Question: ok to ask multiple providers about availability?

[GGGDickson]

I have a special event coming up and I need a couple SPs to play a role. I normally just ask my favorite SP. Then await a response. However I have noticed that a number of SPs do not get back to me. So that means I put number two or three in a last minute position.

I have now started to send out multiple requests and await the responses. Then I pick the lady who is interested and available.

Is this acceptable? It is not always first responders but the first one has a good chance to be selected.

I just wanted to get feed back from others to see your thoughts.
In the old days I would do interviews. Hire three SPs for an hour and select the best one for my event. Right now I do not have time and I am not in town.

Look forward to your comments.

 

[JohnHenry]

Interested in off loading the interviews?

 

[GGGDickson]

Interested in off loading the interviews?

Not sure I understand your question?

 

[explorerzip]

Can't see why it wouldn't be ok to ask more than one SP if they are available. Totally different story if you sounded like it's a firm booking only to cancel on her at the last minute. Just my open and honest with an SP and they will treat you well.

 

[TFZL1]

I suspect a lot of guys send out multiple requests. I know one lady who gets quite annoyed at the shoppers, it uses up all her time. She spends most of her time answering questions on location, services, prices and schedule, and then most don't confirm, or some don't show up. She gets pissed at all the time wasters. I definately understand her side of it, but I must admit I've done some shopping myself.
I'll text and when I don't get an answer I'll text another sp. I'm looking for rates, services, availability.
But then my first choice answers. I'm always polite and I say thank you, but not now.
But hearing about the lady's side of it has made me re-think how I do things. I try to plan ahead and find out info from reviews, check her website and ad for schedule.
It's not fair to use up a lady's time asking questions you could have found the answers to with a little looking.
So now, out of respect for the ladies time, I don't contact a lady unless I'm sure I want to book.

 

[MissCroft]

Can't see why it wouldn't be ok to ask more than one SP if they are available. Totally different story if you sounded like it's a firm booking only to cancel on her at the last minute.

This can be a problem. I have occasionally gotten the feeling that I have been the second or third choice .... It is not fair to ask to see an SP on a certain night and then she plans her schedule around that and then gets the "Sorry I can't make it. Something came up." I know that it happens but it is very frustrating for us SPs and really not fair.

 

[GGGDickson]

This can be a problem. I have occasionally gotten the feeling that I have been the second or third choice .... It is not fair to ask to see an SP on a certain night and then she plans her schedule around that and then gets the "Sorry I can't make it. Something came up." I know that it happens but it is very frustrating for us SPs and really not fair.

Yes I understand and that is why I ask. However, I have den out requests for a.specific night and do not hear back. Only a day before she informs me that she can not make it. Then I am scrambling and number two or three are also scrambling. So now I am trying this where I send out to multiple ladies. I do tell them I have informed multiple ladies. I am sure some just do not respond because of that.

 

[MissCroft]

I do tell them I have informed multiple ladies. I am sure some just do not respond because of that.

It is good that you are honest with them but, yes, if someone told me that they had also contacted other ladies, I would be wary. I would think that there would be a high risk of him cancelling on me (because I was not his first choice) so I might be reluctant to take the booking.

 

[DaleyDDD]

It's perfectly fine to contact multiple SPs inquiring. What is not okay would be if you confirmed an appointment or what have you, only to cancel because you found something you liked better. That will get negativity surrounding your name spread pretty quickly amongst SPs.
Just be straight forward about your intentions.

 

[GGGDickson]

It's perfectly fine to contact multiple SPs inquiring. What is not okay would be if you confirmed an appointment or what have you, only to cancel because you found something you liked better. That will get negativity surrounding your name spread pretty quickly amongst SPs.
Just be straight forward about your intentions.

Yea it is kind of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I noticed that when I try to book agencies a couple weeks in advance they do not respond. What is up with that. I under stand they do not know who I on but can they not prebook a lady or ladies do that time?

Please explain this to me.

 

[Breanna Taylor]

Maybe ask for a tentative booking date with confirmation a week prior <3
Its also smart to always have a back up plan

 

[DaleyDDD]

Gladly.

I can only speak for a few agencies, but basically schedules are given in on the week of. The reason being that girls' schedules change frequently, so the likelihood that a lady knows her schedule weeks in advance - and will stick to it - is often not the case. Some SPs know well in advance when they can and cannot work, but often - depending on their lives - that availability changes. It wouldn't be very good business to agree to book something weeks in advance, only to cancel a week before, a few days before, or the day of the desired time.

Yea it is kind of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I noticed that when I try to book agencies a couple weeks in advance they do not respond. What is up with that. I under stand they do not know who I on but can they not prebook a lady or ladies do that time?

