This is my first rant, at least an official one.
Mine is when you meet someone new, and its the start of the getting to know them part why do they have to think it's ok to drill them about what you do for a living.
It all depends on who it is and what social situation you're in....
If it's someone who I just met at some sort of gathering where I am engaged in a general conversation then I will tell them what I do for a living and not get into specifics about it.
I used to escort full-time for a couple of years, left for months or years at a time to pursue different things and have something else to fall back on now. So I can understand the pressure when someone asks an escort what she does for a living. You're esentially living a double life. The stress and pressure that comes with this can be enormous.
Being involved in the escort industry is like turning a light switch on and off. The light isn't on 24/7 anymore and I'm not consumed with 'the life' as many people have coined this as term for 'hooking'. LOL. So when I'm asked what I do for a living legitimately or in the eyes of the morality squad, there are no issues.
If it's a situation where the questions regarding employment are asked in the hopes of pursuing a relationship, then I may go into further detail such as what my job entails, the trials and tribulations, and possibly a general idea on the income scale.
If it's a client, I keep my business to myself. It also depends on the level of trust and how long I have known that person for. If it's a 'Johny come lately' type who I just met and they ask, I attempt to keep the conversation as general as possible. Some people are just nosy so letting clients think I escort full-time makes the situation easier. A lot of them are under the impression that we don't have too much else going on so I just let them think that. No further questions asked. Life is already too complicated... so I just go with the flow. Personally I don't care what they think because most of them don't know me from a hole in the wall.
What happen to the days when men where happy you just had a job and didn't care of the details of it when did this change and when can it go back to the good old days where you were happy just to have a women who will even talk to you without throwing a drink in your face or giving you an elbow in the stomach.
After many decades, men and women have evolved and seeking out someone for a relationship now is like the beginning of a partnership in a business. Gone are the days where women were considered baby making machines or only good enough to stay home and clean the house. Be glad when someone takes interest in you, it shows character. Whether or not, you may not like the questions being asked, they are still relevant. It is a choice you have to come to grips with when these questions pop up. You can be honest with yourself and your conscience and tell the truth and risk someone turning away from you regardless of the social situation you're involved in or diversify your life and look for another job/career where social stigmas are not ultimately attached to you personally. Only you can make these choices but it is up to you to do what is best for you. If these employment questions bother you, it may the fact that the social pressures/stimgas are getting to you.
