Quick Question

[Ariel Sanchez]

.....What do you guys think is a fair rate for an overnight? Say get together for dinner round 6-7pm and leave at around 10am. Just looking to do more extended types of calls before i leave and i don't mind putting my rate down for this.

Thanks guys,

xoxoArielxoxo

 

[Ariel Sanchez]

Thanks Strongbeau, yeah i was thinking in the $1500 mark. I mean it's funny because i think that if a GENTLEMAN reassured me that we would spend most of the evening out for dinner and drinks, come back to the room have some fun then cuddle while watching a movie and call it a night at a reasonable hour, i would consider something very fair.

xoxoArielxox

 

[hunter001]

Try a silent auction low bid of $1500 and go from there.

 

[tboy]

ONE MILLION DOLLARS
(doing his best doctor evil impression buwahahahah)

No seriously, 12 dollars really.......no wait, $250, no that's not right....$1000.00.... oh I don't know.....

(btw: I "know" you're working by sleeping with the client but I have a hard time getting my head around getting $220+ per hour to sleep.....)

 

[Ariel Sanchez]

I totally agree tboy, that's why i don't think any sp actually charges $220+ to sleep. But mind you that there's a lot preperation that goes into an overnighter for a lady. Sometimes the ladies can't really sleep at all being that it's not their pillow or their bed or their comfort zone. So usually the girl is outta commission for a day or two after an overnight.

Thanks for your input guys,

xoxoArielxoxo

 

[Ariel Sanchez]

I agree, but not to be "full of myself" but in 2 years i've never been turned away or had an exceptionally bad time with anyone. Actually only once, but that was an isolated case and the guy was very racist so i ended up ending the night early and giving him back some of the donation.

Honestly though if the vibe isn't there for either of us then i wouldn't feel offended ending the night early and adjusting the donation.

xoxoArielxoxo

 

[tboy]

OH yeah, I wholeheartedly agree about meeting someone before hand.....that's a given.

As for sleeping etc, don't worry ariel, you'd be wiped out from all the non-stop sex we'd be having so you'd have NO problem sleeping Bwuahahahah (another dr evil impression lol).

As for hourly rate, this has been discussed before on terb and the argument was that the hourly rate is the hourly rate whether you sleep, make popcorn, have sex, pick your nose, whatever....(which is why I disagreed with it lol cuz I didn't pay her to watch me pick my nose....tho there MIGHT be a fetish out there somewhere for that YUCK)

Same goes for travel. I mean I'd LOVE to take one of my favs away for a week but hell, $4500.00 - $5000.00??? that's retarded...and yeah, I know there's the saying that they have to be "on" the whole time but seriously, I have yet to see an sp that is the same way everytime with me. Hell, how her week or night went depends on how she is with me.....

I think it boils down to what the client expects out of your time together. I personally don't just see sp's for sex, I like the female companionship and that's what an overnighter or vacation would be mostly about....I've only ever once taken a gf on a vacation, all the other times I was single at the time and it's REALLY boring to see something fantastic and turn to your right to share it with someone and you're talkin' to air (and you do get some funny looks too lol).....

 

[Macator2003]

Thanks Strongbeau, yeah i was thinking in the $1500 mark. I mean it's funny because i think that if a GENTLEMAN reassured me that we would spend most of the evening out for dinner and drinks, come back to the room have some fun then cuddle while watching a movie and call it a night at a reasonable hour, i would consider something very fair.

xoxoArielxox

Make sure the hotel is "Pet Friendly" Ariel. If this guy's intent is to spend most of the evening out enjoying dinner and drinks (which I agree would be great), having some fun, cuddling and then calling it a night at a reasonable hour he must be .......blind. Make sure that he can bring his seeing eye dog!!!

Having spent time with you (ya, its been a while), I can attest to the fact that it would be virtually impossible to not be waking you up every couple of hours for some more fun

 

[Dodger]

I have had a couple of overnighters, with the same woman and they were only after a relatively extensive period of time prior on a number of occasions. So like Strongbeau said I don't think that meeting a lady for the first time for an overnighter is a good idea.

The first time I paid 2000 the second was a less, but then we had become much closer in that time frame and I was actually helping her out with some other stuff at the time.

The pattern for both dates were pretty simple, dinner back to the room for some steamy making out followed by some fabulous sex a little cool down period then settle into an all night snuggle. Ok I kept waking up believing it was a dream that I had this beautiful woman still beside me. Then in the morning a little closer wakeup snuggle followed by some wonderful wake up sex and a little room service breakfast at a leisurely pace.

Another round of cool down snuggle then driving her home. ACtually I had to send her home the last time by herself as I had appointments to keep in the morning.

All in all I realy appreciate the time's I can spend an overnighter.

So Ariel I would say the 1500 is resonable for what you are offering and expecting

 

[TQM]

There's really no way to answer this:

It really depends on what's being provided to the customer.

We know you are "keeping company" with the client for all those hours, even if you are sleeping for some of them. That's worth something.

But my experience is that I certainly had much higher expectations for such encounters - and like others said, I knew the person very very well, in spite of the "professional" aspect of the relationship. The chick was made well aware of the higher expectations in advance and had agreed to them.

That might not be suitable for you. Prices could go from $800 to $5,000. Really, it all depends.

It also depends on you and what you want and need. If you're okay with the guy and have a pretty good sense that he can only afford $1000 and you really want that grand, well, really the market prices are decided by you here. If you think he's really well off, you should be pushing him up a bit.

 

[jackd1959]

$1000 to $2000 depending on expectations

I've always preferred overnights because I generally want company for dinner and a hockey game and if my companion is staying the night it makes it a much more relaxed and enjoyable time. Especially come playoff time when the games could go into multiple overtimes.