Please explain this to me.

 

[GGGDickson]

Gladly.

I can only speak for a few agencies, but basically schedules are given in on the week of. The reason being that girls' schedules change frequently, so the likelihood that a lady knows her schedule weeks in advance - and will stick to it - is often not the case. Some SPs know well in advance when they can and cannot work, but often - depending on their lives - that availability changes. It wouldn't be very good business to agree to book something weeks in advance, only to cancel a week before, a few days before, or the day of the desired time.

Yea that happens a lot. Then I am left holding a bag especially when I have a big event planned. Like the one I have planned on the 11th of Nov. I need to tall elegant blondes to perform a role for me for two hours. I am trying but not getting many takers. I have one young lady who is keen but well others can not confirm.

I will keep trying. I hate after planning all the other elements that they can not make it or there is no one to fill in. I had an event in
Sept and I needed a couple ladies. Had a few interested. Most booked two weeks in advanced. Picked two then the night before they cancelled and the other two were now not available. What a mess.

My favorite SP books up a month maybe even two months in advance. Right now the earliest I can see her is Dec. Crazy.

 

[rhuarc29]

Sounds to me like the problem is in your wording. It's okay to ask all the SPs in the world if they're willing and available, but you shouldn't book an appointment with multiple ladies in anticipation of a couple of them cancelling. On the flip side, SPs shouldn't commit to an appointment, then break that commitment for anything but a serious issue.

 

[GGGDickson]

Sounds to me like the problem is in your wording. It's okay to ask all the SPs in the world if they're willing and available, but you shouldn't book an appointment with multiple ladies in anticipation of a couple of them cancelling. On the flip side, SPs shouldn't commit to an appointment, then break that commitment for anything but a serious issue.

Just so you know I let them know what I am looking for and let them know I am.contacting a number of ladies. If they get back to me and I select them. I book. I never book more than one. Unless I need multiple girls. Once I book.them they are.booked unless they cancel. Building. Then it is a problem trying to get others.

So please do not think I book more than one per gig.

At present I need two tall blondes and I have asked a few if they are available on that night. I gave them what I need and for how long. If anyone gets back to me and they are willing to full fill the bill. I will book them. Once I am booked then others who come back I tell them I am booked.

I think it is fair. Maybe go back to the.old way. Just contact one at a time. Then what is a reasonable amount of time to wait for a response?

Damn things have got complicated. Ladies want you to prebook but then when you try they do not respond. Crazy!

 

[explorerzip]

This can be a problem. I have occasionally gotten the feeling that I have been the second or third choice .... It is not fair to ask to see an SP on a certain night and then she plans her schedule around that and then gets the "Sorry I can't make it. Something came up." I know that it happens but it is very frustrating for us SPs and really not fair.

I definitely agree with you Chloe. Never mind seeing SP's, but having someone cancel an appointment even days in advance can throw off your schedules. I know that you only do outcalls Chloe, so if I am making an inquiry it's serious and not just fishing. Only thing I would have to fish for is a suitable date, time and location and your kitty.... Not that I've done this, but the "sorry I cant make it routine" may happen with incall girls more since the potential client knows that she is going to be at one place for a few days.

I always confirm with a lady a few days if not a week before the appointment to avoid getting schedules get messed up.

 

[explorerzip]

Sounds to me like the problem is in your wording. It's okay to ask all the SPs in the world if they're willing and available, but you shouldn't book an appointment with multiple ladies in anticipation of a couple of them cancelling. On the flip side, SPs shouldn't commit to an appointment, then break that commitment for anything but a serious issue.

Exactly. There's a big difference to just asking if a girl is available and making a booking. Just be clear in your messages to her so she knows whats going on.

 

[GGGDickson]

Exactly. There's a big difference to just asking if a girl is available and making a booking. Just be clear in your messages to her so she knows whats going on.

Got it. I just wish ladies would get back to me one way or another. I can then make a decision with who and can book.

 

[DaleyDDD]

I would say if a lady isn't getting back to you it's one of two reasons. She's either too busy to handle her inquiries, or she's not interested (which I agree she should inform you). In both cases...on to the next one.
Plenty of fish in the sea.

Got it. I just wish ladies would get back to me one way or another. I can then make a decision with who and can book.

 

[TeeJay]

Can't see why it wouldn't be ok to ask more than one SP if they are available. Totally different story if you sounded like it's a firm booking only to cancel on her at the last minute. Just my open and honest with an SP and they will treat you well.

Some girls actually get all pissed if you ask them if available then don't reply (esp if she was busy and you went with another choice)