When I was young I was always being harassed by fundamentalist Christians to join their group. I even had a landlady who was more interested in me joining her church than collecting the rent. I never had the good fortune of being pressured by the cults that preach free love. I understand that the Children Of God recruited thousands in the 70's by having their womenfolk convert men through sex. The Raelians are now in the news(about 200 of them live in Toronto). An expert on cults claims that the Raelians are media hungry but are not dangerous. I assume that means that they do not employ brainwashing. They do promote free love. I know it would mean putting up with their UFO/Cloning crap, but a courageous Terbite might take one for the team and join the Raelians. He could report back about his experiences and let us know just what their womenfolk are like. Just my two cents worth.