It isn't always necessary to meet in advance before doing an overnight if you have had an opportunity to chat via email or phone, prior to the date. You do need to do a bit more screening for this type of date. If they aren't willing to provide you with enough information to make you feel comfortable then you should definately meet them at least once before providing an overnight.

I agree with Strongbeau that $1500 is a reasonable fee for an overnight. You might also request that dinner be to a nice restaurant instead of in the hotel room. I certainly recommend this if you are seeing the gentleman for the first time. Be sure to request "room service breakfast" as part of the deal. A real gentleman would offer it anyway, but it forces said gentleman to book a room at a hotel that offers room service as opposed to a "Continental Breakfast Buffet". A hotel with "all night" room service is a plus.

 

[tboy]

TQM actually brings up a good point in his last paragraph. (oh I know a certain someone will read this and just CRINGE) but in my biz, I often do jobs for people at and sometimes below what I would normally charge for various reasons.

1) I do it to garner more business from them at a regular rate.
2) I know them and am helping them out of a jam
3) I know they really can't afford to pay full price so I cut them a break
4) It is a job that I want to do (ie: I hadn't tiled in a long time so someone asked me to do a tiling job for them and did it at about half price)
5) She is hot and I wanted to get into her pants (or at least see her out of them lol)

I'm not saying the ladies SHOULD work this way but it is something to consider....(for eg: say she really wanted to go to Bar x but didn't want to alone so part of the deal is that they go to bar x)

 

[Ariel Sanchez]

I usually go by that theory too tboy. I love Mortons Steakhouse, but i know it's kind of expensive, so i usually cut a guy a break if he takes me there. Since the bill is usually around some ladies 2 hour rate, lol.....

This is my dilemma. It's like i want to put my overnight rate down, but can you imagine if i put my rate to say $1350 but then the guy just wanted me on my back the whole night? OMG i'd freak. How do you distinguish between the guys that genuinly just want an unrushed evening of dinner, drinks maybe dancing or a strip club. Obviously same crazy sex and room services, between the guys that wanna order in a pizza and never let you out of the bed because those guys should be charged my regular $2000 rate. lol.....

xoxoArielxoxo

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

I think there might be nothing worse than some slobbery, hairy monster who decides he wants to pet you all through the overnight.

Me I'd be asleep after the second shot and some proper Pinot Noir. Cut to Ariel clicking the clicker and wondering if she can go dancing or something.

 

[lookingforitallthetime]

Ariel, you can stay with me tonight and I won't charge you anything.

 

[tboy]

I usually go by that theory too tboy. I love Mortons Steakhouse, but i know it's kind of expensive, so i usually cut a guy a break if he takes me there. Since the bill is usually around some ladies 2 hour rate, lol.....

This is my dilemma. It's like i want to put my overnight rate down, but can you imagine if i put my rate to say $1350 but then the guy just wanted me on my back the whole night? OMG i'd freak. How do you distinguish between the guys that genuinly just want an unrushed evening of dinner, drinks maybe dancing or a strip club. Obviously same crazy sex and room services, between the guys that wanna order in a pizza and never let you out of the bed because those guys should be charged my regular $2000 rate. lol.....

xoxoArielxoxo

Do what I do: quote on the job at hand (no pun intended) because every situation is different say on your profile overnight rates available upon request and then when someone writes or contacts you, get the details of what he has in mind, then go from there.

I don't know your situation but say you always wanted to go to Punta Cana, and some guy asked about taking you on vacation. You find out what he has in mind (in regards to sex freguency/companship/free time etc) and then quote him a price specifying that you'd like to go there.....

 

[jackd1959]

$1500 - Dinner out 4 star restaurant + Breakfast in Bed

You can generally clear this up when they request the overnight. As for posting it (see above) or simply state Overnight's available upon request and then screen what they are looking for in the overnight.

 

[K Douglas]

I usually go by that theory too tboy. I love Mortons Steakhouse, but i know it's kind of expensive, so i usually cut a guy a break if he takes me there. Since the bill is usually around some ladies 2 hour rate, lol.....

This is my dilemma. It's like i want to put my overnight rate down, but can you imagine if i put my rate to say $1350 but then the guy just wanted me on my back the whole night? OMG i'd freak. How do you distinguish between the guys that genuinly just want an unrushed evening of dinner, drinks maybe dancing or a strip club. Obviously same crazy sex and room services, between the guys that wanna order in a pizza and never let you out of the bed because those guys should be charged my regular $2000 rate. lol.....

xoxoArielxoxo

You're talking 15 hrs in total (from 7:00 pm - 10:00 am). I would think that $100 per hour is very reasonable. Of course it would cost the gentleman the hotel room & dinner ~$2,000 for the festivities.
BTW, I love Morton's too. Its the best steakhouse in the city.

 

[lookingforitallthetime]

BTW, I love Morton's too. Its the best steakhouse in the city.

I didn't know there was a Morton's in the city. I've been to the original in Chicago a few times.

Is it the same quality?

 

[YellowDog]

I usually go by that theory too tboy. I love Mortons Steakhouse, but i know it's kind of expensive, so i usually cut a guy a break if he takes me there. Since the bill is usually around some ladies 2 hour rate, lol.....

This is my dilemma. It's like i want to put my overnight rate down, but can you imagine if i put my rate to say $1350 but then the guy just wanted me on my back the whole night? OMG i'd freak. How do you distinguish between the guys that genuinly just want an unrushed evening of dinner, drinks maybe dancing or a strip club. Obviously same crazy sex and room services, between the guys that wanna order in a pizza and never let you out of the bed because those guys should be charged my regular $2000 rate. lol.....

xoxoArielxoxo

You see them at least once prior to the overnight.