Question: ok to ask multiple providers about availability?

[thumper18474]

Got it. I just wish ladies would get back to me one way or another. I can then make a decision with who and can book.

I have on occasion asked the availability of 3 or 4 ladies..i know who i wanted to see...but work on the premise that i book the first lady that responds to me...i have had replies after i booked with someone and have just said soory i booked with someone else...most times i just get ok..NP....only once did i get a 4 letter seranade for supposedly wasting her time..(..a 10 second text was a waste of time?)

 

[GGGDickson]

I have on occasion asked the availability of 3 or 4 ladies..i know who i wanted to see...but work on the premise that i book the first lady that responds to me...i have had replies after i booked with someone and have just said soory i booked with someone else...most times i just get ok..NP....only once did i get a 4 letter seranade for supposedly wasting her time..(..a 10 second text was a waste of time?)

Yup it has happened to me as well Thumper my man. I just can not win. It is hurry up wait then book the on shit. There has got to be a better way. For me prebook is critical coming all the way from Europe to find out oops not available is a mess.

One of my ATF now has become so busy with regulars we book then when I get here she tells me sorry I have a regular who wants her and I am stuck in a hotel room trying to find an agency girl. Now that is a crap.shoot. Especially when my favorite agency has banned me for over two years.

TO is.become coming so difficult.

 

[Victoria~Catherina]

Yea it is kind of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I noticed that when I try to book agencies a couple weeks in advance they do not respond. What is up with that. I under stand they do not know who I on but can they not prebook a lady or ladies do that time?

Please explain this to me.

not everyone does roleplay , if they do perhaps not well .... you should stick to the ones that advertise role play
there usually more experienced if they advertise that do it

 

[GGGDickson]

I'm not sure how you are wording your emails, so i'm not judging you personally. But in general, if someone is very direct in what they are looking for and sounds serious about booking AND provides the requested info for the lady to agree to booking - they generally will have much better luck.

What frustrates a lot of indy's is when as guy sends out a generic carbon copy email to half a dozen of us and expects that we'll all be jumping to reply. I receive a lot of generic emails that make me wonder if the person emailing is a real person at all or if it's a fake booking, or someone who is serious but was too vague so i'm wary.

Don't send something like:

Bob Noone <justlooking17689@gmail.com>

"Hey

I have some questions. What are your rates? Your pics look hot but are they real pics? What's your menu? Are you free now?"

Versus:

Bob Jenkins <bob.jenkins1967@gmail.com>

"Hello (provider name),

I'm a 45 year old engineer who's visiting Toronto. I saw your add on (ad website). I'm looking for a GFE (or PSE, or fetish, or whatever) type of session for 1 hour incall on Tuesday. My username is bobsleigh18910 and I recently saw Anna Taylor www.AnnaTaylorGfe.com who can provide a reference for me. I'm wondering what time's you have available? Looking forward to hearing from you.

Bob"

While we love to receive more information about yourself and what you're looking for, a basic email with the essentials is already a step above a lot of the inquiries we get. Even just the fact of putting OUR name in the email as opposed to just "hi" and no name, makes it look like a personal email and not a generic one you're sending to 10 t 6 girls. Also not asking questions that are already mentioned on our website (especially rates, unless a lady doesn't have them listed for what you're looking for). Reading her website will give you a lot of the information you want to know and hopefully stop you from asking something already covered, or that she has mentioned is not available.

Thank you for your detailed post. Very insightful. As you point out I try to be very specific what I am looking for. Matter of fact on my recent request I sent out a very detailed request of the fantasy I need them to fulfill. I personalize each one and I only sent about 6 enquires. I got two responses. One young lady is very excited about our event. The other I worry about as she seems very mechanical. Not really into it. Since I am paying $1,000 per lady I would hope I get more than just a few word response. I want her to at least have an interest in the event. My number one and two choices have yet to respond. I will give them a few more days to respond. I feel bad leaving the two others hanging and told them not to give up another gig but that I am awaiting the response by the others. My fear is number one comes back and I choose the one because I was desperate then number one is pissed and never wants me to contacted her or black balls me.

Just a bad situation when others do not respond. It is not like I am trying to book them for a 30 min session or I am trying to nickel and dime them. These are higher end ladies as well. Funny how the lower choices responded first. I just hope it does not blow up in my face in the end.

Oh the challenges trying to book high end SPs in the modern world. Maybe they are holding off because they have a better gig. If it is because they do not want to do it then just say so.

 

[GGGDickson]

not everyone does roleplay , if they do perhaps not well .... you should stick to the ones that advertise role play
there usually more experienced if they advertise that do it

I understand Catherine and I would not approach them if it did not fit their profile. I would not contact brunette lady who is 5'2" tall if I need a 5'10" blonde. I get that. Same with the role or look I require. That is a given. I do vet the ladies before. For example this event I have planned is for a former SP who I want to help live out a fantasy. I am not contacting SPs who do not see ladies. What would the point benin doing that.

