on this Board said that if a lady is overly selective, she may wish to consider another line of work. Not every client looks like George Clooney.

Query: Is this really your first post?

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Yes, they should be selective but they should be selective before the gentleman books and lays down his money. BTW One of our favourite escorts on this Board said that if a lady is overly selective, she may wish to consider another line of work. Not every client looks like George Clooney.

Query: Is this really your first post?

Tell him not to worry. Even George Clooney doesnt look like George Clooney every day.