So I get that my dear. Role playing is not for everyone.

 

[GGGDickson]

I know I did hit the ladies again with another email in hope I will hear back. If no response I might open it to tall redheads and see what happens. I am very close to booking the enthusiastic blonde. But I just wish the ladies would telling me one way or the other if they want to participate. If the tall redheads do not respond then I hope the other no enthusiast is still available.

Oh what is a guy suppose to do?

 

[GGGDickson]

I replied to your email. I think in your case it is more than simply asking a few ladies if they are free, because what you are looking for is very very involved and specific and not a standard request for sp's, many of which may not want to do role playing or buying outfits for your booking specifically.

Thanks Charlotte. It may not be such a good idea. May need to rethink it.

Thanks for your input. Save me again about $7,000,when all said and done. Glad we had the chat.

 

[kherg007]

Agreed w CE that a more detailed intro is always best. Again, look at it from the sp's POV...she doesn't know you from squat, and she is always taking a risk, so give her info about you - eg age, ethnicity, broadly what you do and assurances you are respectful, clean, and safe - and then what you have in mind on the visit. My problem is time, and availability, and not living in the gta...so I get into town, I have my own clients to juggle...and part of that juggling might be to schedule them so I CAN find an hour free in the day to visit a fave sp. Often the trip comes up with fairly short notice - like 2 days...and I have this window to nail down the time parameters w my own clients, but also that with the lady. And I always prebook because my schedule gets tight, and I like the certainty and can comfortably move from client to sp and back to clients. And I have 24 hours at most to nail down the time. What this means is that I may send inquiries to 2 or 3 favoured sp's, depending upon what i can glean from their posted schedules for that day....And, once the trip is going to happen, the clock is ticking...I do say in the message i am juggling my own clients (and it may be the case I cannot find ANY time to meet an sp) and do apologise for possibly time wasting, but I do throw out some rough time parameters...... (.e.,g "I might be able to be free tuesday morning, as early as 8am but must be finished by 11:30am, or after 3pm but must be finished by 6pm").....in the meantime, I have to find a time w my own clients...so if a lady says "I can only do 10am" then I'll tell my client "let's do tuesday afternoon then" lol..). And I have to build in time if my meetings go long etc... ). And sometimes the client changes the schedule too, at last minute, which puts me in a bad spot w sp. but I always give notice to her as soon as I know of the change. sometimes it is as easy as "you said you could do 10, 11 or noon, can we move our 10am to 11am instead?" But once I agree to a time, I will inform the other ladies that I'll have to try to see them next time. And I always show up and always on time w a smile. But a lot of juggling, but then again, my own client meetings are the reason I can visit these lovely ladies in the first place. Anyhow, long way of saying why I at times would send multiple messages, and I think legitimately so, and always honest w the ladies as to why i'm doing what I'm doing.

 

[GGGDickson]

Agreed w CE that a more detailed intro is always best. Again, look at it from the sp's POV...she doesn't know you from squat, and she is always taking a risk, so give her info about you - eg age, ethnicity, broadly what you do and assurances you are respectful, clean, and safe - and then what you have in mind on the visit. My problem is time, and availability, and not living in the gta...so I get into town, I have my own clients to juggle...and part of that juggling might be to schedule them so I CAN find an hour free in the day to visit a fave sp. Often the trip comes up with fairly short notice - like 2 days...and I have this window to nail down the time parameters w my own clients, but also that with the lady. And I always prebook because my schedule gets tight, and I like the certainty and can comfortably move from client to sp and back to clients. And I have 24 hours at most to nail down the time. What this means is that I may send inquiries to 2 or 3 favoured sp's, depending upon what i can glean from their posted schedules for that day....And, once the trip is going to happen, the clock is ticking...I do say in the message i am juggling my own clients (and it may be the case I cannot find ANY time to meet an sp) and do apologise for possibly time wasting, but I do throw out some rough time parameters...... (.e.,g "I might be able to be free tuesday morning, as early as 8am but must be finished by 11:30am, or after 3pm but must be finished by 6pm").....in the meantime, I have to find a time w my own clients...so if a lady says "I can only do 10am" then I'll tell my client "let's do tuesday afternoon then" lol..). And I have to build in time if my meetings go long etc... ). And sometimes the client changes the schedule too, at last minute, which puts me in a bad spot w sp. but I always give notice to her as soon as I know of the change. sometimes it is as easy as "you said you could do 10, 11 or noon, can we move our 10am to 11am instead?" But once I agree to a time, I will inform the other ladies that I'll have to try to see them next time. And I always show up and always on time w a smile. But a lot of juggling, but then again, my own client meetings are the reason I can visit these lovely ladies in the first place. Anyhow, long way of saying why I at times would send multiple messages, and I think legitimately so, and always honest w the ladies as to why i'm doing what I'm doing.

Good points once I have my confirmation I will send out emails thanking them even if they did not respond. I will tell them to look for the review so they know it did happen.